

Probably Poly
Probably Poly
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Sep 30, 2018 • 53min
Communication is Haaarrrrdd
Have you ever wondered why people tell more negative stories then positive stories? Or, wonder what the most commonly misunderstood reasons for communication breakdowns are? Do you just want to improve your own communication success rate? Or do you want to understand the linguistic theories that undergird the ethical theories we use at Probably Poly? Then check out this weeks episode.

Sep 16, 2018 • 43min
Why Good People do Bad Things: Explained (with fish)
In the 11th episode of Probably Poly we delve a little deeper into why asking who was right and who was wrong doesn’t matter, what questions we should be asking instead, and how those two skills can allow you to over come seemingly insurmountable differences.

Sep 1, 2018 • 47min
Heteronormativity in Animated Films
In this episode we discuss how heteroromantic love and heterosexiness are encoded in children's animated films. We explain how it effects viewers, why its a problem, and which movies are the best movies to watch to avoid it.

Aug 18, 2018 • 45min
Our First Listener Question
The hosts delve into their personal journeys with polyamory, revealing how they define their non-monogamous practices. They tackle the challenges of being open about polyamory in a monogamous society, discussing the nuances of social media's portrayal of relationships. The conversation shifts to the implications of relationship labels and the complexities they bring. Finally, they explore the importance of setting boundaries and communicating desires, offering insights on navigating love and jealousy in modern romantic dynamics.

Aug 4, 2018 • 57min
Romantic Objectification
In this episode we critically examine the cultural narratives around romance. We pay special attention to how those ideas can be dangerous and objectifying, how we can avoid those outcomes, and also (for some odd reason) how I ended up with a fish.

Jul 25, 2018 • 54min
Objectification Overview
Mandee Conant returns and we all discus the meaning of objectification, how we want to use it on the show, and how the concept can be used in the non-monogamous discourse.

Jul 12, 2018 • 55min
Autonomy is Not a Cudgel
The hosts introduce a new co-host who specializes in consensual non-monogamy. They discuss navigating polyamory in conservative spaces and the societal perceptions that come with it. Challenges in researching sexual minorities within a Christian framework are highlighted. The complexities of autonomy and ethical decision-making in relationships are explored, emphasizing mutual respect and consent. Personal anecdotes illustrate the emotional intricacies of maintaining healthy connections. Audience engagement and feedback plans are also shared.

Jun 23, 2018 • 46min
An Interview With My Mom Part II
The second part of a two part interview with my mother focuses on her questions to me about polyamory. What she doesn't understand, what concerns her, and how, or if those concerns should be different then for monogamous dating.

Jun 9, 2018 • 47min
An Interview With My Mom Part I
An Interview With My Mom Part I by Probably Poly

May 27, 2018 • 60min
Probably Poly Goes to APW
The wonderful Mandee Conant from Atlanta Poly Weekend (One of the largest and oldest polyamory conferences in the South East) Joins me on the show to talk APW and couples privilege.