Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

Have you ever been called soft? Or maybe, you think you are so hardcore with no flaws. We all have something we need to work on. What is yours? A man in the arena allows other men to speak into their lives and help them identify their weaknesses.  www.bvoam.com  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Dr. Clarence Schuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah’s “Love Goals” reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.  "Conflict is not about winning. It’s about understanding." "If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing." "How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God." Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to? www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast  

The TRAIL’S END is FINISHING STRONG because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Why do so many men finish wrong and so few finish strong?   Men in the Arena. Men in the Stress Bubble raising kids right now, listen up! Do you want to finish strong? GOOD!          Here is how. Finish every day strong (6:00 -9:00), compounded over time, will equal a strong LIFE finish. Without these four things, a man is in SERIOUS danger of finishing wrong. This is so important guys! REPUTABLE         (1 Timothy 3:7) There is nothing in my private life that could cause embarrassment to me or my family if it became public. Those who know me best, respect me the most. WISE                           (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) People often come to me for advice. I seek the advice from people I trust before making and big decision. TACTFUL                   (1 Timothy 3:3, and Titus 1:7) I try to make peace when a conflict begins, rather than welcoming a fight. I am not considered to be argumentative. BALANCED                (1 Timothy 3:2)         I rarely overcommit myself. I regularly make time to regroup, reflect, and refresh. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He’s appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He’s spoken at parenting and men’s events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at https://manhoodjourney.org/ or https://fatheronpurpose.org/  THE TOOLS TOOL #1: TRUST GOD “If you’re headed down the path of being a godly dad, you won’t get too far without something guiding your direction. You’re gonna need a true north. Trusting God is the first tool you need in your pack.” TOOL #2: KNOW SCRIPTURE TOOL #3: PRAY FERVENTLY “The more you trust God and the more you know His Word, the more you realize you need Him. You can’t do this alone. You need help. Reliance on God requires communication with God. It’s a two-way transmission that never stops.” TOOL #4: BUILD RELATIONSHIPS “You’re not built to go through this life alone. Forces are waging war against you. For you to have the tool of building relationships, you’ll need to head these relationship killers off at the pass— PRIDE: Self-focus is so subtle you often don’t see it until it’s too late CULTURE: You’re told real men keep silent–if you talk, you’re the odd-man-out COMPETITION: You compete all the time and it’s exhausting.” TOOL #5: SERVE OTHERS “When we serve out of duty, we’re doing it begrudgingly. We do it because we have to. When we’re serving from a place of devotion, we’re serving because we care about the other person. We do it because we choose to. When we serve from a heart of delight, we’re actually, looking forward to serving. We do it because we get to.” TOOL #6: STEWARD RESOURCES “The Godly dad understands everything he has is not his own. His money, time, family, possessions, influence. These are all gifts that must be stewarded well.” TOOL #7: MAKE DISCIPLES “The Godly dad makes disciples. There are two places where you should be discipling others.” www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The DESCENT is LEADING COURAGEOUSLY because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Every year more people die on the DESCENT than the climb. SERVANT (1 Timothy 3:1, and Acts 20:28) I find true joy in serving others. My family would say that I am a willing servant. TEACHER (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:9) I regularly share my Christian beliefs. I often share with others what I have learned in the Bible. LEADER           (1 Timothy 3:4 and Titus 1:6) I consistently lead by Joshua 24:15, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” My wife trusts my spiritual leadership.  SELFLESS (Titus 1:7) I live by C.S. Lewis’ quote that, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It is thinking of yourself less.” I am willing to listen and adjust if someone’s idea is better than mine. Head on over to the website at www.meninthearena.org and grab your FREE Electronic version of Guts and Manhood! www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Patrick is the founder and Executive Director of Ironman Outdoors, a men's ministry whose mission is to "Connect Men to Christ in the Outdoors." Patrick and his army of volunteer pro staffers lead over 40 weekend hunting and fishing retreats for men each year. From humble beginnings in his Sunday School class, the ministry has grown to 14 states and offers life changing weekends for men each year. Patrick and his wife Sheron have 4 children and reside in Blythewood, SC. Our ministry reaches men for Christ through our "manhood discussions." We create a Bass Pro Shop atmosphere where men feel safe taking off their camo! Boots on the Ground: Go to BVOAM Measure where you are as a man to see where you need to take your face paint off. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast  

The summit is PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY because it is apex of masculinity It is the summit of manhood. PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY HOSPITABLE   (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) I come alive when I can bless someone with a gift or help them in a time of need. I love to make people feel welcome. GENEROUS       (1 Timothy 3:3 and Titus 1:7) I give at least 10% my income to the causes I care about. I am known as a generous man. GOOD                (Titus 1:8) I long for the things that please God. I do not allow anything into my mind that would hinder me from becoming God’s best version of me. DEVOUT            (Titus 1:8) I strive to find victory in my life over sin. My life looks different than those who do not follow Christ.   www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Thane Marcus Ringler is a former professional golfer turned speaker, writer, and development coach living in Denver, CO with his wife Evan. Thane is the host of The Up & Comers Show, a podcast all about the process of becoming and living with intentionality, while sharing stories from other inspiring up and comers along the way. Today we are talking about his short ebook called, Catalysts For Hope: Unlocking Energy, Optimism, And Your Full Potential, which is today’s topic for the show. thanemarcus.com  Boots on the Ground Hit Thane up on his website. And go listen to EP 415 The Two Most Important Questions a Man Needs To Answer, and Jim will help you craft your own purpose statement. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Fighting Apathy -  FAITHFUL (1 Timothy 3:2) 1. I follow strict moral boundaries to ensure my fidelity.  2. My wife would say that I consider her the most important person to me. MODERATE (1 Timothy 3:3; Titus 1:7) 1. There is no food, drink, or foreign substance that has mastery over me.  2. I am not overweight for my age, body type, and height.  PEACEMAKER (1 Timothy 3:3) 1. People tell me that I am a team player who works well with others.  2. When I have a problem with someone, I go to them instead of ignoring it. DISCIPLINED (1 Timothy 3:6) 1. I exercise at least 3-4 times a week.  2. I do not engage in gossip or negative talk.  www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Joe Rigney is assistant professor of theology and literature at Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He is also a pastor at Cities Church in St. Paul and the author of: 5 Books including our book for today— More Than a Battle: How to Experience Victory, Freedom, and Healing from Lust. He lives in Minneapolis with his wife and three sons. Boots on the Ground: Women, have a conversation without being threatened about lust with your husband. Men, get into a group of men who will push you because they want you to win.  www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast