The example we set in society matters greatly, as it influences others and has the power to inspire positive change. Being a man means understanding that how you live your life impacts how others turn out, regardless of having kids or not. True masculinity is not about external attributes like beards or tattoos, but about being a real example and bringing out the best in others. A shift towards pursuing excellence and lifting others up can lead to significant positive change in the world. The pursuit of excellence is not about individual achievement but about bringing as many people as possible along for the journey to success.