

Date Your Wife
Garrett J. White & Danielle K White
Co-hosts Garrett J White and Danielle K White share in this weekly podcast, as a powerhouse husband and wife duo why date nights have become non-negotiable in their life. Garrett is the founder of Wake Up Warrior, a program for married businessmen to live the Warrior's Way towards having a life of having it all, and Danielle is the founder of NBR Education and DKW Styling Salon. They will share how they have created success in every aspect of their lives after being willing to rebuild and heal from disconnection, and it all starts with weekly date nights.
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Nov 3, 2025 • 54min
Building, Balancing & Rebuilding: The Truth About Marriage, Money, and Connection
In this raw and revealing Date Your Wife episode, Garrett and Danielle White break down the real stages of marriage — build, balance, and rebuild — and how success in business often comes at the cost of connection at home. They share never-before-told stories of how the early builder phase of entrepreneurship created unseen damage in their relationship, how they lost and rebuilt everything, and the lessons that came from 20+ years together as partners, parents, and entrepreneurs. 💥 Inside this episode: The three phases of marriage every entrepreneur couple experiences How to rebuild attraction and connection after burnout and resentment The balance between sex, business, and family life What it takes to lead together as a couple without losing yourself The origin of Warrior Married Game — a new system for couples inside Wake Up Warrior This conversation is a masterclass for couples who want to build an empire without burning down their marriage.

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Oct 27, 2025 • 1h 17min
From Divorce to Divine Partnership: Rebuilding Love, Faith, and Family with Alex & Valeria | Date Your Wife
Alex Montalenti, founder of lovething.ai and co-creator of the 'Love Thing' practice, shares his inspiring journey of rebuilding family and faith after divorce. Alongside Valeria, they discuss transforming conflicts into connections through daily practices like gratitude and open communication. They explore the challenges of blending families, navigating parenting styles, and the impact of Alex's transformative experience at the 'Man in the Arena' event. Their insights offer a refreshing look at modern marriage and the power of resilience.

Oct 20, 2025 • 55min
The Art of Entrepreneurs in Marriage
This engaging conversation explores the hidden battles entrepreneurs face in marriage. Discover why pressure often drives men to disconnect and how this impacts intimacy. The hosts delve into the disruptive role of AI in coaching and relationships, questioning if it can truly foster connection. They also discuss balancing spiritual growth with business ambitions and the importance of effective communication during stressful times. Ultimately, they encourage couples to unite amid chaos, reinforcing that collaboration is key to enduring partnerships.

Oct 6, 2025 • 1h
From Match.com to Mindshare: JJ Virgin & Tim on Love, Legacy, and Building a Life That Heals the World
Join wellness expert JJ Virgin and entrepreneur Tim as they share their inspiring journey from a serendipitous Match.com meeting to an unconventional charity wedding. They discuss overcoming past heartbreaks, merging their strengths in business, and keeping intimacy alive amidst hectic schedules. Key topics include redefining success, healing trauma, and creating a strong emotional foundation. Their innovative rituals for romance and shared mission to transform health reveal how deep partnership can elevate life and love.

Sep 22, 2025 • 1h 9min
Truth, Triggers & Transformation: How Marriage Survives Shifts, Sex, and Speaking Hard Truths
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett White open up about navigating massive life shifts from selling their california home and businesses to rebuilding their world in Miami, while keeping thier 22-year marriage alive, passionate, and brutally honest. The conversation takes a powerful turn as they reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk and its ripple effect on free speech, family safety, and the courage to speak truth, how resentment builds when honesty is suppressed, and the surprising ways intimacy and language ("quickie" vs "canoodling") can either deepen or distance connection. WIth humor, candor, and their signature real-talk style, Garrett and Danielle tackle sex, parenting, therapy, triggers, and transformation proving that growth in marriage requires courage, confrontation, and recommitment to each new version of your partner. Whether you're married, dating, or redifining your relationship, this episode will challenge you to face truth, embrace change, and fight for deeper intimacy. Follow us on Instagram Danielle K White Garrett J White Date Your Wife Podcast

