The importance of validation in self-esteem and personal identity

The speaker discusses the significance of validation in people's lives, mentioning examples like professional titles, physical appearance, academic achievements, financial status, and social media followers. They express concern about parents giving validation based on grades and looks, which they consider a 'fake system'. The speaker raises questions about how individuals validate themselves, whether through education, wealth, physical appearance, or social validation, highlighting the significant impact of validation on personal identity and self-esteem.