The Third Point Is Identity Foreclosure

The more you do something, the more of it that becomes quarter your sense of self. The trap there is that when you hit a rough patch, because everyone does, if you don't have other aspects of your identity, it's going to feel like a complete failure of yourself. Going through that between the ages of 10 and 18 is really hard. Your prefrontal cortex has informed you are looking forYour sense of self and validation in the world. And if you spend so much time doing this one thing and that becomes the driving force of your identity then when you struggle at that one thing, you're going to struggle globally in your life. When you struggle globally inyour life, you're