The Good Life with Michele Lamoureux

Whether in our personal lives or at work, we are interacting with others. Yet, with different personality types, there can be a lack of understanding, connection, and/or communication. How can you navigate these challenges using personality type? Joining us is Rob Toomey, the co-founder of TypeCoach. He and his team at TypeCoach work with people in the world’s leading organizations to improve team performance, deepen leadership capabilities, and help salespeople close more deals. However, among the most powerful outcomes from their work is the impact on personal relationships outside of work. Today, he and I will get into the applications of personality type differences in the context of romantic relationships as well as in teams at work. It may seem like a stretch but by understanding where you and others are similar and different on just a few key elements of personality can make a huge impact on the quality and ease of your relationships. WE DISCUSS: You’ll learn the 4 type categories for context. What happens in the different dynamics of personality preferences and where conflict can arise. What’s the biggest thing to keep in mind when living or working with an Introvert or Extrovert How core values are associated with the temperaments and what is important to those with the temperaments (per their personality type) The importance of understanding your core values and why sometimes your buttons can get pushed. How understanding type preferences can benefit your romantic relationships and your teams at work, and much more. RESOURCES MENTIONED Join The Newsletter + Get 52 Selfcare Tips Michele on Instagram Michele’s Book Website: http://www.typecoach.com Email: Rob@type-coach.com for more information about working with his company. ABOUT OUR GUEST: Rob lives at the intersection of his two passions – personality type and entrepreneurship. For the last 19 years he has been President of TypeCoach, the first company to make personality type practical and easy to use in communicating with others. He is also the Managing Director of The Idea Factory which is a venture studio focused on getting early stage projects off the ground. Share this interview with a friend! Please rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! XO, Michele

I believe in preventative health and today I am discussing my experience getting my first colonoscopy at the age of 52. The recommended age for colonoscopies is now 45 instead of 50. I think many people put it off because they don’t know what is going to happen, so I’m going into detail (without sharing TMI) so you can feel prepared. I put my colonoscopy off for too long because I didn’t have enough information, so I wanted to share what I know based on what I went through in case it helps you. Also, my colonoscopy was incomplete and I don’t want that to happen to you. Maybe knowing what happened to me can prevent the same thing from happening to you. This episode is not advice and is for entertainment purposes only. Anything dealing with your health should be discussed with your trusted healthcare provider Join The Newsletter + Get 52 Self-Care Tips

Sexual intimacy in relationships is so important but couples can struggle with connection and prioritizing their partners. Whether it is a mismatch in desire, hormonal changes that are impacting women in midlife, or a host of other issues, in this episode you’ll learn from Dr. Jamea who is a sex and relationship therapist about how to rekindle intimacy. With over 15 years of experience, she has helped thousands of people create connection and cultivate passion. When she’s not seeing clients, Emily researches the relationship between flow and sexual satisfaction. She also serves as an expert speaker for both public and private events. Her expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, The BBC, NBC, CBS, Men’s Fitness, Women’s Health, and more. This conversation is intended for adults only. WE DISCUSS: Sexual intimacy in relationships. Why it is essential to prioritize intimacy in our relationships. How mismatched desire is often the most common reason people see a couple therapist and ways to manage it. Three simple ways to improve intimacy today. Why we need to update our understanding of desire. How we can use flow state science to enhance our sex life. The impact declining hormones in midlife have on our sex lives, and much more. RESOURCES MENTIONED Join The Newsletter + Get 52 Selfcare Tips Michele on Instagram Michele’s Book Website: https://emilyjamea.com/ Use Code: HALFOFF for 50% off course IG: @dremilyjamea and on all social platforms Emily’s Podcast: Love + Libido Share this interview with a friend! Please rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! XO, Michele Rate + Review: 1. Click on this link 2. Click “Listen on Apple Podcasts” link 3. Scroll down to “Ratings and Reviews” 4. Click on “write a review”, rate and a leave short review and you’re done! If you’d like to advertise or sponsor the show, you can reach out here. This episode was sponsored by Design a Life You Love, A Woman’s Guide to Living a Happier and More Fulfilled Life. My book includes 52 inspirations, one for every week of the year, each with practical tips to guide you to self-love and success on your own terms. It makes a great gift for yourself or a friend!

