WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

I think judgment of others can be a byproduct of spiritual bypassing. All us self-helpers… lean in. Basically, spiritual bypassing is when we paint negative experiences as "spiritually positive” before we’ve actually felt the very human, negative feelings. Because we are secretly judging ourselves for having not very pretty or “spiritual” emotions and experiences. And the offshoot of self recrimination is that you become really f*cking JUDGY with others. That’s one of the most harmful parts of spiritual bypassing—that everything gets categorized as either “spiritual” or “not spiritual.” TV? Not spiritual. Resentment? Very unspiritual.  But when you start loving your human, “negative” behaviours more… you become MUCH COOLER to other people. It’s pretty simple. LOVE THE GNARLY WITHIN—and you know what happens? You become a more Loving person. So… get in, loser. We’re dropping the judgment on our way to unity consciousness.  In this episode:  How judgment stems from spiritual bypassing The difference between discernment and judgment Community is medicine The cost of categorizing everything as “spiritual” or “not spiritual” A compassionate look at why judgment might just be self-rejection in disguise MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Why AI is Not Your Best Life Coach. READ | LISTEN Infusion Sessions—1:1 business mentoring with Danielle The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Discover the power of consciousness in attracting abundance beyond mere money. The discussion highlights that higher consciousness fuels better decisions and energies. Embrace a mindset rich in affirmations that promote inner peace and alignment with divine timing. Engage with uplifting phrases like 'I trust in divine timing' and 'abundance flows to me freely.' The focus is less on strategy and more on embodying a life force that invites prosperity in all forms. It's about feeling, thriving, and circulating love.

What happens when you let go of what drains you? More joy and clarity! Discover a transformative Stop Doing List that led to greater prosperity and creativity. From overhauling a bloated email list to embracing a collaborative team dynamic, each decision sparked alignment and success. Learn how to shift from hustle-mode to a more open invitation approach. Tips on releasing unhelpful habits for deeper connections and healthier living are packed into this insightful discussion.

Danielle loves bold goals and quantum leaps. But not at the expense of wellness—or sanity.  In this week’s episode, she’s sharing the reason she hit pause on chasing rapid financial growth—and how she rebuilt her business around calm, clarity, and a new definition of prosperity.  She introduces her Be Well Number—a formula that balances revenue goals with nervous system regulation—and explains why weekends, joy, and purpose are more valuable metrics than just the bottom line.  This is heart centered 10x’ing—business strategy through the lens of Love. In this episode: Why “10x” isn’t just about money  What Danielle’s Be Well Number is—and how to calculate yours How nervous system regulation saved her business (and lifestyle) Why her team chose NOT to chase rapid revenue growth this year The emotional benefits of right-sized goals How to create a business that supports your wellness MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: INFUSION: High-impact strategy sessions with Danielle + Team 10x Is Easier Than 2x by Ben Hardy + Dan Sullivan Face yoga faves: @trinhgeorgg + @face.fitness.club The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Waiting for karma to bite someone back? Here’s the twist… In the final installment of the What In the Woo? series, Danielle dives deep into one of the most misunderstood concepts in spirituality: karma. Far from being a cosmic punishment system, karma is the Soul’s invitation to restore balance—and it’s way more compassionate than most of us think. In this episode, Danielle unpacks the true essence of karma: the ego generates the negative, the heart creates the positive, and every experience—no matter how painful—is a chance to come back into alignment.  This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered, “Why is this happening to me?” or tried to tally their spiritual “points.” Expect clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of energetic truth. In this episode: The truth about negative karma (it’s not personal punishment) How the ego creates energy knots—and how the heart unravels them Why “bad” karma is really your Soul calling you home What real positive karma feels like (hint: it’s selfless and freeing) How the Universe always bends toward balance, no matter what MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

