**Assume the person you are questioning knows more than you **

Jocko: As a leader and as a follower, how to ask questions in a respectful way. Lafe pointed out we were talking about the fact of ... he's told a bunch of times of going through the kill house and he's in the back of the train. And you should be somewhere where you can lead everyone," Jocko says. "You don't know what's happening in the front of the train"