In some cultures, like the speaker's Muslim background, it's common for parents to be unaware of their child's dating life until the child announces an engagement. The fear of parental disapproval can lead individuals to keep their relationships hidden, not even discussing going on a date with their parents. This fear is evident as the speaker expresses reluctance to even talk about dating, fearing repercussions from their parents. Despite being perceived as a good daughter, the speaker acknowledges that there are aspects of themselves that may annoy their parents.