Authentic Parenting

Are you feeling overwhelmed, or distracted—unable to be fully present? Maybe you’re caught in worry, struggling to rest, or feeling anxious about the state of the world? Do you crave more ease, control peace and balance in your day-to-day life? New to the podcast? Not sure where to start? Download our free TRAUMA KIT — a curated guide with live links to 10 powerful, handpicked episodes to get you started. Explore how trauma shapes your body, brain, nervous system, and relationships — and discover pathways to healing and transformation. Featuring world-renowned experts like Gabor Maté, Deb Dana, Thema Bryant, Paul Conti, and more. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail.  info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services. 

How good are you at the skill of validation? What is validation, and what isn’t? What are its benefits, and how do you actually validate someone? What do people often misunderstand about this crucial, life-changing skill—and so much more? Should we validate positive or negative feelings? How do we determine what to validate? How can we calibrate our reactions to match someone’s distress? Simply put, validation shows that you are present, you understand, and you care. Remember, you don’t have to get it right all the time. You can always do a “do-over,” and perfection isn’t necessary. Get her book: Validation: How the Skill Set That Revolutionized Psychology Will Transform Your Relationships, Increase Your Influence, and Change Your Life New to the podcast? Not sure where to start? Download our free TRAUMA KIT — a curated guide with live links to 10 powerful, handpicked episodes to get you started. Explore how trauma shapes your body, brain, nervous system, and relationships — and discover pathways to healing and transformation. Featuring world-renowned experts like Gabor Maté, Deb Dana, Thema Bryant, Paul Conti, and more. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail.  info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services.   

Hello and welcome to a special new feature here on the podcast—the monthly recap! We’re trying something a little different, and we hope you’ll find it useful. We know that not everyone has time to listen to every episode, and honestly, I wouldn’t expect you to. Sometimes, just the title isn’t enough to know if an episode is right for you. That’s where this recap comes in! If you're a regular listener and want to join me for a future recap, I’d love to have you! Just reach out and let me know—I’m always looking for new voices to join the conversation. JANUARY EPISODES  Best Parenting Advice from 2024! Stop People Pleasing: How to Value Yourself and Your Needs with Amy Wilson Redefining Success: Finding Joy and Fulfillment in Parenting and Raising Resilient Kids with Laura Gassner Otting Unlocking the Good Life: The Power of Psychological Richness with Lorraine Besser, PhD    

In the aftermath of stress, adversity and trauma people often fall into survival mode and become disconnected from their true authentic self. Dr. Thema Bryant, a president elect of the American Psychological Assosication on how we become disconnected from our self and how to reconnect to it.  In this episode we will unpack some of the internal and external signs of disconnection and offer you some tools to empower you to journey home to yourself.  We also talk about reparenting. A term I dislike, a concept I endorse. Reparenting yourself means recognizing what you lost or what you didn’t get as a child and beginning to give those things to yourself now.  OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY ENJOY  65: finding Authenticity, Meaning and Fulfillment  82: Are You Stuck in The Past?  84: Are You Living an Authentic Life?  90: Childhood Trauma: Reclaiming Your Authentic Self  140: In Search of The True Self 163: How to Make Peace with Your Past and heal Your Life 164: Becoming Your True Authentic Self Unapologetically  165: Breaking Free from Old Stories  SUPPORT THE SHOW Become a patron on Patreon.com Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com  

We all encounter problems and stressors over the course of the day. Some are more easily managed then others. But no matter where an experience lands on the continuum from mild to traumatic, understanding how the nervous system works is the path to finding the way back to regulation. Deb Dana, a clinician, consultant and author specializing in complex trauma explains how we can learn about our nervous system so that we can befriend it.  SOME KEY POINTS What is neurocpetion The three main pathways: ventral vagal, sympathetic, dorsal vagal Co-regulation Our nervous systems talk to one another, as they are social structures YOU MAY ALSO ENJOY Ep. 121: Resilient: how to Grow Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength and Happiness with Rick Hanson  Ep. 147: What Does Self-Care Really Mean with Anna Seewald  Ep. 152: How Trauma Gets Stuck IN Your Nervous System with Irene Lyon Ep. 187: How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids  Ep. 245: 5 Simple Practices for Daily Happiness     

What happens inside of us as a result of trauma changes us. “When trauma hits, it affects all aspects of our life: our brain biology, emotions, memory, physical health, But above all-it alters our sense of self. It creates a permanent divide in our personal history-forever dividing it into 2 segments of Before and After.  Paul Conti, MD author of Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic on how trauma works and how we can heal from it.  3 types of trauma The role of shame in trauma The role of the limbic system First steps towards healing The importance of creating a coherent narrative  OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY ENJOY 292: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with Dr. Dick Schwatz 290: Alarmed Aloneness with Sarah Peyton 246: Healing Relational Trauma with Dr. NIma 241: How to Cultivate Self-Love with Nathalie Ellies  203: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma with james Gordon, MD BECOME A SUPPORTER OF THE SHOW 1. With your support we can continue the production of the podcast uninterruptedly. You can choose a level of support on Patreon.com by becoming a patron. 2. One time donations are also deeply appreciated. Give from the heart now.    

SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join 21 exisiting memebers who contribute $121 towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com  

Renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté on trauma and healing in a toxic culture. He is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development.  OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE Ep. 289: Developing Mind-Body Tools for Resilience with Rebekkah LaDayne  Ep.292: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with Dick Schwartz, PhD Ep. 260: Parenting with Presence with Dr. Dan Siegel  Ep. 203: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma with James Gordon, MD Ep. 326: Befriending Your Nervous System with Deb Dana Ep. 306: The Invisible Epidemic of Trauma with Paul Conti, MD Ep.332: The Science of Stuck and Trauma Healing with Britt Frank Ep. 314: The 6 Critical Needs of Children with Anna Seewald  Ep. 313: Reconnecting to Your Authentic Self with Dr. Thema Bryant 

Judith Smith on the complex, often painful experience of raising daughters who challenge, resist, or reject expectations. In Difficult: Mothering Challenging Daughters, she offers a compassionate look at the emotional toll and societal pressure mothers face. This episode explores how to find peace, set boundaries, and parent without guilt. New to the podcast? Not sure where to start? Download our free TRAUMA KIT — a curated guide with live links to 10 powerful, handpicked episodes to get you started. Explore how trauma shapes your body, brain, nervous system, and relationships — and discover pathways to healing and transformation. Featuring world-renowned experts like Gabor Maté, Deb Dana, Thema Bryant, Paul Conti, and more. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail.  info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services.   

We all want to live the Good Life, but what does that really mean? Is a good life simply a happy one? Do we need to keep pursuing happiness, or should we shift our focus to finding meaning and fulfillment instead? Lorraine Besser, PhD author of The Art of the Interesting on how to cultivate a good life.  New to the podcast? Not sure where to start? Download our free TRAUMA KIT — a curated guide with live links to 10 powerful, handpicked episodes to get you started. Explore how trauma shapes your body, brain, nervous system, and relationships — and discover pathways to healing and transformation. Featuring world-renowned experts like Gabor Maté, Deb Dana, Thema Bryant, Paul Conti, and more. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail.  info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services.