Family Vision: Christian Parenting, Marriage & Family Advice

“I hate you.” If you’ve ever heard those words from your child, you know how painful and jarring they can be. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment—“You shall not murder”—and how Jesus reveals that anger and hatred in the heart are spiritual expressions of that same sin. They unpack what it means for parents and children to struggle with anger, bitterness, and hatred—and how we can proactively disciple our families toward healing, grace, and reconciliation. This is a timely conversation for any parent dealing with emotional outbursts, strained relationships, or the heartache of children turning away. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - Why anger and hatred are spiritual violations of the Sixth Commandment - What to do when your child says “I hate you” - How the words we use—like “idiot” or “hate”—reveal the condition of our hearts - The cultural danger of justifying hatred in the name of righteousness - A biblical strategy to help children (and parents) find freedom from anger Featured Resources: Free MP3 Seminar — Helping Your Child Find Freedom from Anger: https://visionaryfam.com/freedom Visionary Family Camp — Join us at Cedar Bay, July 19–25. Register by June 1: https://visionaryfam.com/camp Join the Visionary Family Community — Learn more and sign up at https://visionaryfam.com/community Need Prayer? We’d love to pray with you. Send your requests to podcast@visionaryfam.com. Like This Episode? Help more families discover the podcast by subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we take on the Seventh Commandment—“Do not commit adultery”—and talk about how to help our children and teens pursue purity in a world filled with temptation.

Do guilt and perfectionism sometimes hold you back as a mom? In this special edition of Family Vision, Amy shares a powerful conversation with D6 podcaster Jeremy Lee. They dive deep into the common spiritual battles moms face, including the pressures of perfectionism and guilt, and how the enemy uses these struggles to attack our hearts and relationships with our children. Through biblical wisdom and personal stories, Amy offers practical advice for breaking free from these burdens and embracing God’s grace in our parenting. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - How guilt and perfectionism can sabotage your parenting and relationship with God - Why moms often feel like they’re “bad moms” and how to overcome this lie - The importance of being real and embracing imperfection in your motherhood journey - Amy’s personal journey with guilt and her advice for other moms - The power of letting go of control and trusting God’s plan for your family Featured Resources: Not So Perfect Mom — Amy’s new book on navigating the challenges of motherhood with grace and authenticity. Available on D6 Family or Visionary Family Ministries. Family Worship Guide — Download the free family worship guide: visionaryfam.com/grace Join the Visionary Family Community Become part of a global community of families committed to following Jesus. Learn more here: https://visionaryfam.com/community Need Prayer? We’d love to pray with you. Send your prayer needs to podcast@visionaryfam.com. Help Spread the Word Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube, and share this episode with a friend or fellow mom who could use encouragement! Next Episode Preview: Next week, we’ll continue our series on the 10 Commandments by diving into “Do Not Murder” and Jesus' teaching on anger and hatred. You won’t want to miss it!

Your church has a biblical calling and responsibility to equip and strengthen families. Does your church have a family ministry action plan? In this special edition of Family Vision, Rob Rienow shares a powerful conversation from the D6 Podcast. Whether your church is just catching the vision for family discipleship or looking to go deeper, this episode will give you practical tools and theological clarity to build a family-equipping culture. Rob unpacks why family ministry is not just a parenting program—but a biblical call to equip every believer to live out their faith first in the home. You’ll also learn how to start strong, how to avoid burnout, and how to make family discipleship more than just a trend. From pastors struggling with their own families to parents overwhelmed by family worship, this is an encouraging, hope-filled conversation you don’t want to miss. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - How to build your church’s theology of family ministry - Why family ministry is about more than parenting programs - Practical ways to equip parents, grandparents, singles, and empty nesters - Why repetition is key in equipping parents and church leaders - How to make family worship simple and effective—even if you’re not a Bible expert - Encouragement for pastors and leaders who feel like they’ve “failed” at home Featured Resources: D6 Conference — Learn more about the leading family ministry conference: https://d6family.com Visionary Church Book — Cast vision and equip your team with Visionary Church: How Your Church Can Strengthen Families. Available at: https://visionaryfam.com/visionary-church/ or on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1614841187  Family Worship Free Guide — Download our Genesis Family Worship Guide: https://visionaryfam.com/grace Join the Visionary Family Community Become a part of a growing, global movement of families committed to following Jesus and helping their children do the same. Learn more and join here: https://visionaryfam.com/community Need Prayer? We’d love to pray with you. Send your prayer needs to podcast@visionaryfam.com. Help Spread the Word Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube, and share this episode with a pastor, church leader, or parent who needs this message.