Have you ever considered that envy and admiration are two sides of the same coin. How? When we admire someone it’s because of something they’ve done and how they show up in the world. We respect something about them. Now, flip the coin and on the other side you may find envy, which is not a positive feeling about someone. BUT, it may be because of you would like to accomplish something they’ve accomplished or wishing you could do what they do. Instead of feeling admiration, envy pops up. When you are feeling envious of someone, you can flip the coin. That person is a mirror showing you what you really want. What a gift that person is in your life. Ask yourself what it is about that person that makes you feel envious. Is it their influence, what they do, their knowledge — it’s key to get clear. When you are able to identify what it is about that person that triggers the envy, you are gaining great insights into what you actually want for your life. Start looking at them with admiration and gratitude. To attract what you want, you’ll want to be in a high vibe state and sending out good in the world. That person is mirroring what is possible! Use envy as a piece of the puzzle about where you want to go. When you see this it’s easy to flip the emotion to admiration. Join The Newsletter + Get 52 Self-Care Tips

“Too many of us apply intention to one area of our lives—we excel in our careers while putting our personal lives on hold or we allow our work ambitions to stagnate while everyday life demands our focus. We hope for the best, and yet our situations remain mostly unchanged. What if you could “Fast Forward” and transform any area of your life with extraordinary results in just one year?” Wendy the co-founder of The Fast Forward Group shares some of the key tips from the book she co-authored with Lisa McCarthy called Fast Forward: 5 Power Principles to Create the Life You Want in Just One Year. You’ll learn the importance of declaring a bold vision and sharing it, what it means to throw your hat over the wall, and how to manage your time and set your priorities to get where you want to go. If you are looking for tangible tips and inspiration that will move you in the desired direction personally and professionally, this interview is for you! Wendy and Lisa have worked with over 100,000 professionals and their book takes you through their proven system. Lots to learn in this conversation! While on the show notes page, I’d love for you to join our newsletter. You’ll receive more inspiration and tips to love yourself and live your best midlife. You’ll also get a FREE copy of Michele’s Book, Design a Life You Love (available for a limited time). RESOURCES MENTIONED Join Michele’s Newsletter Michele on Instagram Michele’s Book Website: Wendy’s Website Linkedin: Wendy on Linkedin ABOUT THE GUEST Wendy Leshgold is the president and co-founder of the Fast Forward Group, a professional development and executive coaching company. Wendy spent more than a decade in advertising, leading teams at Ogilvy & Mather, BBDO, and Deutsch, and working with brands including Apple, Kodak, and IBM. She experienced firsthand the challenges people face in high pressure corporate environments. Feeling compelled to help, she launched a successful executive coaching practice. A decade later, she joined forces with her childhood friend Lisa McCarthy, who shared her passion.  Together, they launched a company with a mission to transform the way people lead, work, and live. They are the co-authors of Fast Forward: 5 Power Principles to Create the Life You Want in Just One Year If you enjoyed this interview, please take a moment to rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! Not sure how to do it? Instructions are below. XO, Michele

Hey friends, welcome to the latest season of The Good Life with Michele Lamoureux podcast! Lots of great new content to help you navigate midlife and design a life you love. The podcast hit #7 in the United States under the self-improvement category and I want to thank you for sharing the show and being a part of the community! If you haven’t joined the newsletter you can do so below. Feel free to reach out with topics or questions you want addressed on the show! Join The Newsletter + Get 52 Self-Care Tips How to Create the Life You Want in Just One Year with Wendy Leshgold Midlife Reinvention – Remember Your Purpose How to Use the 12 Week Year to Live in Alignment with Your Life Vision

“If the average person just more consistently did what they already know they’d be healthier, happier, and be making more money.” – Brian Moran Brian Moran, the New York Times bestselling author of “The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months,” is going to share how to get more done in less time. He will take us into the execution system he developed while also sharing easy-to-implement time management strategies. He also connects the dots back to why it is important to create our life vision so we can structure our time and goals around that vision. You will learn tactical steps that you can implement today to move closer to the life you desire. This is a fan-favorite episode that I re-run before the New Year. Are you enjoying the podcast? Please leave a rating + review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a minute. 1. Click on this link 2. Select “Listen on Apple Podcasts” button 3. Scroll to find “Ratings and Reviews” 4. Click “write a review” to rate + review. Thank you for listening to the show! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: Why the 12 week year is an execution system and how that helps you get more done in less time. It’s not enough to know.  You have to execute.  Knowledge is only powerful if you act on it. Get out of the annual environment.  With this program, you are going to stop after 12 weeks and that is your year.  Measure your success or failure and measure the progress and then go again.  It’s a fluid process.  You can use  this professionally or personally.  You can do  anything for 12 weeks and then decide is that somethingI want to do again. Your vision is you’re why.   Your goals NEED to align with the vision. At the goal level, know the difference between goals and tactics and outcomes and actions.  The actions we have control over.  Goals are outcomes.  Make sure at the goal level that is measurable – it’s an outcome. Determine what are the most important actions.  Most plans are conceptual not tactical.  You need to spell out the specific actions and focus on “less is more”. Stay connected to your vision by putting the longer term vision in front of you – laminate a card you can look at every day. Create visual reminders. The difference between a habit and routine is key.   Ex, going to the gym is a routine not a habit and routines are what drive success.  How you begin and end your day needs a routine.  The key is to start off positive.   End your day with gratitude.    How to manage time.  Time blocking – 3 core blocks: A. Strategic Block -3 hours blocked during the week.  No interruptions – working on the business not in the business. THIS CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.  B. Buffer Blocks – these are designed to deal with the emails/low level stuff.  Ex, I return calls between 4-5pm.  Don’t check your emails when they come in. Block time in to address it. C. Break out blocks – schedule time away from work to do something just for you to recharge.     The Four Disciplines of the 12 Week Year  Vision – You have to know what you want. Planning – You have to ask – “What matters most?” Execution – Then ask, “Am I doing it?” Measurement – “Is it producing?” RESOURCES MENTIONED The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months – Brian’s NYTimes best-selling book https://12weekyear.com/ – Brian’s website and more resources Michele on Instagram ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST: Brian Moran, President and Founder of The 12 Week Year, has thirty plus years of expertise as a corporate executive, entrepreneur, consultant and coach. Brian is a recognized expert in the field of leadership and execution. His realization that most people don’t lack ideas, but struggle with effective implementation led him to the development of ‘The 12 Week Year’. Thank you for listening to the show!

This is a fascinating conversation and one that will have you thinking long after the interview is over. On the show is Matt Higgins, the author of Burn The Boats: Toss Plan B Overboard and Unleash Your Full Potential. Matt, is the co-founder and CEO of the private investment firm RSE Ventures, an executive fellow at Harvard Business School, where he co-teaches the course Moving Beyond DTC, and has also been a guest shark on ABC’s Shark Tank. His story is one of growing up in poverty, living on government cheese, and having his own “burn the boat” moment as a teen which becomes a pivotal decision that changes the trajectory of his life leading to success on his terms. You’ll hear Matt’s story, how he navigated hardship, the importance of listening to your own voice, and what it means to burn the boats to unleash your potential. This was one of my favorite interviews! You will walk away with many actionable tips as well as wisdom you can apply to your business and life. While on the show notes page, I’d love for you to join our newsletter. You’ll receive more inspiration and tips to love yourself and live your best midlife. You’ll also get a FREE copy of Michele’s Book, Design a Life You Love (available for a limited time). WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 1️⃣ Why Matt wrote the book now and who he hopes to serve. 2️⃣ The importance of making yourself indispensable at your job. 3️⃣ Matt’s early trauma that led him to make a pivotal decision in his life at 16. 4️⃣ How we don’t get to choose the moment of our opportunities but why we need to take them. 5️⃣ What Burn the Boats means and why you are less likely to succeed if you have a plan B. 6️⃣ He walks us through his risk-taking matrix. 7️⃣ Why he asks himself daily – “What is the highest use of my time, energy, and intention right now?” “What can I do now that I couldn’t do yesterday?” 8️⃣ How to connect your future dots intentionally, the importance of having a great partner/relationships, what living a good life means to him, and more. RESOURCES MENTIONED Join Michele’s Newsletter Michele on Instagram Michele’s Book Matt’s Website: https://www.burntheboatsbook.com/ Matt’s Book: Burn the Boats on Amazon Matt on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mhiggins/?hl=en Matt on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matt-higgins-rse/ Matt on YouTube ABOUT THE GUEST Matt Higgins is the author of Burn The Boats: Toss Plan B Overboard and Unleash Your Full Potential. He is the co-founder and CEO of the private investment firm RSE Ventures, an executive fellow at Harvard Business School, where he co-teaches the course Moving Beyond DTC, and has also been a guest shark on ABC’s Shark Tank. Thank you for listening to the show! If you enjoyed this interview, please take a moment to rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! Not sure how to do it? Instructions are below. XO, Michele

