Asking for what you want can open doors to opportunities such as raises, promotions, and access to exclusive experiences. However, many hesitate or mishandle these requests. To effectively express desires, one should be respectful and direct, using words skillfully without being confrontational. Confidence combined with kindness, rather than arrogance, is essential in communication. A negative response shouldn't be seen as a defeat; instead, view it as a prompt for further action or understanding. Additionally, humor can be an effective tool in communication, serving to ease tension or engage an audience.
Bonnie Hammer worked her way up from the mailroom to become the “the most powerful woman in entertainment," according to The Hollywood Reporter. Today, she shares career-supercharging insights from her new book "15 Lies Women Are Told at Work ... and the Truth We Need to Succeed."