Recognize the importance of self-awareness regarding one's position and contributions, while also embracing the power of unrealistic ambitions to drive significant achievements. Acknowledging that not everyone is destined to be a groundbreaking innovator like Steve Jobs encourages realism in expectations, yet allowing room for lofty goals fosters creativity and determination. This balance paves the way for extraordinary accomplishments, as underestimating challenges can inspire individuals to pursue ambitious projects without the burden of doubt.
Are fantasies helpful or harmful? How is daydreaming like a drug? And what did Angela fantasize about during ninth-grade English class?
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