You can be very shy about getting below the surface of who you actually might be. Not knowing is great intimacy of inquiring, asking beautiful questions of the other person and of yourself. And so it makes me think about the cycles that you talk about. You say common to all three marriages, right? Which is this sort of recognition of what we want,. Then there's a pursuit, yeah. And then the hope to circumvent the difficult but necessary disappointments. Ya, which is where i think a lot of us get stuck.

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