Focus on finding someone at your level of growth

Instead of chasing someone who isn't showing you the effort you desire, consider seeking out individuals who are more aligned with your level of growth and development. Reflect on whether the person you are pursuing is truly compatible with your long-term vision, especially in terms of family life and shared responsibilities. By projecting into the future and evaluating how their patterns may evolve or remain constant, you can make a more informed decision about investing in a relationship that aligns with your values and aspirations.