Tips for Work and Life with Andrew LaCivita

Unlock the secrets of effective communication! Discover how to ensure your message resonates by focusing on what the listener hears and feels. Simple techniques like the 'intent check' can enhance clarity and prevent misinterpretations. Learn to sound more composed and credible, which can lead to quicker buy-in during conversations. Whether in emails or meetings, improving your communication skills can profoundly impact your career and relationships. Elevate your conversations and be remembered for your influence!

Discover the five must-read books that can transform your approach to building wealth! Dive into an entertaining guide that simplifies investing and explore powerful reads that focus on mindset shifts separating spenders from wealth builders. Enhance your professional skills to maximize your earning potential and make smarter financial decisions. These essential reads are accessible to everyone, making it easier than ever to take control of your finances and secure your future!

Sweating the small stuff can be a game-changer for career performance. Mastery is found in the details, influencing everything from email writing to team management. The discussion also draws intriguing parallels between health and financial fitness, emphasizing that excellence requires attention to minute aspects. Additionally, smart investment behaviors are vital for wealth accumulation, showing that consistent savings can lead to significant financial success. Tune in for insights that can elevate both your work and financial strategies.

Discover the hidden value of your personal story and how it can impact others. Learn why your experiences matter, even if they seem ordinary. The discussion highlights the importance of reshaping your narrative into meaningful moments that educate and inspire. Explore a simple 7-step structure to craft stories that resonate with audiences. Plus, enjoy personal anecdotes that illustrate these principles in action. Embrace the power of storytelling to connect and motivate in your career and life.

Discover the career skill that’s often overlooked: empathy. Learn about the three types of empathy and how they can transform your relationships, making you a better leader. Explore the hilarious ups and downs of cohabitation, emphasizing the need for understanding each partner’s needs. Delve into how empathy intertwines with focus and self-awareness, enhancing your decision-making and reducing stress in both personal and professional settings. This enlightening discussion will bring a smile to your face and elevate your career.

This week’s a special one. I’m going back to one of the most important lessons I’ve ever taught.  Self-awareness. Not the generic, “journal your feelings” kind. I’m talking about a powerful, real-world framework that shows you where your life is out of alignment.  Most people define self-awareness as “knowing yourself.”But there are actually two types: Internal self-awareness: How well do you know who you are? External self-awareness: Do you understand how others perceive you?  Both matter. A lot.  And most people aren’t nearly as accurate as they think. That misalignment causes stress. Bad decisions. Unfulfilling jobs. Relationships that drain instead of energize. In today’s lesson, I walk you through the six pillars of self-awareness.  It’s THE practical way to measure whether your life, work, thoughts, goals, and habits are aligned with the person you say you want to be.  This isn’t theory. It’s a diagnostic.And it’s going to help you course-correct in a powerful way.  If your inner and outer life feel even a little out of sync… this one’s for you. If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy

Have you ever tried to start your day with the best intentions only to have your attention hijacked by email pings, barking dogs, or that mysterious ice maker noise in the kitchen? Yeah. Same.  In today’s lesson, I’m teaching one of the most underrated (yet powerful) skills for career and life success: how to train your focus like a muscle.  And I’m not talking about downloading some shiny productivity app.  I’m talking about something deeper and more effective… 🧠 Mental warm-ups you can do before the chaos of the day begins.🔥 A simple 10-minute daily ritual to build real focus and willpower.🎯 Why distraction isn’t your fault, but staying distracted is your choice.💡 How to apply focus training to every task (even cleaning your coffee pot).  If you want to stop reacting to your day and start directing it, this one’s for you… (You’ll thank me before your second cup of coffee.) If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy

Explore how high achievers think differently and frame challenges. Learn a powerful habit to instantly boost your focus. Discover the often-overlooked question top performers ask themselves daily. Find out how to convert setbacks into motivation instead of frustration. Get ready to shift your mindset for greater success!

Question for ya… When the interviewer asks you to “tell me about a time when…,” do you: A) Launch into a timeline of tasks you completed? B) Rattle off a list of responsibilities? C) Sound like your own resume? (Oy to the vey.) If so, don’t worry. You’re not alone. But you are probably leaving value on the table. Here is a capital “T” truth… Most people report work history. Few, if any, tell real stories. Almost no one uses those stories to sell who they truly are. But that’s exactly what interview storytelling should be. This week’s podcast is one of the most important lessons I can give you on how to elevate your interview game and position yourself as THE standout candidate. Excitement alert: You will squeal with glee if you’ve ever wondered I’m just a cog in the wheel and my background feels narrow. I’m not sure how to sound valuable or impactful. What you’ll learn alert:The real purpose of storytelling in interviews (big hint: it’s not just to explain what you did). Why sounding “too junior” is a storytelling issue, not an experience issue. Bulletproof way to reframe your stories so they show off your big-picture thinking and leadership qualities. You’re not just there to fill a role. You’re there to drive transformation. To show them what’s possible when they hire you, you need to… 🔴 STOP telling tasks. 🟢 START selling you. You’ve got more to offer than just your recent “job title.” Now it’s time to tell that story. If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy

I know it’s tempting. A recruiter emails you with your job offer. You want to reply quickly. Clear things up. Maybe even negotiate. But email is the worst place to have that conversation. Why? Have you ever heard of Albert Mehrabian? He developed “The Mehrabian Rule.” Catchy, yes. But more importantly, true. His rule is also known as the 7-38-55 rule. It suggests, that in communication, the impact of any message is divided into pieces. 7% from the words spoken (or, in your inclination, written). 38% from the tone of your voice. 55% from your body language. Now, I realize you might not have my 9 semesters of higher math I needed to endure at THE Iowa State University to get my rarely-used Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering, so let me help you with the calculation. That’s 93% of your communication power not at your disposal in an email. When it comes to negotiating your salary, tone, timing, and tactics matter. Plus, the real-time going round-and-round and back-and-forth is somewhat necessary. You basically lose all these necessities when you're using a keyboard! So, what should you do instead? Start by listening to my nifty podcast on Never Negotiate Salary Over Email | Do This Instead. Then do what I teach in the podcast. All that’ll be left after that is for you to think of me with every automatic deposit of your big paycheck! If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy