Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Dive into intriguing discussions about apologizing for reading a partner's messages and the complexities of family dynamics, particularly in emotionally distant WASP-y families. Explore the impact of sibling abuse and the unique challenges it presents. Kirk also shares insights on dealing with weaponized incompetence versus genuine struggles like ADHD. Plus, there's a light-hearted segment where he reveals which animal he relates to, alongside serious reflections on historical erasure and the significance of parental influence on emotional regulation.

Dive into the complexities of psychodynamic formulation as the host analyzes the case of Gloria from the infamous Gloria Tapes. Discover the defenses she exhibits and how her childhood influences her present. Explore her vulnerabilities, strengths, and the intricate dynamics of transference in therapy. The discussion also highlights alternative therapeutic lenses and the impact of parental relationships. Gain insights into the therapist's reactions and how therapy should unfold for Gloria, blending multiple psychological approaches.

Celebrate 17 years of insights as Kirk dives into cooking habits and shares his spam musubi recipe! Explore the depths of disorganized attachment and how it fuels self-sabotage. Kirk reflects on the implications of a hypothetical 200-year life extension and discusses navigating relationships with angry parents. He emphasizes the importance of understanding spirituality in therapy and shares his affection for Berto’s supportive nature. Plus, hear his thoughts on coping with political anxiety and the joys of working with animals in therapy.

Dr. Christopher Ryan, an author and public intellectual known for his works on human nature and civilization, delves into thought-provoking questions about modern life. He critiques the belief that civilization enhances well-being, arguing that our hunter-gatherer past may offer better mental health. Ryan highlights how technology hasn't improved happiness and discusses the importance of community and social connections. He shares practical tips for reclaiming a fulfilling life, promoting minimalism and supportive local tribes as paths to greater freedom and joy.

Ned Fulmer, a former member of the Try Guys and content creator, joins the conversation following his public admission of infidelity. He candidly discusses his regret and the complexities surrounding his marriage with Ariel. The couple shares their journey through the emotional fallout, including Ariel's shock at discovering the affair and her ongoing struggles with forgiveness. They explore accountability, the nature of their relationship, and the importance of therapy for healing. Ned also reflects on his future plans within the content creation landscape.

Listeners dive into the complexities of navigating relationships with best friends turned partners. There’s a fascinating discussion on the significance of recurring dreams about exes and what they reveal about our psyche. The hosts also explore the importance of therapy in internalizing self-worth and the healing power of corrective experiences. Light-hearted banter about personal plans adds a fun twist, making for an engaging mix of insights and humor.

Dive into the intriguing complexities of personality disorders, where misdiagnosis and misconceptions reign. Explore the ten DSM disorders, plus four additional ones, as common pitfalls in recognizing these conditions are laid bare. Discover the challenges clinicians face and the stigma surrounding these disorders. With anecdotes and a wealth of research, the conversation shifts from the serious to the lighthearted, providing both education and entertainment. It's a fascinating look at the often-misunderstood world of personality disorders.

Join the hosts as they tackle fascinating topics, from Rebecca’s grim encounter with a maggot-infested compost to the complexities of trust in relationships regarding herpes. They delve into the stigma surrounding STIs, discussing how to normalize sexual health. A listener shares their struggles as an Israeli expat during the Gaza War, prompting advice on finding community. They also explore the ethical dilemmas therapists face when dealing with politically charged clients. The episode blends humor, psychology, and real-life challenges.

The discussion delves into the traits and symptoms of narcissism, emphasizing attention-seeking behaviors and a lack of empathy. Insights are shared on the impact of narcissistic parents on their children, including critical behaviors and emotional outcomes. The conversation also explores how survivors can heal through supportive relationships and long-term therapy. Techniques for rebuilding self-identity and recognizing past trauma provide a path towards recovery. The importance of self-care is highlighted as a crucial theme.

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