Consider Before Consuming
Fight the New Drug
Think about all of the things you consider every day to help keep yourself, your loved ones, and your community happy, healthy, and hopeful.
Now consider this: There is an ever-growing body of research demonstrating significant negative impacts, for yourself and the ones you love, in the consumption of pornography. It can change the way you think, harm your ability to connect with other people, and can contribute to changing the world in negative ways.
Join us every other week as we consider the harmful effects of pornography using science, facts, and personal accounts.
Consider Before Consuming is brought to you by Fight the New Drug (FTND). FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative nonprofit that aims to raise awareness on the harmful effects of pornography and its links to sexual exploitation using only science, facts, and personal accounts.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
Now consider this: There is an ever-growing body of research demonstrating significant negative impacts, for yourself and the ones you love, in the consumption of pornography. It can change the way you think, harm your ability to connect with other people, and can contribute to changing the world in negative ways.
Join us every other week as we consider the harmful effects of pornography using science, facts, and personal accounts.
Consider Before Consuming is brought to you by Fight the New Drug (FTND). FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative nonprofit that aims to raise awareness on the harmful effects of pornography and its links to sexual exploitation using only science, facts, and personal accounts.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
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Jul 16, 2025 • 50min
I Was Just a Teen When Deepfake Photos of Me Led to Stalking and Harassment
A teenager's life was shattered when explicit deepfake images of her spread online, triggering relentless harassment and stalking. She shares her emotional journey, highlighting the confusion and trauma of navigating digital exploitation. The conversation emphasizes the struggles for justice against a backdrop of ineffective law enforcement and the importance of community support. As she heals, she advocates for empathy, awareness of digital risks, and reforms to protect victims in an increasingly technology-driven world.
Jul 2, 2025 • 49min
My Porn Use Escalated Beyond What I Ever Expected
Jeremiah is a husband, an expecting father, and a self-described lifelong learner who found himself struggling with a compulsive porn habit that began in his teens and escalated in college, when he found himself viewing content he would never act out in real life. In this episode, Jeremiah candidly shares how his use of pornography affected his relationships, mental health, and sense of self, particularly during the early stages of his marriage. He opens up about the moment his wife discovered the truth, the shame he experienced, and what sparked his decision to pursue real recovery. Episode Resources:Article: How Porn Can Become an Escalating BehaviorRecovery ResourcesPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 112: RobertAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 18, 2025 • 33min
How Porn Changed the Way I Saw Sex
A candid exploration of early exposure to pornography reveals its lasting effects on mental health and relationships. The speaker shares their struggles with addiction and the shame felt as a girl facing this issue. The importance of open conversations about sex and pornography is emphasized, highlighting how vital these discussions are for breaking stigma and empowering individuals. Personal stories illustrate the need for community support in healing, advocating for openness to redefine self-identity and combat isolation.
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Jun 4, 2025 • 1h 7min
What You Didn’t Know About OnlyFans Marketing, Recruitment, and Exploitation
Victoria Sinis, founder of Creating Gems, reveals her journey from working at an OnlyFans agency to advocating against the harmful narratives surrounding the platform. She shares shocking marketing tactics and the emotional toll on creators. The discussion tackles the misconceptions of empowerment versus exploitation, the challenges of leaving the adult industry, and the societal pressures young women face. With personal stories, Victoria emphasizes the importance of open conversations about self-worth and the hidden dangers of adult content sharing.
May 21, 2025 • 56min
How to Talk to Kids About Consent, Porn, and Online Safety
Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator and abuse prevention specialist who works to help parents break cycles of abuse through empowered, proactive conversations. In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, she shares her personal experiences with pornography, the dangers of leaving sex education to the internet, and how parents can build safe, shame-free spaces for their children to learn about consent and autonomy. She also dives into how pornography plays a role in grooming, the rise in child-on-child sexual abuse, and why media literacy and digital safety are more important than ever.Episode ResourcesConsent ParentingPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 17: Heidi OlsonBook: I Said No by Kimberly KingBook: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures by Kristen JensonFTND Parent Resource Page
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May 7, 2025 • 38min
"They’re After Everybody’s Kid:" A Family’s Story of Loss to Sextortion
Trigger WarningThis episode includes topics of child sextortion and suicide. Listener discretion is advised. Episode DescriptionIn this episode of Consider Before Consuming, Shannon Heacock and John Burnett share the deeply personal and devastating story of their son, Elijah. Recently, at just 16 years old, Elijah became a victim of sextortion — a form of online exploitation where predators manipulate and blackmail their victims using threats and explicit imagery, sometimes even using AI-generated content. Tragically, the manipulation and fear led Elijah to take his own life. John and Shannon’s courage in telling Elijah’s story is rooted in their hope that it can prevent other families from facing the same heartbreaking loss.Episode Resources Suicide & Crisis Lifeline - Call or Text "988"NCMEC Resource: Take it DownVictim ResourcesArticle: Understanding Sextortion: A Growing Threat and How to Protect Yourself
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Apr 23, 2025 • 46min
How We Can All Help End Human Trafficking
Louie Greek is a Training Specialist with Truckers Against Trafficking, who has spent more than a decade fighting human trafficking, using his expertise in law enforcement and military service to train people on how to recognize, respond to, and ultimately prevent exploitation. In this Consider Before Consuming podcast episode, Louie shares eye-opening insights on the realities of trafficking, the role of demand in fueling exploitation, and the actions we can take to stop it.Episode Resources Truckers Against Trafficking: ResourcesArticle: How You Can Spot, Report, and Prevent Human TraffickingPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 96: Valiant RicheyConversation Blueprint: Let's Talk About Porn
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Apr 9, 2025 • 41min
I Became the Porn Star I Thought I Wanted To Be—The Reality Was a Nightmare
*This episode contains descriptions of sexual violence and sex trafficking. Listener discretion is advised.Selena is the Associate Program Director of a sex trafficking survivor sanctuary. As a former porn performer and sex trafficking survivor, Selena knows firsthand what the women she is helping have experienced.In this Consider Before Consuming episode, Selena sheds light on the dark realities of the porn industry, the deceptive nature of sex trafficking, and the power of resilience.Episode ResourcesArticle: I Was Fine with Porn and the Commercial Sex Industry, Until I Worked in a BrothelVideo: What Being In Porn Is Really LikeVictim ResourcesHope Rising
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Mar 26, 2025 • 1h 2min
How I Healed After Finding Out My Boyfriend Was Secretly Meeting Up With Porn Stars
Mandy is a women's empowerment and trauma-informed life coach who helps women who have experienced betrayal trauma. In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, Mandy shares her personal experience of discovering her partner’s secret struggle with porn addiction, his cheating with porn stars, and the betrayal trauma that followed. She describes the emotional toll, the gaslighting, and the psychological abuse she endured, as well as the healing journey that led her to become a trauma-informed life coach.Episode Resources Article: The Emotional Trauma of Having a Porn-Addicted PartnerMandy's WebsiteConversation Blueprint: Let's Talk About Porn
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Mar 12, 2025 • 55min
How to Overcome Porn Addiction and Find Freedom
Timothy Reigle, a coach and founder of Into The Wilderness Ministries, shares his transformative journey from 15 years of porn addiction to recovery. He discusses the detrimental effects of addiction on his marriage and mental health, and the powerful strategies that enabled his freedom. Emphasizing the importance of community, emotional awareness, and accountability, Tim highlights how reflection and resilience can lead to healing. His insights are framed as a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles.
