50 Fires: Money and Meaning with Carl Richards cover image

Getting Your Money In Alignment with Philosopher and Storyteller Peter Rollins

50 Fires: Money and Meaning with Carl Richards

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Desire Fuels the Unhealthy Pursuit of Completeness

Desire often arises from the fear of loss, driving individuals to pursue what feels unattainable, leading to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The characters, Jack and Jill, illustrate how their perceived lacks compel them towards desires that seem to promise fulfillment—Jack believes that being with Snow White will complete him, while Jill thinks reclaiming Jack will fulfill her. This misguided pursuit is rooted in an unconscious emotional reaction rather than genuine fulfillment. The key is not to eliminate the feeling of lack but to express it in a healthy manner, transitioning from the fantasy of completeness to understanding the true nature of lack. Recognizing that desire is influenced by deeper emotional needs allows for healthier relationship dynamics.

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