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Probably Poly
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May 30, 2020 • 44min
Its Probably Not Autonomy
Dive into the complexities of autonomy within relationships as the hosts unpack its implications on communication and satisfaction. They explore the historical context of rights and how it intertwines with social justice and individual capacity. The discussion includes navigating power dynamics in polyamory, emphasizing the importance of transparency and communication. Additionally, they highlight the impact of technology on meaningful connections and stress the need for clear boundaries and understanding to foster healthier relationships.

May 21, 2020 • 48min
We Are What We Do
In this episode we break down the perceived barrier between doing and being and examine how what we do makes up who we are and how even those things that we might think of as being intrinsic are still projects whether we realize it or not.
Join us again this Saturday, May, 23rd from 5 to 7 EST live on Zoom using the following https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83750233505

May 1, 2020 • 46min
Outcomes from Polyamory’s MeToo
In this episode we look at the final update from the FV survivor pod and an update directly from the survivors, including the updated public survivor asks. We look at the process trajectory and think about take aways and say thanks for all the hard work. In polyamory we know transitions and partial endings are as important as beginnings so we hope you’ll stick with us through this difficult episode.
Join us again this Saturday, May, 9th from 5 to 7 EST live on Zoom using the following link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83607396969
Citations:
Survivor Pod Final Update: https://medium.com/@fv.survivor.pod/a-final-update-from-the-fv-survivor-support-team-f998c893a413
Update from the Survivors: https://medium.com/@fv.survivor.pod/a-message-from-the-fv-survivors-3c1ea629af78
Survivor Archive: https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com/

Apr 18, 2020 • 1h 4min
A Cocktail of Tips with Robin Beatch
We are very lucky to have polyamorous relationship coach and author Robin Beatch join us this week. We discuss a wide range of topic, including but not limited too, how proper sleep manages stress., how to reconcile various communication styles, and special gifts to help touch your partners from a distance.
Join us again this Saturday, April, 25th from 5 to 7:30 est live on Zoom using the following link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81089120245
Citations:
Check out Robin’s work and swag at: https://robinsnestcoaching.com
Great Pink Noise Sound Machine (I suggest the travel size because its just as robust cheeper smaller and has battery back up): https://www.amazon.com/Sound-Fidelity-Non-Looping-Adaptive-Technology/dp/B0182L68NQ/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?dchild=1&keywords=sound%2Bsleep&qid=1587253192&sr=8-1-spons&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUE0TEY4VExENkczQ0YmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA0ODkzMDMxNFJVOFVJUjk4RzJLJmVuY3J5cHRlZEFkSWQ9QTA2OTM0NTFEQjdNOEg1RUZONUcmd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl&th=1

Apr 4, 2020 • 1h 4min
Finding Ourselves in Uncertain Times
This week we dive into how large life changes outside of our control effect our sense of self and how we can reclaim that to the best of our abilities. We utilize the current events as a lens sharing how our lives have personally been affected and what our new normals look like, the difficulties, the profound causes for hope, as well as how to make it better. We also want to warn our listeners that we touch on depression and anxiety triggered by the virus. All that and we break down the new stimulus Cares Act that the government just passed, what we should know.
Join us this Saturday, April, 11th from 5 to 7:30 est live on Zoom using the following link: https://us04web.zoom.us/j/855468883
Citations:
NY Times outline of the CARES act: https://www.nytimes.com/article/coronavirus-stimulus-package-questions-answers.html

Mar 21, 2020 • 52min
Birthdays!
We recorded this episode about togetherness and celebrations before the Corona Virus decended on us, sorry about that, but its still full of good content about how to handle birthdays with partners, friends and metamores, as well as a celebration of Mandee Conant’s actual birthday (Happy Birthday Mandee).

Mar 7, 2020 • 60min
Sharing Spaces After a Breakup
This week we talk about the difficult but ever-present issue of sharing social spaces with ex partners, as well as navigating how to handle the possibility of getting back together with an ex years later.

Feb 22, 2020 • 32min
Black Poly Pride
This week Chanee Jackson Kendall cofounder of Black Poly Pride drops by to tell us about their Black Poly History push for Black History Month as well as tell us all about Black Poly Pride and discuss other issues about being black and poly. Please check them out on whatever digital engagement works best for you and support them if you can.
Website: www.BlackPolyPride.com
Twitter: @BlackPolyPride
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlackPolyPride
Instagram: @BlackPolyPride
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BlackPolyPride

Feb 8, 2020 • 1h 4min
Tail Over Teakettle
As Valentines approaches we discuss internet dating options, how to set up your profile to maximize matches, and why you probably don’t want to, as well as how to manage NRE for a safer more consistent ride at the beginning of those new relationships.

Jan 25, 2020 • 54min
Two Questions One Episode
This conversation dives deep into the complexities of polyamory, addressing how individuals can understand their own feelings about love. The hosts tackle the crucial question of how to help someone determine if they identify as poly. They then shift gears to explore the ethics of disclosing STI status in relationships, emphasizing the importance of open communication for safer intimate interactions. By intertwining personal stories and ethical dilemmas, the discussion keeps things relatable and thought-provoking.