A hilarious and insightful conversation between the speaker and Amber Rubar led to the realization that decisions are either a resounding 'fuck yeah' or a definite 'no'. They collaborated on an article, which was later edited down for publication. The speaker and Amber continue to have amazing conversations. Laughter is described as the sound of comprehension, as it signifies a paradigm shift in an instant. The speaker is asked if they have interviewed a stand-up comedian.