

Consider Before Consuming
Fight the New Drug
Think about all of the things you consider every day to help keep yourself, your loved ones, and your community happy, healthy, and hopeful.
Now consider this: There is an ever-growing body of research demonstrating significant negative impacts, for yourself and the ones you love, in the consumption of pornography. It can change the way you think, harm your ability to connect with other people, and can contribute to changing the world in negative ways.
Join us every other week as we consider the harmful effects of pornography using science, facts, and personal accounts.
Consider Before Consuming is brought to you by Fight the New Drug (FTND). FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative nonprofit that aims to raise awareness on the harmful effects of pornography and its links to sexual exploitation using only science, facts, and personal accounts.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
Now consider this: There is an ever-growing body of research demonstrating significant negative impacts, for yourself and the ones you love, in the consumption of pornography. It can change the way you think, harm your ability to connect with other people, and can contribute to changing the world in negative ways.
Join us every other week as we consider the harmful effects of pornography using science, facts, and personal accounts.
Consider Before Consuming is brought to you by Fight the New Drug (FTND). FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative nonprofit that aims to raise awareness on the harmful effects of pornography and its links to sexual exploitation using only science, facts, and personal accounts.
Fight the New Drug collaborates with a variety of qualified organizations and individuals with varying personal beliefs, affiliations, and political persuasions. As FTND is a non-religious and non-legislative organization, the personal beliefs, affiliations, and persuasions of any of our team members or of those we collaborate with do not reflect or impact the mission of Fight the New Drug.
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Mar 12, 2025 • 55min
How to Overcome Porn Addiction and Find Freedom
Timothy Reigle, a coach and founder of Into The Wilderness Ministries, shares his transformative journey from 15 years of porn addiction to recovery. He discusses the detrimental effects of addiction on his marriage and mental health, and the powerful strategies that enabled his freedom. Emphasizing the importance of community, emotional awareness, and accountability, Tim highlights how reflection and resilience can lead to healing. His insights are framed as a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles.

Feb 26, 2025 • 59min
Finding Strength and Healing After Childhood Abuse
Trigger WarningTrigger Warning: The following episode contains discussions of child physical and sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised. Episode DescriptionSeth Gehle is an author and speaker who uses his platform to encourage others to overcome their own challenges and find strength in adversity by sharing his own story of resiliency after a traumatic childhood. In this Consider Before Consuming episode, Seth shares about the years of abuse that shaped his childhood, the role of pornography in shaping his perceptions of relationships, and the path he took to heal.Episode ResourcesVictim ResourcesSeth's Website and BookConsider Before Consuming Ep. 107: Matt and Sarah
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Feb 12, 2025 • 55min
How Porn Culture Fuels Gendered Violence
Trigger Warning*Trigger Warning: The following episode contains descriptions of disturbing porn themes and discussions of child sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised Melinda Tankard Reist is an author, speaker, and the Movement Director of Collective Shout. She's spent many years as a leading advocate against the sexual exploitation of girls and women. In this episode, she shares the impact of porn culture on youth, relationships, and society. She unpacks her latest research on the alarming rise of sexual harassment in schools, particularly toward teachers. She also addresses how boys are being conditioned to see girls as objects through exposure to violent pornography.Episode Resources Article: Porn Impacts Student Sexual Harassment in Schools—Here’s HowVideo: This SANE Nurse Explains How Pornography Inspires Sexual AssaultMelinda Tankard-Reist's WebsiteCollective ShoutSexual Harassment of Teachers Report
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Jan 29, 2025 • 1h 3min
Lydia Cacho on the Links Between Pornography and Human Trafficking
In this engaging conversation, Lydia Cacho, a renowned investigative journalist and human rights activist, delves into her decades-long battle against human trafficking and child exploitation. She uncovers unsettling connections between pornography and organized crime, emphasizing the need for societal accountability. Lydia highlights the dual role of technology in both exacerbating and combating these issues, while advocating for increased male engagement in social justice. The discussion also touches on the importance of supporting teenagers facing pornography addiction.

