Blaming others for our unhappiness and portraying ourselves as victims is a common human tendency, but it can lead to a dangerous cycle of accusation and resentment. While it's true that people can hurt each other, taking up a narrative of victimhood as our primary identity can be detrimental. Self-deception often plays a role in blame and victimhood, with individuals accusing others, excusing themselves, and portraying themselves as victims in a unitary act of self-deception. It's essential to set boundaries, seek justice, and tell the truth when wronged, but it's equally important not to let anger poison our souls and spirits. By being honest and vulnerable about life's complexities without succumbing to bitterness, we can prevent the spread of negativity and hatred in our own lives and relationships.

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