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From People-Pleasing to Self-Worth: Insights with Amy Green Smith

Negotiate Anything

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Understanding People Pleasing Beyond Stereotypes

People pleasing is often misunderstood, being mistakenly associated only with shyness or weakness. It manifests in anyone who excessively values the opinions of others, leading to a distortion of their true self. High achievers, including CEOs, may also engage in people pleasing, often revealing their struggles with ruminating on others' perceptions. Importantly, people pleasing is not solely negative; it has roots in primitive defense mechanisms. The concept of 'fawning' has emerged in psychological discussions, where individuals may placate aggressors as a survival strategy, illustrating a more nuanced understanding of the behavior.

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