Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

The Calm Man sets the tone around him. A hot tempered man sets everyone else on pins and needles. Which are you?  For the overseer must…not (be) quick-tempered. —Titus 1:7 Keep calm and carry on.” —Great Britain Poster, 1939 “Stay calm. EXHALE. Squeeze. Follow through.” —Taped about my bow grip Don’t sin by letting anger control you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry. — Ephesians 4:26, “Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm.” —Publilius Syrus This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. — James 1:19-20  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

What do you do when life knocks you down? UFC fighter Matt Hughes joined us to tell his story of perseverance despite difficult circumstances. Matt Hughes is widely considered among the greatest fighters in the history of MMA. He is a two-time UFC Welterweight Champion, UFC Hall of Fame inductee, and NJCAA Hall of Fame inductee. Matt ended his UFC career 45-9. During his tenures in the Ultimate Fighting Championship, Hughes put together two separate six-fight winning streaks, defeated all the available opposition in the welterweight division, and defended the belt a then-record seven times. In May 2010, Hughes became the eighth inductee into the UFC Hall of Fame. During his reign, Hughes was considered the #1 pound-for-pound mixed martial artist in the world. He was also regarded by many as one of the greatest welterweight fighters of all time, as well as one of the greatest pound-for-pound fighters in the sport's history. In 2008, Hughes published his autobiography, 'Made in America,' which made the New York Times bestseller list.  I love this part, “Hughes has no nickname, although because of his successes against Gracie Brazilian jiu-jitsu practitioners such as Royce Gracie, Renzo Gracie, Ricardo Almeida, and Matt Serra, people often refer to him as "the Gracie Killer". Link to Matt's Highlight Finishes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hd3wEsGzHfs  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast  

What do people in your community say about your witness? Do your actions show that you are a "Christian?" An overseer, then…must have a good reputation with those outside the Church so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.                            —1 Timothy 3:7 “In the midst of a world screaming for answers, Christians are stuttering.”                                      —Howard Hendricks You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord.                  —Leviticus 19:18 “No one will receive Christ through you who will not receive you first.”                                                —Joseph Aldrich, Gentle Persuasion The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”    —Mark 12:31 www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Jim is speaking at Yamhill Christian Church sharing how he listens to the voice of God. When was the last time you went into a quiet place to hear from God?  How to hear from God Heart of a Champion, Are you all in for Jesus? Pencil of a Sharp Shooter, Carry and notepad and pen or pencil. Eyes of a Hunter,  Look for God in the midst of life. Ears of the Preyed upon. Listen for God’s voice. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The Full Capacity Man Is a respected man. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man. The Greatest Gift a Man can Give  An overseer, then, must be…respectable. —1 Timothy 3:2 “I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity.”                                                                                                       — Julius “Dr. J” Erving NBA Star “This is the same word, kosmios, that is translated ‘modesty’—literally, ‘with modesty’ in 1 Timothy 2:9. The basic meaning of the word is ‘orderly’. But Greek writers used it as a source of ‘respectable’ or ‘honorable.’”                                    —Ralph Earle Expositor’s Bible Commentary   Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments. —1 Timothy 2:9 “I'm not concerned with your liking or disliking me... All I ask is that you respect me as a human being.” —Jackie Robinson 1st African American Major League Baseball Player www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

How do we father well despite - and through - our mistakes? Author Dave Wilson joined us to discuss parenting wins and fails, and his book No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality.  For the past twenty-five years, Dave and his wife Ann have been featured speakers at Family Life’s Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.  Dave & Ann host a radio show for Family Life with featured guests on marriage/relationships/money and parenting.   Dave has served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. They have three grown sons, three daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren. Dave and his wife co-authored the book, No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality which is our topic for today’s discussion.  The Four Stages of Parenting: 1. Discipline stage (ages one to five) 2. Training stage (ages five to twelve) 3. Coaching stage (ages twelve to eighteen) 4. Friendship stage (ages eighteen plus) TOP FIVE PARENTING MISTAKES Mistake #1: I left my soul at the office Mistake #2: I was nicer to the mailman than to my kids Mistake #3: I forgot the Bullseye  Mistake #4: I neglected my marriage Mistake #5: I didn’t hug enough Boots on the Ground: Listen to Family Life Today.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

The Full Capacity Man lives above reproach. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man. Are you blameless and unrebukeable? The Full Capacity Man works to attain this in his life.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast  

Doug Pollock is an author, a speaker, a YMCA chaplain, and an affiliate of Athletes in Action whose focus is to help Christ followers worldwide increase the quantity and the quality of their spiritual conversations in practical, doable, and authentic ways. Over the years Doug’s ministry endeavors have taken him to 42 different countries and throughout most of the United States to share God’s never-changing message with an ever-changing world. Currently, his “God Space” book and workshop keep him busy speaking in faith communities worldwide. We will take a look at what these phrases mean.  Jesus Glasses Stepping Out and Entering In Information to Transformation God’s teeter-totter Spiritual appetizers “If we’re going to create God Space for others, it has to start inside us. It takes safe people to create safe places.” The Ten Killers of Spiritual Conversations Killer 1: An Unbelieving Heart Killer 2: Pre-Conversation History Killer 3: Awkward Transitions Killer 4: Our Language, Not Theirs Killer 5: Disrespect Killer 6: Agendas Killer 7: Control Killer 8: Judgement Killer 9: Combativeness Killer 10: It’s All About Me Boots on the Ground: The next time you eat out I want you to PRAY for your waiter of waitress. https://www.godsgps.com/ www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Guys do you meet the qualifications of an elder? Do you know what they are? Men, YOU are designed to carry the full weight of manhood. God has designed you to live as a full capacity man. This series of Equipping in Ten are to introduce Jim's newest book The Full Capacity Man. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Troy Mangum is an author, speaker, podcaster (The Kindling Fire) and men’s advocate. Creator of Hocoka Men- (an initiation experience for young men). A Lumbee Indian Tribal member. Troy lives in Raleigh NC with wife Kathy. He has two sons, two daughters and one son-in-law. A former YWAM missionary, hardcore punk singer, substance abuse counselor, busker, long boarder, exotic fruit farmer, vert skater, singer-songwriter, software engineering manager, traveling hitchhiker and seminary dropout. As fathers we mess up. We need to own these mess ups and find healing and move forward to find freedom.  The Fatherhood Faceplants book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3kMfHfl    Troy's personal website: troymangum.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast