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Value the Close, Not the Far
People often prioritize the opinions of those they do not respect over those they love and respect. This paradox reveals that we tend to seek approval from individuals who may treat us poorly while underappreciating the insights of those closest to us. The security in intimate relationships may lead us to take loved ones for granted, disregarding their contributions. In contrast, we expend unnecessary energy trying to impress those whose approval holds little value. Recognizing this pattern can help realign our focus on valuing and listening to those who genuinely care for us.