
The Happy Wife School
I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors to rebuild their strength and confidence as men.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
Latest episodes

Jun 21, 2024 • 33min
Does Marriage Counseling Work?
Explore the intriguing gender biases present in marriage counseling, where men often face an unfair advantage. The discussion emphasizes the importance of individual accountability over relationship dynamics. Discover how personal emotional states play a crucial role in achieving happiness within a marriage. Unpack the complexities of counseling that sometimes lean towards a 'victim mentality,' and consider new perspectives on fostering healthier connections.

Jun 19, 2024 • 45min
When Your Wife Leaves You: Three Things Good Men Need to Know
In the past couple of weeks, I have had an influx of good men reaching out for help navigating the emotional turmoil of their wives leaving. During this episode, I will share the big picture of how to heal and move forward from this devastating loss.
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:44) Topic Introduction
(05:33) Accepting the Reality of the Situation
(14:33) Growth Through Adversity
(20:12) Your Wife Leaving is a Loss
(30:06) Your Wife Will Have Her Emotional Hooks in You
(35:13) Time to Find Yourself and Rebuild
(41:00) Message for Women Who Are Leaving
Disclaimer:
The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse. Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Jun 13, 2024 • 28min
Does Size Matter: The Truth You Need to Know
Exploring the impact of societal pressures on men's insecurities about size, debunking myths that size matters, and offering solutions for women's concerns. Emphasizing authenticity and vulnerability in intimacy, and navigating self-worth in marriage dynamics.

Jun 8, 2024 • 46min
7 Things A Man Needs from His Wife
Discover the essential emotional needs men seek from their wives, including respect, appreciation, and affection. Explore how a wife's personal growth enriches the relationship and why individuality and playfulness are crucial. Learn about the seven foundational components that can lead to a thriving marriage, offering insights on accountability and clear communication. This conversation emphasizes the importance of nurturing a healthy partnership that benefits both individuals.

May 22, 2024 • 42min
What Makes A Happy Marriage
Explore the outdated notion of a 50/50 marriage and discover what truly fosters happiness. Learn how individual joy is key to a successful relationship. The discussion delves into why women may marry for the wrong reasons and the tendency to avoid discomfort. Uncover the importance of taking responsibility for one's happiness and the role of personal growth in enhancing communication and intimacy. Practical solutions are shared to nurture personal satisfaction, creating stronger marital connections.

May 20, 2024 • 33min
How To Be A Good Wife: 3 Things Your Husband Wish You Knew
Explore the journey of embracing wifehood as a path to self-discovery and growth. Discover why being kind beats just being nice, and how genuine intimacy strengthens your marriage. Learn the importance of accepting your husband for who he is, recognizing the good in him. Authenticity and personal integrity emerge as vital keys to a happy relationship. Dive into these insights for a deeper connection and a more fulfilling partnership!

May 14, 2024 • 39min
Where Did My Fun Wife Go?
Married women often create a fun-sucking vortex through rigidity and control. This can emasculate husbands and poison the marriage atmosphere. The conversation explores how a lack of spontaneity and monitoring behaviors drains joy from relationships, especially in the bedroom. Solutions are offered for both women and men to restore happiness and reclaim fun in their marriages. It's a light-hearted yet insightful look at the importance of joy and flexibility in a partnership.

May 10, 2024 • 37min
How to Have a Healthy Marriage Relationship
Explore the hidden dynamics of marriage that often go unaddressed. Discover how women can pursue personal happiness and the importance of self-reflection in relationships. Learn about the emotional struggles good men face and the need for mutual accountability in fostering connection. Understand the concept of internal versus external locus of control, empowering individuals to take charge of their emotional health. This fresh perspective challenges traditional approaches and offers transformative insights for lasting love.