#404 - Adam Lane Smith - 13 More Harsh Psychology Truths
Modern Wisdom
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I Love but I'm Not in Love With You, Next One
Men who lack integrity and try to please everyone by being a 'perfect nice guy' without opinions or values will not be respected by women, leading to a decrease in sexual desire and eventual relationship dissatisfaction. Women and men bond differently during sex - women experience oxytocin surges, while men bond more through vasopressin, a stress hormone that helps them bond through problem-solving. Men feel more bonded when they can achieve their partner's orgasm together by receiving feedback and guidance, leading to a flood of vasopressin at the end of the experience. Communication and active participation from women during sex are crucial for bonding and satisfaction for both partners.
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