According to surveys, people say that breaking this commandment is the most serious sin of all. Do Not Murder. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the 10 Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment and what it means for families, nations, and our hearts. At first glance, most of us would say we’ve never broken this command. But what does Jesus say? And what about abortion, capital punishment, and self-defense? You’ll hear biblical teaching and real-life stories as Rob and Amy bring grace and truth to this sobering commandment—and offer compassionate help for anyone who has walked through an abortion experience personally or in their family. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - The difference between “kill” and “murder” in the original Hebrew - Why the Sixth Commandment allows for self-defense, just war, and capital punishment - What Jesus says about anger and hatred being murder of the heart - A biblical view of abortion and why language matters - Why the battle for your child’s heart begins at conception - How to respond with both grace and truth to abortion in our families and culture Featured Resources: Join the Visionary Family Community — Families around the world are saying “yes” to following Jesus and helping future generations do the same. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/community Family Camp 2025 — Join us July 19–25 in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan for a powerful week of family worship, teaching, and fun. Details here: https://visionaryfam.com/camp Need Prayer? If abortion or any part of today’s episode has touched a sensitive place in your story, we’d love to pray with you and for you. Email us at podcast@visionaryfam.com. Help Spread the Word Leave a 5-star review and share this episode with a friend. Every click helps more families hear God's Word and follow Jesus together. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we take the Sixth Commandment even deeper. Jesus says that anger and hatred in our hearts are equivalent to murder. What does that mean for how we treat each other in our homes? Don’t miss this important follow-up conversation.

What’s the promise behind the Fifth Commandment? “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land.” In this powerful follow-up episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow explore the biblical promise connected to honoring parents—and why it’s about more than just long life for individuals. You’ll learn how this commandment affects not only individual families, but also entire nations and cultures. Plus, the Rienows offer practical wisdom for teaching children the difference between obedience and honor, and why cultivating a heart of honor leads to deeper faith and healthier relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: - What the Bible really means by “that your days may be long in the land” - The corporate blessing tied to generational honor and faith - How to teach children to honor you without being authoritarian - The crucial difference between obedience and lifelong honor - How dishonor in the home leads to breakdown in society - Encouragement for parents who feel awkward requiring honor Featured Resources: Free PDF – Healing Family Relationships Discover biblical wisdom and steps toward reconciliation in your family. https://visionaryfam.com/healing Cedar Bay Family Camp – July 19–25, 2025 Build lifelong memories and grow closer to God and each other in the beauty of Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. https://visionaryfam.com/camp Visionary Family Community Join a global network of families dedicated to passing faith to the next generation. https://visionaryfam.com/community Upcoming Live Events Don’t miss our Healing Family Relationships Seminar, D6 Conference, and Visionary Family events in IL, FL, GA & IA! https://visionaryfam.com/events Love this episode? Click 5 stars and share the show with a friend. Every rating and share helps more families discover Family Vision and grow in their faith journey. Got a question or prayer request? Email us at podcast@visionaryfam.com Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we continue the 10 Commandments series by exploring "You shall not murder." What does that mean beyond the physical act? And how do anger and hatred play into the deeper meaning Jesus gives us? Join us for a conversation that hits close to home.

“Honor your father and mother.” Easy to say, harder to live. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue the 10 Commandments Series by diving into the Fifth Commandment and why it's one of the most culturally ignored and misunderstood commands today. You’ll hear how modern media undermines this biblical truth, how parents can practically teach honor at home, and why honoring parents is foundational to a child’s spiritual and emotional health. Plus, discover how this commandment is directly tied to God’s blessing for generations to come. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: - Why biblical honor is countercultural in today’s world - How TV and media subtly teach children to disrespect authority - Why parents—not teachers or churches—must primarily cultivate honor in children - How Eli’s failure to correct his sons led to devastating consequences - Practical ideas to help parents encourage their kids to grow in honor Featured Resources: Visionary Family Camp – July 19–25, 2025 Join us in the beautiful Upper Peninsula of Michigan for a life-changing week of family discipleship, fun, and rest. Info & registration: https://visionaryfam.com/camp Visionary Family Community Join families around the world who are dedicated to passing faith to the next generation. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/community Upcoming Live Events Be part of a Visionary Family event in West Chicago, Orlando, or Atlanta. Full schedule: https://visionaryfam.com/events Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Send questions or prayer needs to podcast@visionaryfam.com If this episode encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your reviews help more families discover Family Vision. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we’ll continue exploring the Fifth Commandment—honoring your parents—and provide practical ways your family can grow in this essential virtue. Don’t miss it!

Does your family truly rest? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue the 10 Commandments Series by diving deeper into the Fourth Commandment—“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” In today’s busy world, rest often feels like a luxury or even a weakness. But God designed Sabbath as a gift and commandment—a rhythm of work and rest for our good. Discover how your family can honor the Sabbath, not with legalism, but with intentional rest and reverence for God. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - The biblical difference between Sabbath rest and legalism - Why Sunday became the day of worship for Christians - How families can apply the spirit of Sabbath practically today - Encouragement to prioritize rest—even when life feels too full Featured Resources: Visionary Family Conference — Join us for a weekend that strengthens your faith and family. Upcoming events in Atlanta, Orlando, and more. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community Rest by Maryanne Howard — A thoughtful resource for those longing to rediscover the spiritual importance of rest. Available now: https://d6family.com/product/rest Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at podcast@visionaryfam.com If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your review helps more families discover Family Vision and grow in their faith. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we continue the 10 Commandments Series with the Fifth Commandment: “Honor your father and mother.” What does biblical honor look like in every stage of life? Join us for this vital family conversation.

Does your family have a commitment to resting? In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments Series with a deep dive into the Fourth Commandment: “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy” (Exodus 20:8). What does Sabbath rest mean for families today? Why did God command both work and rest? Join us as we explore the biblical foundation of the Sabbath, why rest is built into creation itself, and how our culture has strayed from God's rhythm of six days of labor, one day of rest. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - Why the Sabbath is about more than just rest - The biblical foundation of the seven-day week - Why honoring the Sabbath is a blessing, not a burden - How legalism has distorted the true meaning of Sabbath Featured Resources: Visionary Family Conferences — Join us in Orlando in April, Atlanta in May, and more! Learn more at: https://visionaryfam.com/events Visionary Family Community — Connect with families worldwide who are committed to faith and discipleship. Join us at: https://visionaryfam.com/community Healing Family Relationships Seminar — Join us April 12th in West Chicago for a powerful event focused on family restoration and biblical healing. Details at: https://visionaryfam.com/events Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at podcast@visionaryfam.com If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your review helps more families discover Family Vision and grow in their faith. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we continue exploring the Fourth Commandment, focusing on how families can practically apply Sabbath rest in a fast-paced culture. What does keeping the Sabbath look like today? Don’t miss it!

What does it mean to be bold for Christ as a student-athlete? In this episode of Family Vision, University of Iowa quarterback Hank Brown joins Rob Rienow to share his faith journey through football. From starting at Auburn to transferring to Iowa, Hank shares how he lives out his faith on and off the field, the challenges of being a Christian athlete, and why courage and intentionality are essential for using sports as a platform for the gospel. If you or your kids are involved in sports, don’t miss this inspiring conversation about faith, identity, and boldness for Christ in athletics. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - How to be intentional about sharing your faith as a student-athlete - Why boldness and courage are essential for witnessing in sports - The importance of keeping Christ above sports in family life - How to navigate church and sports conflicts with biblical priorities Featured Resources: Visionary Family Conference — Join us in Atlanta, and other locations for a life-changing event focused on biblical family discipleship. Learn more at: https://visionaryfam.com/events Visionary Family Community — Join families worldwide who are committed to faith and discipleship. Connect with us at: https://visionaryfam.com/community Follow Hank Brown — Stay connected with Hank’s football journey and faith updates on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hankbrown17 Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at podcast@visionaryfam.com If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your review helps more families discover Family Vision and grow in their faith. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we continue our 10 Commandments Series by discussing the Fourth Commandment: “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” How can families honor the Sabbath in today’s busy world? Don’t miss it!

God commands us to be careful with how we speak His name. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their 10 Commandments Series by exploring the Third Commandment: “You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain” (Exodus 20:7). What does it mean to misuse God’s name, and how can we teach our families to honor and revere it? Join us for this practical and insightful conversation as we uncover how culture has normalized taking God's name in vain, and how we can reclaim reverence for His name in our homes. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - The biblical meaning of the Third Commandment - How culture desensitizes us to misusing God’s name - Why honoring God’s name is an act of worship - Practical ways to teach children to respect God’s name Featured Resources: Visionary Family Conference — Join us in Nashville, Atlanta, and other locations for a life-changing event focused on biblical family discipleship. Learn more at: https://visionaryfam.com/events Visionary Family Community — Join families worldwide who are committed to faith and discipleship. Connect with us at: https://visionaryfam.com/community Shine Bible Study for Women — Explore deeper biblical truths about faith, identity, and honoring God. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/shine Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at podcast@visionaryfam.com If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your review helps more families discover Family Vision and grow in their faith. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode. Next Episode Preview: Next week, we continue our 10 Commandments Series by exploring the Fourth Commandment: “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” What does Sabbath rest look like for families today? Don’t miss it!