WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Waiting for karma to bite someone back? Here’s the twist… In the final installment of the What In the Woo? series, Danielle dives deep into one of the most misunderstood concepts in spirituality: karma. Far from being a cosmic punishment system, karma is the Soul’s invitation to restore balance—and it’s way more compassionate than most of us think. In this episode, Danielle unpacks the true essence of karma: the ego generates the negative, the heart creates the positive, and every experience—no matter how painful—is a chance to come back into alignment.  This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered, “Why is this happening to me?” or tried to tally their spiritual “points.” Expect clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of energetic truth. In this episode: The truth about negative karma (it’s not personal punishment) How the ego creates energy knots—and how the heart unravels them Why “bad” karma is really your Soul calling you home What real positive karma feels like (hint: it’s selfless and freeing) How the Universe always bends toward balance, no matter what MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

In some particular order, here’s how I attempted to entrain my only child into higher consciousness, mostly by example, but often by preaching in the kitchen while making burritos.  Turns out that the kid incarnated as a wise soul, and my hot air was just some wind beneath his wings.  This is for the parents, the kids, and the divine relationships that shape who we become.  In this episode: Why relationships > everything The power of posture The no-BS rules around money + media How beauty, rock n’ roll, and boredom raise consciousness Oversharing, emotional fluency, and saying sorry fast MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. How to Be Loving  The Business of Being Born Ina May’s Guide to Natural Childbirth Hold On To Your Kids - Gabor Maté + Gordon Neufeld Raising Cain by Dan Kindlon + Michael Thompson The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Explore the concept of the Inner Child, which represents our wounded and unresolved emotional self. Learn how this part of us communicates through emotional triggers, suggesting a need for compassion rather than tough love. Discover the significance of reparenting unmet needs and how it fosters creativity and spiritual growth. Uncover the link between self-sabotage and spiritual signals, and embrace the power of gentleness as a tool for healing and self-discovery.

The ego… your shadow… is a POWER PORTAL. For years, I thought I had to punish all my ego-centric’isms—manipulating to get my needs met, constant striving to burn my karma, pretending to behave. But actually? I’ve needed to assimilate… embrace… and talk sweetly to my shadows. The ego is the unhealed part of us. More precisely, “it’s the way our unhealed self acts.” It’s not a villain—it’s a pattern. And that “pattern” is always trying to protect you from heartbreak or rejection. What if, instead of saying That’s my ego I need to get in check… we just said: “Whoops, I was ego-ing. I can get back to Loving.” Because ultimately: Light, shadow, light. In this episode: A liberating definition of the ego (that’s not outdated personal growth dogma) Why bravado and deep insecurity are both ego disguises “Ego’ing” vs. Loving—how to tell the difference Why ego is not your enemy—and what it’s really asking for MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. What The Sphinx Told Me: LISTEN | READ The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

There’s curiosity. There’s concern. There’s some serious side-eye.  Danielle’s essay, “AI IS NOT YOUR BEST LIFE COACH,” stirred up a flood of responses—some celebratory, some cautionary. In this episode, she goes deeper into our growing relationship with AI—from life coaching to spiritual support—and asks: What happens when we start outsourcing our inner wisdom to technology? There’s more than one side to this conversation.  Danielle shares community responses—insightful, and deeply felt—and reflects on why spiritual maturity requires discernment, and why human-to-human healing will always remain irreplaceable. In this episode: Why dependency on AI for spiritual direction is dangerous How AI can fawn instead of truly support—and why that matters Community perspectives: cautious, hopeful, clear-eyed The real cost of convenience when it comes to creativity + soul Why authentic connection still matters more than ever  And Danielle’s off-the-cuff response to the baiter debaters MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AI Is Not Your Best Life Coach: LISTEN | READ The (Significant) Downside to Fawning: LISTEN | READ Eoin Finn’s YOGA OPTIMIZED—look into it here.  Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Nourish System—reduce stress and restore your nervous system. The Archives: Read on Substack Never miss an episode → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Fawning is a trauma response. And it’s one we don’t talk about enough. In this episode, Danielle is digging into fawning as a default stress response. Most people misunderstand it. Fawning isn’t just being nice or deferential—it’s a survival mechanism that many of us picked up in childhood, and now it’s messing with our relationships, our confidence, and even our nervous system.  She unpacks how fawning isn’t as physiological as fight, flight, or freeze—it’s more of a personality gimmick. We think it’s safer to please other people than to be our authentic selves. And that… erodes trust in every direction.  In this episode: The difference between fawning and other stress responses How childhood (and chronic stress) trains us to fawn A real story of working with someone who fawned—and how it impacted trust The connection between fawning and chronic pain or illness Why spiritual practice is the antidote Healing practices to transmute the fawn response with love MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz AI Is Not Your Best Life Coach: LISTEN | READ Get the full class: 6 Ways To Cleanse Your Energy Field inside The Heart Centered Collective Nourish System—reduce stress and restore your nervous system. The Archives: Read on Substack Never miss an episode → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE.

Dive into the vibe of girlfriendship as a spiritual practice and discover the concept of energy as currency. Learn how to manage your energy wisely and protect your joy as an empath. Explore the opportunity cost of overthinking and embrace the idea that change begins with a decision, not time. From dietary shifts to hair care tips, this conversation brims with personal insights and practical wisdom. Join in for a delightful blend of humor and depth as meaningful themes unfold.

Exploring the pitfalls of seeking life advice from AI, the discussion highlights emotional manipulation and the superficiality of algorithm-driven wisdom. It emphasizes the danger of dependency on technology for personal growth, advocating instead for self-awareness and genuine human connections. The importance of community support is underscored, along with methods for emotional healing and empowerment that aren't reliant on artificial intelligence. Listeners are encouraged to put down their phones and find strength within themselves.

Not all feelings belong to you! Discover how navigating collective emotions can lighten your load. The discussion reveals how empathic individuals, or 'shadow eaters,' can experience others' feelings while maintaining their own joy. Uncover the true nature of love and the responsibility that comes with being sensitive. Learn about the importance of spiritual support and mindfulness in processing these intense feelings. Emotional release can be a form of service, helping both yourself and those around you.

I’ve been in a pendulum swing of suffering and joy lately—and as ever, I hope what I share is a popcorn trail through the dark for you. Because there’s always another side. This episode is inspired by a poem from D.H. Lawrence that’s become a mantra for me: “Are you willing to be made nothing?” The Phoenix only renews when she’s burnt to flocculent ash. Immortal bird, anyone? This is my unfiltered download on what it means to truly rise. I’m talking about sacred surrender, resilience as your true nature, why guilt is a pathway to innocence, and how even a day of crying in bed can be an act of devotion.  Plus, I riff on my philosopher boyfriends (Krishnamurti and Leonard Cohen) and my metaphysical bestie, Manly P. Hall.  This one’s personal and poetic—just how I like it. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Rituals Class – A free live class to help you choose—and stick to, better habits. Saturday, March 29 at 9am PT | 12pm ET. How To Be Loving – For deeper teachings on Acceptance, Compassion + Soul Qualities Gail Larsen’s last speaking Immersion.