**Dating is Life, not a performance **

Dating often gets portrayed as a fun and lighthearted activity, typically involving outings like drinks or entertainment. However, this perception creates a disconnect between the dating experience and the reality of daily lives. Most individuals cannot afford the luxury activities depicted in the dating culture, leading to a fabricated dating experience that may not translate into a real relationship. To address this, individuals should incorporate authentic activities from their daily lives into their dating approach. Inviting potential partners to join in on routine activities, such as yoga classes or weekend hikes, allows for shared experiences that are grounded in reality. This approach not only reflects genuine interests but also minimizes costs associated with dating; at the very least, participants engage in enjoyable, pre-existing activities, making it a more authentic and efficient way to build connections.