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Understanding Identity and Behavior in Parenting
It is essential to recognize that it is never too late to repair relationships with children, emphasizing that parents should not despair over past mistakes. A fundamental belief in the intrinsic goodness of children is crucial, as it differentiates between a child's identity and their behavior. Parents need to consciously separate the two: the child's core self and their actions. This distinction prevents the immediate assumption that a child is 'bad' due to poor behavior. Understanding this separation fosters a more compassionate approach to parenting, allowing for correction of behaviors without labeling children negatively. Acknowledging that misunderstanding behavior does not equate to condoning it is vital, as it creates a supportive environment for growth and learning.