Assessing a Partner for Long-Term Compatibility

The speaker deeply enjoys being with their partner and feels proud to be a spectator of their partner's life. They believe that it is important to have attraction, comfort, enjoyment, and pride in a relationship. In addition, the speaker values having a partner who is not just a yes-man and challenges them. They emphasize the importance of feeling safe with a partner during difficult times and going through bad experiences together. The speaker believes that having all these qualities, along with the ability to handle life's challenges, makes their partner a great long-term partner. They also mention the importance of compromise and not trying to change a person to fit their own preferences. They conclude by expressing their love for their partner.