Tips for Work and Life with Andrew LaCivita

It was 3:08 in the morning. May of last year. I was in my office already a lofty 8 minutes into my day. Headphones on, speaking (uh, reading) into a microphone… and yelling at ducks. Yes, ducks. As I tried to record a passage for The Zebra Code audiobook, those feathered freeloaders on my backyard lake quacked like it was their job. I must’ve sounded like a lunatic, hollering “Come on! I need 75 quiet minutes!” But here’s the truth… I wasn’t just recording an audiobook. I was chasing a big goal that was important to me. Writing a book is one thing. Giving voice to it, putting myself on record, was something else entirely. Big goals aren’t really about the thing you achieve. They’re about who you become in the pursuit. (In this case, hopefully, not a total lunatic. 🤣) They stretch your patience, your creativity, your confidence, and yes… even your relationships with ducks. This week’s video is all about this truth. What really happens to you when you work toward a massive goal (and why the transformation almost never looks the way you expect)? If you’ve ever set an ambitious goal, whether career-related, personal, or financial, you’ll see yourself in this. And if you haven’t yet? It might just give you the push to start. If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my four books related to career development, interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy

Navigating tough job interviews doesn’t have to be daunting! Learn the six challenging questions designed to test your problem-solving and leadership skills. Discover a handy CAR technique to craft tailored responses that resonate with employers. With word-for-word examples, you’ll be ready to showcase your value without hesitation. Mastering these questions can make the entire interview feel like a breeze, giving you the confidence to shine!

Ready to ace your job interviews? Discover how to project confidence and warmth from the moment you start speaking. Learn the importance of posture, gestures, and micro-expressions in building trust with interviewers. Master the art of using your voice to emphasize your unique value without sounding rehearsed. Uncover the power of active listening as your secret weapon, whether in person or on video. Get equipped with the tools to ensure you shine as the top candidate every time!

Unlock the secrets of effective communication! Discover how to ensure your message resonates by focusing on what the listener hears and feels. Simple techniques like the 'intent check' can enhance clarity and prevent misinterpretations. Learn to sound more composed and credible, which can lead to quicker buy-in during conversations. Whether in emails or meetings, improving your communication skills can profoundly impact your career and relationships. Elevate your conversations and be remembered for your influence!

Discover the five must-read books that can transform your approach to building wealth! Dive into an entertaining guide that simplifies investing and explore powerful reads that focus on mindset shifts separating spenders from wealth builders. Enhance your professional skills to maximize your earning potential and make smarter financial decisions. These essential reads are accessible to everyone, making it easier than ever to take control of your finances and secure your future!

Sweating the small stuff can be a game-changer for career performance. Mastery is found in the details, influencing everything from email writing to team management. The discussion also draws intriguing parallels between health and financial fitness, emphasizing that excellence requires attention to minute aspects. Additionally, smart investment behaviors are vital for wealth accumulation, showing that consistent savings can lead to significant financial success. Tune in for insights that can elevate both your work and financial strategies.

Discover the hidden value of your personal story and how it can impact others. Learn why your experiences matter, even if they seem ordinary. The discussion highlights the importance of reshaping your narrative into meaningful moments that educate and inspire. Explore a simple 7-step structure to craft stories that resonate with audiences. Plus, enjoy personal anecdotes that illustrate these principles in action. Embrace the power of storytelling to connect and motivate in your career and life.

Discover the career skill that’s often overlooked: empathy. Learn about the three types of empathy and how they can transform your relationships, making you a better leader. Explore the hilarious ups and downs of cohabitation, emphasizing the need for understanding each partner’s needs. Delve into how empathy intertwines with focus and self-awareness, enhancing your decision-making and reducing stress in both personal and professional settings. This enlightening discussion will bring a smile to your face and elevate your career.

This week’s a special one. I’m going back to one of the most important lessons I’ve ever taught.  Self-awareness. Not the generic, “journal your feelings” kind. I’m talking about a powerful, real-world framework that shows you where your life is out of alignment.  Most people define self-awareness as “knowing yourself.”But there are actually two types: Internal self-awareness: How well do you know who you are? External self-awareness: Do you understand how others perceive you?  Both matter. A lot.  And most people aren’t nearly as accurate as they think. That misalignment causes stress. Bad decisions. Unfulfilling jobs. Relationships that drain instead of energize. In today’s lesson, I walk you through the six pillars of self-awareness.  It’s THE practical way to measure whether your life, work, thoughts, goals, and habits are aligned with the person you say you want to be.  This isn’t theory. It’s a diagnostic.And it’s going to help you course-correct in a powerful way.  If your inner and outer life feel even a little out of sync… this one’s for you. If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy

Have you ever tried to start your day with the best intentions only to have your attention hijacked by email pings, barking dogs, or that mysterious ice maker noise in the kitchen? Yeah. Same.  In today’s lesson, I’m teaching one of the most underrated (yet powerful) skills for career and life success: how to train your focus like a muscle.  And I’m not talking about downloading some shiny productivity app.  I’m talking about something deeper and more effective… 🧠 Mental warm-ups you can do before the chaos of the day begins.🔥 A simple 10-minute daily ritual to build real focus and willpower.🎯 Why distraction isn’t your fault, but staying distracted is your choice.💡 How to apply focus training to every task (even cleaning your coffee pot).  If you want to stop reacting to your day and start directing it, this one’s for you… (You’ll thank me before your second cup of coffee.) If you'd like to build a great career and lead a rewarding life, check out some of these other places where I share my teachings: 1. Check out the milewalk Academy, my coaching and training site, for freemiums and premiums. 2. I have hundreds of educational and inspirational videos on my YouTube Channel. 3. Grab any of my three books related to interviewing, hiring, and goal setting. All can be found on my Amazon Author Page. 4. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter (X), TikTok, Threads, and Facebook. 5. Stay in touch with me in your email inbox by joining my newsletter here! --Andy