The Negative Effects of Shame and Shaming

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In this engaging conversation, the hosts discuss the damaging effects of shaming others. They emphasize the importance of separating a person's actions from their inherent worth. Using a curfew example, they highlight the benefits of approaching the situation with understanding and open communication rather than anger. They caution against using anger as a tool for discipline, as it can lead to feelings of smallness and defiance. Instead, they suggest discussing how certain behaviors have hurt them or made them angry. The hosts also acknowledge that not all kids react the same way and encourage parents to find the right approach for each child. They conclude by discussing the tendency to self-loathe after making a mistake and the need to be kind to ourselves instead.

How does a testimony of God’s love help during faith journeys? Dr. Justin Dyer and Sister Aislin Dyer examine how we can face today’s adversities with love, connection, and enthusiasm.

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00:00 Part 1–Dr. Justin Dyer and Sister Aislin Dyer
02:18 Background to Dr. Justin Dyer and Sister Aislin Dyer
04:42 Background to 1 John, 2 John, 3 John, and Jude
07:48 Recurring themes
08:19 Being discerning
10:54 Making connections
12:07 Jesus had a physical body
14:26 Servants of Jesus
17:15 Jesus’s goal for us
19:10 Sister Dyer shares a personal experience with fellowship
21:49 Hank shares a story about a Home Teacher/Ministering Brother
26:39 Loneliness epidemic
31:43 Moroni addresses loneliness
34:53 Church as a potluck dinner
37:05 Dr. Dyer shares a personal story about an answer to prayer
37:48 Jesus as Lord of Light
44:39 John shares a story about his missionary son in Iceland
45:51 Love vs fear
48:03 Sister Dyer shares a personal story about the power of music
51:43 “Perfect love casteth out all fear”
55:04 The reality of sin
57:10 The advantages of a spiritual life
59:49 Avoiding shame through the Savior
1:03:26 Connection vs anger
1:08:18 Avoiding the natural man
1:10: 52 End of Part 1–Dr. Justin and Sister Aislin Dyer

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