“We have a human brain whose memory system is amazing and wildly imperfect.” – Lisa Genova New York Times bestselling author Lisa Genova joins us for a conversation about her book, Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting. What does normal forgetting look like? How do we improve our memory? How do we create a memory? What’s the distinction between normal forgetting and forgetting because of Alzheimer’s? What are some preventative measures we can easily incorporate to protect our memory? Lisa is a wealth of information and I am honored she is here to share the information from her recent book! So much to learn today and to feel empowered. About the author: Lisa has her PhD in Neuroscience from Harvard, is an acclaimed author, and has a TED Talk with over five million views. She also has appearances on the Today Show, CNN, and NPR, Dr. Oz and many more outlets. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: It is okay to google the name of an actor whose name you can’t remember.  Young people who have used tech since birth just google without worrying about it, but most older adults believe we have to figure it out ourselves. Tip of the tongue – words like proper nouns, movie titles, names of cities – and why we have trouble recalling those names. Why “Memory isn’t stored in any one place.” Why in order to create a lasting memory it has to go through the hippocampus. You can’t remember what you don’t pay attention to.  This is the first thing to do to create memory. Outsourcing some things like taking a picture of where you parked isn’t going to make you dumber.  It is okay to use tech to help you remember. Our human brains are terrible at prospective planning. Context plays a big role in remembering things.  The second you are surrounded by cues you remember.  It helps to retrace your steps to trigger the cues. To do lists, pill boxes, checkboxes are all helpful for prospective memory. “The act of learning is remembering.  Memory is outstanding.  We can learn infinite amounts of things.” It’s not true that we only use 10 percent of our brain. Our brain is changing all of the time.  Every time you are learning something new your brain creates more neural pathways. We have the ability to create new neurons/nerve cells. Chronic stress will shrink the hippocampus. Meditation, yoga, mindfulness, exercise, staying socially active and learning new things helps to enlarge our hippocampus. Being sedentary makes you more likely to develop Alzheimer’s. Being active decreases your risk by half. Processing speeds slow down as we age a little bit, but we know more. Sleep is key.  The data is compelling – we need 7-9 hours of sleep to process what we’ve learned and to clear metabolic debris while we sleep. Alzheimer’s happens in the hippocampus – war in this area – first symptoms are not remembering what someone just said or repeating themselves — the present memory keeps cycling through.  Prevention is key.  Lisa shares what she does for preventative measures.  Eat a Mediterranean diet. Exercise.  Go for walks — move around every day. Your entire body wants and needs that. “This book is about your relationship with memory. We are afraid of it. We are judgmental  of it.  We don’t understand it.  It’s also imperfect.  Be in awe of it and take good care of it.” RESOURCES MENTIONED “Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting” by Lisa Genova Lisa Genova on Episode 1 of The Good Life Coach – about Lisa’s Transition from Neuroscientist to New York Times best-selling author Lisa Genova on Episode 104 of The Good Life Coach – what it means to live a life of meaning “Still Alice” by Lisa Genova “Every Note Played” by LisaGenova Lisa Genova’s website Lisa Genova on Instagram Lisa Genova on Facebook Lisa’s Ted Talk on Preventing Alzheimer’s Michele on Instagram Thank you for listening to the show!

Style expert and author George Brescia is on to help us feel modern and beautiful in the outfits we put on every day. He’s going to share how to look good for casual events like running to the market to going out with friends. We’ll learn the staple wardrobe we all need as well as the best stores to find the perfect items. He shares strategies on figuring out our style to the colors that look best on you. George is the author of “Change Your Clothes: Change Your Life”. He’s had appearances on NBC’s “Today Show” and other media, including doing regular red carpet commentary and fashion reporting for CBS, ABC, NBC, and Fox — to covering the Tony awards — George has over 25 years working with top fashion leaders. He styles A-list celebrities to everyday women looking to improve their appearance and gain confidence. George is an expert in helping women look and feel their best and he shares his best tips with us today! All of the show notes can be found at https://thegoodlifecoach.com/231 While on the show notes page, I’d love for you to join our community. You’ll receive more inspiration and tips to love yourself and your life. You’ll get a FREE copy of Michele’s Book, Design a Life You Love. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 1️⃣ Where to begin -hint, it’s starts with your closet. 2️⃣ How to vet what no longer works for you. 3️⃣ Why selecting the colors that look best on you is so important. An easy way to begin is to shop the color of your eyes. 4️⃣ The staples all women should have that includes: well-fitting jeans, moto jacket, a fabulous heel, cool sneakers/flats, and stylish yoga/sweats with matching top, and more. 5️⃣ How to dress for your body now even if you plan on losing weight. 6️⃣ A long list of his favorite brands – so helpful! 7️⃣ How to work with George if you need some personal attention with your wardrobe. RESOURCES MENTIONED Get Your List of 52 Self-care Tips FREE Change Your Clothes, Change Your Life: Because You Can’t Go Naked George’s Website – with access to his email to reach out to him George on Instagram George on Twitter George on Facebook Michele on Instagram Brands he recommends: Veronica Beard for upscale and blazers Lori Goldstein on QVC Department store for access to many brands under one roof. Preppy looks – https://www.jmclaughlin.com/ Club Monaco – Modern and Refined Zara + HM – be prepared with your mood board because there are so many trends Ann Taylor Ann Taylor Loft -inexpensive Aritzia Designers:  Michael Kors Ralph Lauren For Cocktail Events: Alice + Olivia Splurge Items: Veronica Beard – blazer and cool items Long flowy dresses – Misa and Shoshanna Trina Turk Sleek paired down – monochromatic – Theory Yoga/Cool Sweats – Alo Thank you for listening to the show. Be sure to share it with a friend! We love when women empower other women. If you enjoyed this interview, please take a moment to follow the podcast and rate and review it on Apple podcasts. Your reviews are so appreciated! Not sure how to do it? Instructions are below. XO, Michele