In some particular order, here’s how I attempted to entrain my only child into higher consciousness, mostly by example, but often by preaching in the kitchen while making burritos.  Turns out that the kid incarnated as a wise soul, and my hot air was just some wind beneath his wings.  This is for the parents, the kids, and the divine relationships that shape who we become.  In this episode: Why relationships > everything The power of posture The no-BS rules around money + media How beauty, rock n’ roll, and boredom raise consciousness Oversharing, emotional fluency, and saying sorry fast MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. How to Be Loving  The Business of Being Born Ina May’s Guide to Natural Childbirth Hold On To Your Kids - Gabor Maté + Gordon Neufeld Raising Cain by Dan Kindlon + Michael Thompson The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Explore the concept of the Inner Child, which represents our wounded and unresolved emotional self. Learn how this part of us communicates through emotional triggers, suggesting a need for compassion rather than tough love. Discover the significance of reparenting unmet needs and how it fosters creativity and spiritual growth. Uncover the link between self-sabotage and spiritual signals, and embrace the power of gentleness as a tool for healing and self-discovery.

The ego… your shadow… is a POWER PORTAL. For years, I thought I had to punish all my ego-centric’isms—manipulating to get my needs met, constant striving to burn my karma, pretending to behave. But actually? I’ve needed to assimilate… embrace… and talk sweetly to my shadows. The ego is the unhealed part of us. More precisely, “it’s the way our unhealed self acts.” It’s not a villain—it’s a pattern. And that “pattern” is always trying to protect you from heartbreak or rejection. What if, instead of saying That’s my ego I need to get in check… we just said: “Whoops, I was ego-ing. I can get back to Loving.” Because ultimately: Light, shadow, light. In this episode: A liberating definition of the ego (that’s not outdated personal growth dogma) Why bravado and deep insecurity are both ego disguises “Ego’ing” vs. Loving—how to tell the difference Why ego is not your enemy—and what it’s really asking for MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. What The Sphinx Told Me: LISTEN | READ The Archives: Read on Substack Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

There’s curiosity. There’s concern. There’s some serious side-eye.  Danielle’s essay, “AI IS NOT YOUR BEST LIFE COACH,” stirred up a flood of responses—some celebratory, some cautionary. In this episode, she goes deeper into our growing relationship with AI—from life coaching to spiritual support—and asks: What happens when we start outsourcing our inner wisdom to technology? There’s more than one side to this conversation.  Danielle shares community responses—insightful, and deeply felt—and reflects on why spiritual maturity requires discernment, and why human-to-human healing will always remain irreplaceable. In this episode: Why dependency on AI for spiritual direction is dangerous How AI can fawn instead of truly support—and why that matters Community perspectives: cautious, hopeful, clear-eyed The real cost of convenience when it comes to creativity + soul Why authentic connection still matters more than ever  And Danielle’s off-the-cuff response to the baiter debaters MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: AI Is Not Your Best Life Coach: LISTEN | READ The (Significant) Downside to Fawning: LISTEN | READ Eoin Finn’s YOGA OPTIMIZED—look into it here.  Join The Heart Centered Collective for just $7/month Nourish System—reduce stress and restore your nervous system. The Archives: Read on Substack Never miss an episode → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

Fawning is a trauma response. And it’s one we don’t talk about enough. In this episode, Danielle is digging into fawning as a default stress response. Most people misunderstand it. Fawning isn’t just being nice or deferential—it’s a survival mechanism that many of us picked up in childhood, and now it’s messing with our relationships, our confidence, and even our nervous system.  She unpacks how fawning isn’t as physiological as fight, flight, or freeze—it’s more of a personality gimmick. We think it’s safer to please other people than to be our authentic selves. And that… erodes trust in every direction.  In this episode: The difference between fawning and other stress responses How childhood (and chronic stress) trains us to fawn A real story of working with someone who fawned—and how it impacted trust The connection between fawning and chronic pain or illness Why spiritual practice is the antidote Healing practices to transmute the fawn response with love MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz AI Is Not Your Best Life Coach: LISTEN | READ Get the full class: 6 Ways To Cleanse Your Energy Field inside The Heart Centered Collective Nourish System—reduce stress and restore your nervous system. The Archives: Read on Substack Never miss an episode → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE.