Gender: A Wider Lens

With such a scarcity of voices from the surgical community chiming in on about their insights and reflections on gender-affirming care, Sasha and Stella eagerly welcome Dr. Eithan Haim to share his compelling perspective on his experiences and observations at a leading pediatric hospital in the United States.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-151 @EithanHaim on X(Twitter) - https://twitter.com/EithanHaimLegal Defense Fund for Surgeon Whistleblower - https://www.givesendgo.com/texas_whistleblowerBuy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspodFor more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)Genspect at https://genspect.org/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.widerlenspod.comExploring the parallels between the fervor surrounding gender medicine and the hysteria of recovered memory syndrome from the 1990s, both phenomena share a common anchor in the likely resistance of influential figures, like clinicians, therapists and even stake-holders like parents, to change their stance due to personal, reputational, or legal consequences. Read more from Leor about this in his City Journal article linked here:The New Onodas : As evidence mounts against their position, how long will proponents of “gender-affirming care” for minors hold out?A notable distinction between the two phenomena is the extensive institutional capture entwined with gender medicine, a dynamic that didn't quite manifest during the recovered memory craze. But interestingly, as you will hear in this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Leor describes a shared thread that fuels momentum and peaks cultural interests behind both movements - the ongoing internal tensions within feminism and the diverse voices within the feminist spectrum emerging on all sides of each movement.Watch other full length episodes with Leor Sapir here:

Leor Sapir, an expert in gender-affirming care, joins Sasha and Stella to discuss the consumerism of gender-affirming care, bans on gender-affirming care in the US, fostering of narcissism, and parallels with the recovered memory craze from the 1990s.

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.widerlenspod.comDesistance is a gradual process, unlike the initial identification, and parents may not receive any clear announcement from their child about moving away from a trans-identified phase.A child’s trans identity can often serve as a security blanket, saving them from the hardships and pain of their ‘old-life’. It is so important to honor that perception, b…

Join January Littlejohn in this powerful episode as she shares the impact of her daughter's school facilitating social transition without parental consent. Uncover the challenges, strategies, and emotional turmoil of navigating desistance while fighting against a prevailing ideology. Learn about repairing parent-child relationships, setting boundaries, and embracing a radical reset. January's story sheds light on the urgent need for awareness and critical thinking in the face of a misguided ideological wave affecting families.For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-149 Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/ Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspodFor more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coachingTo learn more about our sponsors, visit:Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)Genspect at https://genspect.org/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.widerlenspod.comSome kids may resist healing their gender dysphoria because they cling to it as proof of their transgender identity. They see their dysphoria as essential to their trans identity, and seem to resist letting go of it because it provides them a sense of authenticity and belonging. They can often become fixated on the promise of transformation through social and medical transition, believing it’s the key to happiness, rejecting any other alternatives. In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Sasha and Stella explore reflections and strategies for working with and parenting kids with these ideas and feelings about their gender dysphoria.Visit www.widerlenspod.com to subscribe and hear the full conversation.

Therapists discuss the challenges of supporting gender dysphoric patients, including managing differing worldviews and embracing client-therapist dynamics. They explore the complexities of indoctrination and the need for gentle approaches. The difficulties in therapy for individuals with autism and the importance of insight and emotional connection are also examined. The speakers emphasize the importance of building trust and the therapeutic value of the therapist-client relationship. They highlight the missed opportunity for therapists to engage in conversations about gender and offer tools for approaching the topic with confidence. The trajectory of therapists working with gender trauma is discussed, along with recommendations for training and community support.

The hosts reflect on 3 years of insightful conversations about gender, including big takeaways from 2023 and evolution of the podcast. They discuss challenging the pathologization of normal behavior. They address the detrimental effects of fast-paced gender transition for young children and the importance of cautious and kind conversations about gender. They unveil the reality of gender manipulation in a cult. The hosts also discuss holiday traditions and share personal anecdotes and Irish traditions.

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Gender discourse experts Sasha and Stella debunk myths and misconceptions about gender, emphasizing the danger of blanket statements and the challenge of navigating this intricate topic. They discuss the impact of parental influence and societal expectations on gender, while highlighting the need for nuance and empathy in gender discussions. The conversation serves as a reminder to break down myths, foster understanding, and approach these complex issues with empathy for meaningful dialogue and societal progress.