The VIBE with Kelly Cardenas

THE VIBEwith Kelly Cardenas PresentsAre you playing to win… or just trying not to lose?In this bold and soul-stretching episode of The VIBE with Kelly Cardenas, we explore a question that could completely reshape your life, leadership, and legacy:Are you showing up to succeed—or simply trying not to mess it all up?It all started with a quiet moment in the kitchen: Brooklyn Cardenas—this year’s #1 wedding hairdresser in San Diego—walked in with nerves before a wedding. What could possibly shake a woman at the top of her game? Kelly’s honest reflection turns into a full-blown masterclass in high performance mindset, drawn straight from Proverbs 26 and packed with practical wisdom that speaks to the heart.But this isn’t just a personal story—it’s a framework for overcoming three of today’s biggest challenges in business and life:🚩 Top 3 Challenges Solved in This Episode:Performance Anxiety in High Achievers➤ Learn how to reframe anxiety as misdirected love—proof you care deeply. You don’t need less nerves. You need more perspective.Fear-Based Decision Making➤ Stop living in defense mode. Fear of failure is robbing your genius. Discover how to shift from playing not to lose… to playing to win.Mental Fatigue from Overthinking Outcomes➤ Tired of spinning your wheels? This episode brings clarity through the VIBE Method™—aligning your Heart (belief), Mind (intentions), and Skills (actions) so you can lead with wisdom, not worry.🎯 Proverbs 26 lays out the blueprint:Verses 1–3: The only loss you’ll ever take is not showing up to winVerses 4–5: Stop negotiating with fools—especially the one in your own headVerses 6–11: Playing not to lose is addictive... and foolishVerses 12–22: Wisdom protects you from gossip, laziness, and distractionsVerses 23–26: Playing to win gives you an unfair advantage—and it can’t be fakedVerses 27–28: Both strategies yield results... but only one fuels freedomSo, here’s the moment of truth:Are you going to celebrate your nerves as proof that you care deeply… or let them crush you under the weight of "what if"?You already know what to do.Now it's time to choose:Play to win. Every single day.💥 Tap in now and unlock the wisdom that can shift your entire VIBE.📘 Want to learn how small steps > big leaps? Start with Inchstones.This edition of The VIBE with Kelly Cardenas is proudly sponsored by SUBSCRIBE TO MY NEWSLETTER⁠https://thevibebykellycardenas.substack.com?r=4nn6y5&utm_medium=ios⁠BUY THE VIBE BOOK ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/6tgAJ4c⁠⁠ CARDENAS LAW GROUPhttps://www.cardenaslawgroup.com/THE BEST MEXICAN FOOD ON THE PLANEThttps://www.lulusmexicanfood.com/EXECUTIVE PRODUCER - BROOKLYN CARDENAS ⁠⁠https://www.brooklyncardenas.com/⁠⁠

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