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Mar 23, 2023 • 1h 13min

Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Pre-Order She Deserves Better and join our launch team! The Launch Team closes on Tuesday, March 28, so get your pre-order receipts in now!Help support our research, plus get access to unfiltered podcasts, an amazing Facebook group, and more, by joining our PatreonLast week's podcast where we looked at the problems with one of Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions around modestyA podcast where we walked through another issue with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions where she spreads rape culture myths, and a post that lays out her survey question that enables date rapeJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Mar 16, 2023 • 59min

Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us

Send us a textTHINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTShe Deserves Better–our new book! Preorder on Amazon, or here are other places to get it (Baker Books has 40% off and free shipping within the U.S.!).Join the launch team if you’re willing to write a review!On Modesty: We shouldn’t sacrifice teens’ well-being for adult men’s comfortJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Mar 9, 2023 • 52min

Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it now (it helps us a ton), and then on Monday I'll give you information on how you can join the launch team. Sign up for my email list so you don't miss out on joining the launch teamA study of gender differences in children and number of words spoken (hint, not much of a difference)An article explaining the issue of faulty claims, and giving the results of a study inspired by these faulty claims.The Mendelberg and Karpowitz study of gendered speech in mixed groups with decision-makingJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Mar 2, 2023 • 55min

Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data!

Send us a textShould we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women!Things Mentioned in the Podcast:Our new book She Deserves Better, which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order!Sign up for my email list to be notified about how you can join the launch team!Our book The Great Sex RescueThe University of Georgia study on teens who don’t dateJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Feb 23, 2023 • 55min

Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon that helps support our podcast! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more!Exodus Cry. Check out the organization and see what they're doing!See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petitions, read their articles, and more!Watch Exodus Cry's documentaries. They're so well done and hard hitting.Follow Benjamin and Exodus Cry on Instagram!Our podcast last week with the woman who was put under church discipline when she wanted to get to safety from marital rape. Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Feb 16, 2023 • 1h 7min

Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline?

Send us a textToday I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage.TRIGGER WARNINGIn the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wanted people to know what she was facing, and to understand her pastor knew this too.NOTE ON NEURODIVERGENCEPart of this woman’s story, she believes, is her husband’s lack of diagnosis for autism, which she believes contributed to his inability and unwillingness to see things from her perspective.Plenty of autistic people are able to relate emotionally with their spouses, even if they do it in different ways. And they value connecting.What is shared in this podcast is merely her story, and we understand that it is not the case with many neurodivergent people, who can have loving marriages.THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTOur new Fixed It for You Workbook! It’s selling so well, and it’s still on for just $4.99–until Monday!The marital rape posts in our original series: The 2 kinds of rape; what to do if you’re a victim of marital rape; 5 next steps if you realize  you’ve coerced your wife into sexKate Shellnutt’s article in Christianity Today about John MacArthur’s church’s further abuse of women, and Julie Roys’ account about Eileen Gray that broke the story.My commentary from last week about the John MacArthur situationJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Feb 9, 2023 • 49min

Episode 178: Fixing Conversations Together! ft. Ngina Otiende & Philip Payne

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!Ngina Otiende: https://intentionaltoday.com/  https://twitter.com/NginaOtiendePhilip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)Philip Payne's TwitterJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Feb 2, 2023 • 57min

Episode 177: The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ft Philip Payne

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)Philip Payne's TwitterJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Jan 26, 2023 • 51min

Episode 176: Bring Back 'Vanilla' Sex!

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and you can get access to our awesome Facebook group, our unfiltered podcasts, and more!This is the LAST WEEK to get the ebook for The Great Sex Rescue for just $2.99! On February 1 it goes up to its regular price!The Orgasm Course! If this is a struggle for you, we can help. https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/Our new book She Deserves Better is out in April! You can pre-order it now.My post Bring Back Vanilla Sex, that a lot of this podcast was based on.Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Jan 19, 2023 • 1h 13min

Episode 175: How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect ft. Nijay Gupta

Send us a textLinks to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, while supporting our work counteracting harmful messages of marriage in the evangelical churchOUR LOVE & RESPECT ONESHEET: Download our new resourceNijay Gupta's upcoming book Tell Her Story. Follow Nijay on Twitter!Our post on Baby Bibles distorting the Genesis accountOur original Love & Respect post, followed by our Open Letter to Focus on the Family, Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs gaslights women in a sermon series, and how he brushes off a case of marital rape.Our rubric and scorecard to see why Love & Respect scored 0/48.Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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