Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson
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The Velvet's Edge Podcast is an invitation to explore the beautiful, messy truth that real growth is an inside job. Hosted by Kelly Henderson—a celebrity stylist and men's groomer who has learned firsthand that "looking good" on the outside only gets you so far—this podcast is a space for the conversations you don't always hear out loud.
Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.
This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.
Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.
This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.
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Jul 25, 2025 • 41min
Grief Isn’t a Straight Line: Rethinking How We Heal What We’ve Lost (The Edge)
Grief comes in all forms—and it’s not just about losing someone. In this episode, Kelly and Chip get honest (and a little unhinged) about the messy, weird, and very real ways grief has shown up in their lives. From heartbreaks and identity shifts to the quiet losses no one talks about, they explore how our culture often skips past grief—and why that doesn’t really work. With their usual mix of humor and heart, they share what’s helped them move through it, what definitely hasn’t, and why healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. If you’ve ever felt like you were doing grief “wrong,” this is your reminder: you’re not. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 23, 2025 • 29min
What If We’ve Been Getting Grief All Wrong? Finding the Magic in the Tragic with John Tsilimparis (The Velvet)
Grief isn’t just about death—it shows up in breakups, job loss, identity shifts, and the quiet heartbreaks of everyday life. In this episode, Kelly sits down with grief expert and psychotherapist John Tsilimparis, author of The Magic in the Tragic, to talk about grief recovery, emotional healing, and why our culture gets grief all wrong. They discuss how unresolved grief can fuel anxiety and panic, the power of mindfulness in emotional chaos, and practical tools for those navigating loss. If you’ve been taught to rush through grief or skip over heartbreak, John offers a completely different approach—one rooted in compassion, mindfulness, and emotional honesty. He shares tangible tools for navigating anxiety, moving through pain instead of avoiding it, and finding meaning in the mess—even when our culture doesn’t give us permission to grieve. John's website: JohnTsilimparis.com Book: The Magic In The Tragic Socials: @jtsilimparis Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 18, 2025 • 51min
Kelly & Chip on Boy Sober Dating, Elvis Encounters, and Birthday Party Chaos (The Edge)
In this week’s episode, Kelly and Chip share hilarious life updates—from Chip’s injury at his mom’s 80th birthday party to Kelly’s bizarre realization that she might have worked with Elvis. (Yes, that Elvis.) They also unpack Kelly’s recent conversation with Hope Woodard about the viral “Boy Sober” movement, what it means to stop chasing validation, and how it’s helping women take their power back in dating. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 16, 2025 • 49min
Boysober & Beyond: Hope Woodard on Love Detox, Dating Patterns, and Reclaiming Your Power (The Velvet)
Viral TikTok creator and comedian Hope Woodard joins Kelly to share the raw, hilarious, and deeply personal story behind Boysober—a self-defined dating detox that turned into a global movement and iHeartPodcast. From chaotic situationships and generational patterns to self-worth and family healing, Hope opens up about what drove her to pause dating, what she learned about herself in that space, and how the movement continues to evolve. This episode dives into what it means to prioritize yourself over being wanted, and how humor, heartbreak, and healing can coexist. Instagram: @justhopinalong Podcast: Boysober Read: 'She's not celibate, she's boysober' Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 11, 2025 • 36min
Modern Marriage, Separate Beds, and Life Lately (The Edge)
Kelly and Chip are back with a catch-up session full of life updates, laughs, and a deep dive into the way modern relationships are being redefined. From couples who live apart to the surprising perks of separate bedrooms, they unpack the rise of “off-kilter” domestic arrangements and why more people are choosing love on their own terms. Chip shares his perspective on how the queer community has long been ahead of the curve in rewriting the rules—and why that might be a good thing for everyone. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 9, 2025 • 36min
Redefining Modern Marriage: Living Apart, Sleeping Solo, and Breaking the Domestic Mold with Dr. Kelly Coyne (The Velvet)
Dr. Kelly Coyne joins Kelly to explore the rise of unconventional domestic arrangements—think married couples who live apart, partners who sleep separately, and stay-at-home dads. As featured in The New York Times and The Washington Post, Dr. Coyne’s work challenges the traditional idea of what marriage should look like and invites us to rethink how we build relationships that actually work for us. Together, they unpack how these modern models can foster independence, intimacy, and emotional growth. Socials: @kelly_coyne Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 4, 2025 • 40min
Can We Talk About the Real Fight Now? (Spoiler: It’s Not the Dishes) (The Edge)
Whether it’s a tense moment mid-podcast, a weird fight with your partner, or a silent meltdown over the dishwasher—this week, Kelly and Chip dig into the moments that seem small but hit surprisingly hard. Inspired by a real-time disagreement between Kelly and astrologer Marv, they explore how emotional triggers sneak into our reactions... and how it’s rarely about what we think it’s about. From ego flare-ups to awkward self-awareness, they break down:– Why that “tiny” comment felt like a personal attack– How to tell the difference between overreacting and finally reacting– What to say when you’re actually feeling hurt (and not just mad about the text)– And the art of not combusting at the cookout With the 4th of July around the corner—aka prime time for family tension and wine-fueled sensitivity—Kelly and Chip offer real (and funny) tips to help you pause, reflect, and maybe not flip a table over the potato salad. Because the fight’s rarely about the thing… it’s about what the thing poked in you. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 2, 2025 • 46min
When the Astrology Hits Mid-Podcast: A Cancer New Moon Plot Twist
Kelly sits down with astrologer Marvin Wilkerson to talk about the deeply emotional waters of the Cancer New Moon—how this lunation calls us to reflect on our inner world, self-image, and the stories we carry from childhood. But halfway through the episode, theory turns into practice as an unresolved issue from a past conversation resurfaces between Kelly and Marv—showing the exact astrology he was explaining in real time. From soul lessons to soft shells, and how our ego can still run the show, this episode is both a cosmic download and a raw, real-time reminder that astrology isn’t just something we study—it’s something we live. Book a personal chart reading with Marv: marvin@astromarv.com Book: Soul Fusion Healing Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 27, 2025 • 35min
From Dreams to Billion-Dollar Ideas: What Your Subconscious Is Trying to Tell You (The Edge)
Piggybacking off Kelly’s conversation with dream expert Bonnie Buckner, she and Chip dive even deeper into the wild world of dreams—sharing personal dream stories (including Chip’s two recurring dreams and Kelly’s latest vivid vision), decoding what they might mean, and uncovering how dreams are actually one of the most underrated tools for creativity and clarity. They also explore how billion-dollar companies like Salesforce were born in a dream, and why daydreaming might be your brain’s most powerful business partner. If you’ve been feeling creatively stuck, craving insight, or just curious about what’s really happening while you sleep—this episode might be exactly what your subconscious ordered. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 25, 2025 • 36min
The Secret Mind: How Dreams Help You Heal, Create, and Get Unstuck (The Velvet)
Dr. Bonnie Buckner joins Kelly to explore the untapped power of your dreams—not just as nighttime entertainment, but as a tool for healing, clarity, and even creativity. Bonnie shares insights from her new book The Secret Mind and breaks down the different kinds of dreams we have, what they’re trying to tell us, and how to interact with them in a way that actually moves the needle in our lives. They also dive into why creativity levels are at an all-time low—and how dreamwork can reignite inspiration, intuition, and deeper self-connection. Whether you’re someone who always remembers your dreams or can’t recall a thing, this conversation will make you think twice about what happens while you sleep. Book: The Secret Mind Website: bonniebuckner.com or institutefordreamingandimagery.com socials: @bonniebucknerdotcom HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