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Jan 15, 2025 • 57min
The Reality of Trafficking on OnlyFans
Megan Lundstrom, Director of the Resilience Fund at Polaris and founder of The Avery Center, dives into the complexities of trafficking on OnlyFans. She discusses how the platform's portrayal of empowerment often masks exploitation risks, revealing how traffickers prey on vulnerable individuals. Megan highlights the importance of consent and the dire need for better protections on such platforms. Additionally, she sheds light on the supportive role of the Resilience Fund in aiding survivors, emphasizing a systemic approach to combat these issues effectively.

Dec 18, 2024 • 53min
Why Porn Exploits Instead of Empowering Women
Dr. Meagan Tyler, a Senior Lecturer at La Trobe University with nearly 20 years of research on pornography and gender inequality, dives deep into the darker side of porn in this discussion. She highlights how cultural shifts and technology normalize harmful narratives about sexuality. Tyler shares alarming insights on how porn influences intimate partner violence and distorts healthy sexual norms, all while feminist ideals are often misused to disguise exploitation. The conversation encourages a reevaluation of societal views on consent and empowerment, especially for women.

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Dec 11, 2024 • 56min
The Path to Recovery: Addressing the Root Causes of Porn Addiction
Sathiya Sam, a dedicated recovery coach and author, shares his compelling journey from a 15-year battle with pornography addiction to helping others find freedom. He explores transformative ideas like healing past wounds and redefining identity. Discussion highlights include the importance of community support in overcoming shame, the need for open conversations about sexuality, and practical techniques like journaling for emotional awareness. Sathiya emphasizes proactive action and leveraging resources to aid recovery, fostering a path to personal growth.

Nov 20, 2024 • 47min
The Role of Trauma in Addiction, A Conversation with Dr. Frank Anderson
Dr. Frank Anderson, a trauma expert and psychiatrist with over 30 years of experience, delves into the intricate link between trauma and addiction. He discusses how unresolved trauma can lead to compulsive behaviors, particularly in pornography addiction, and the role of self-forgiveness in recovery. Anderson emphasizes healing through authentic storytelling and the importance of community support. He offers hope and practical tools for personal growth, underscoring that recovery is possible for everyone.

Nov 6, 2024 • 1h 24min
The Power of Connection in Overcoming Pornography, a Panel Discussion
In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, we host a panel featuring four individuals deeply involved in the fight against pornography addiction. Chandler, Co-founder and CEO of Relay, shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography and how his experience led to creating a digital platform for recovery. Chris, a licensed professional counselor and certified sex addiction therapist, offers expert insights on the psychological effects of pornography and addiction recovery. Matthew and Dayne, both in recovery from long-term porn addiction, open up about their personal experiences, challenges, and victories in their healing journeys. Together, the panel discusses the power of connection in recovery, the importance of vulnerability, and how community plays a crucial role in breaking free from addiction.Episode ResourcesArticle: How Porn Can Change the BrainArticle: Why the Opposite of Porn Addiction Isn’t Only Sobriety—It’s Real Human ConnectionPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 93: ChandlerJoin RelayBook: The Body Keeps the Score
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Oct 23, 2024 • 55min
Intersections of Race, Gender, and Sexual Exploitation
Melanie Thompson is a survivor of sex trafficking and prostitution, as well as a dedicated speaker and activist in the global fight against commercial sexual exploitation. Trafficked at just 12 years old, Melanie was later arrested and placed in foster care, where she began her advocacy journey at 14. She now serves as the Outreach & Advocacy Coordinator at the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women International.In this episode, we delve into Melanie's powerful story and explore the complexities of trafficking, the misconceptions surrounding platforms like OnlyFans, how pornography promotes violence and harmful stereotypes, and the urgent need for awareness and systemic change.Episode ResourcesArticle: How Mainstream Porn Normalizes Violence Against Black WomenArticle: How Porn Can Misrepresent and Fetishize LGBTQ+ Individuals and RelationshipsPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 90: Taina Bien-AiméMelanie's Podcast: Exit WoundThe Coalition Against Trafficking in WomenRebecca Bender Initiative
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