Sep 15, 2025 • 1h 15min
🔥 Marriage, Money & Intimacy: Ray & Jessica Higdon on Healing, Faith & Lasting Love
In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle welcome back powerhouse couple Ray and Jessica Higdon for a raw, unfiltered conversation about marriage, faith, and intimacy. The first time they joined us, the conversation was so fiery it literally burned out the audio, so we knew we had to do it again. This time, the Higdons dive even deeper: from their unlikely first meeting to weathering financial collapse, marital drift, and identity crises, to finding restoration through faith and renewed purpose. Together, we unpack: The seven year "itch" every marriage faces and how to grow through it. Why communication breakdowns can masquerade as criticism and rejection. How faith transformed their relationship and reignited Ray's joy. The unspoken dynamics of sex, stress, and intimacy in long-term partnerships. The crucial role of women seeing potential in their men before they see it themselves. This episode is brutally honest, funny, and packed with wisdom for couples navigating the messy, beautiful realities of marriage, business, and family life.

Sep 8, 2025 • 1h 28min
Beyond Transactional Love: Building Real Connection, Presence & Growth in Marriage with Jarek and Jessica
What happens when love moves beyond gifts, status, and transactional expectations with unconditonal connection? In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Jarek and Jessica share how they built trust, learned to communicate through conflict, and redefined love on their own terms. Together, the couples dive deep into the challenges of transactional dynamics in relationships, why presence matters more than material things, and how to break free from performance-driven love to experience true intimacy. Packed with real stories, emotional breakthroughs, and practical wisdom, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want mroe than surface-level connection. Tune in for conversations on marriage, love, family, blended households, relationship growth, presence, trust, vulnerability, and building a lasting partnership. Make sure you follow us on Instagram Danielle K White Garrett J White Date Your Wife Podcast

Sep 1, 2025 • 1h 15min
Love, Legacy & Lifting Together: Travis & Sofia's Journey from Athletes to Entrepreneurs
In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with Travis Wallace and Sofia Perez, a dynamic couple whose story bridges sports, fitness, love, and entrepreneurship. From their early days as a college coach and tennis player who barely spoke, to building a thriving business and life together in Miami, Travis and Sofia share how discipline, sacrifice, and faith shaped both their relationships and their careers. Travis, a former professional basketball player turned NBA trainer, opens up about the grind of building success from scratch and the mental shift required to scale beyond individual performance. Sofia, a former Costa Rican national tennis player, reveals how rediscovering her passion after injury and refusing to be swept up in Miami's party culture, helped her align with a bigger purpose. Together, they explore the realities of building as a couple: defining roles, balancing obsession with presence, and staying rooted in connection despite the lure of comparison and ambition. Make sure you follow us on Instagram Danielle K White Garrett J White The Date Your Wife Podcast

Aug 25, 2025 • 1h 13min
Marriage, Miami & The Easy Button: How We Rebuilt Love After Hitting Rock Bottom
Dive into the relatable chaos of marriage and parenting as a couple shares their journey from explosive arguments over laundry to the sparks of intimacy. Discover the transformative power of open communication and setting high standards while balancing life in vibrant Miami. With humor and raw honesty, they explore the significance of emotional appreciation, effective communication, and the importance of recognizing each partner's needs. This candid discussion offers insights into rebuilding love and connection after hitting rock bottom.

Aug 18, 2025 • 1h 14min
Marriage, Money & Intimacy: The Honest Truth About Staying Together Through It All
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett step away from guests and return to the original heart of the show, candid conversations about marriage, family, and the messy realities of building a life together. With 22 years of marriage, five kids, and multiple businesses behind them, they open up about navigating sick kids on the first day of school, unexpected detours in life, and the constant need to course correct in relationships. They dive deep into the recurrin struggles couples face: sex, money, intimacy, presence, and words of affirmation, while exposing the hidden reserviors men and women often fail to fill each other. From near-divorce moments in 2016 to rediscovering passion, presence, and consistency, Garrett and Danielle reveal how growth in marriage mirrors growth in business: cycles of breakdown and reinvention are not only normal but necessary. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode offers practical wisdom, hard truths, and vulnerable insights into what it really takes to build a marriage that lasts. Follow us on Instagram Danielle K White Garrett J White Date Your Wife Podcast


