Are You a Lone Wolf?

Friendship is more natural for women. It's the verry sort of feminine thing to be relationally good. But that's a very modern invention. If you go back to the nineteenth century, all the great friendships were male. Men were the friendship expets women. Now we've got this thing with relationships where it's all defined in quite feminine, inverted, commas archetypaly feminine terms. That maybe turns men off and goes it itit's not something they can own. I think words like aggressin aggression and leadership, more archetypely masculine phrases and language, i think, can buy men into it and act. better.