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74. ALOK: What makes us beautiful? What makes us free?

We Can Do Hard Things

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What's the Difference Between Queer and Queer?

The distinction between queer identities and colonialism is highlighted, emphasizing how colonial rule led to the imposition of gender binaries and the erasure of diverse gender identities. The speaker points out that being disconnected from cultural roots due to colonialism has led to struggles faced by many. They discuss how the colonial project aimed to divide people into strict categories of man and woman, leading to the extinction of gender-variant individuals worldwide. Additionally, the impact of colonialism on indigenous cultures in different parts of the world, like the United States, Canada, and India, is described. The speaker reflects on the internalized oppression within their own community, where being queer is sometimes seen as a sign of assimilation or whiteness. Personal experiences of challenging cultural norms, such as getting pierced or facing family opposition, are shared to illustrate the complexities of cultural identity and freedom. The speaker addresses the deep-rooted trauma and unresolved issues within communities resulting from colonial violence, leading to struggles with self-acceptance and asserting ownership over one's identity and body.

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