Creating Leverage in Relationships

Establishing a fulfilling life with hobbies, interests, career, friendships, and social circles creates an environment that others are drawn to. By focusing on personal growth and fulfillment, one can shift the dynamics in relationships. Instead of chasing attention, others are attracted to individuals who are content with their own lives, leading to a position of leverage where they seek your attention. Learning to say 'no' more than 'yes' establishes boundaries and promotes a healthy dynamic in relationships, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a masculine frame.