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Dealing with Avoidant Partners
Avoidant partners cannot be changed by force; they must choose to open up and lean into discomfort. It is crucial to assess if they are willing to maintain connection and face their fears. Threats and demands only entrench their avoidance behavior. Instead, offer choices and create opportunities for connection without heavy expectations. Continuously invite them to express and connect, reinforcing their autonomy and giving them space to choose.