Fostering Natural Connections in Stepfamilies

Starting early is key when bringing children together in stepfamilies, ensuring the new relationship is stable. Create low-stakes outings for kids to interact naturally and find common ground. Encourage conversations about interests without pressure. If kids don't initially get along, don't force it; instead, identify shared interests and provide opportunities for connection. Stepfamily formation is a gradual process that can take years; it involves significant change for children who lack control over the situation.