
The Divine Romance Podcast
Holy Courtship & Kingdom Marriage.
For women of faith.
"I am my beloved's and he is mine." - Song of Songs 6:3
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Latest episodes

11 snips
Nov 25, 2024 • 28min
Fact or Fiction: 'You Will Know Your Soulmate When You See Them'
Claudia and Jonathan dive into the myth that you’ll instantly recognize your soulmate. They share personal stories that highlight the need for deeper understanding in relationships. The conversation shifts to the gradual journey of finding true connection, advocating for patience in modern dating. Listeners learn the importance of intentional courtship and how love and dating can be developed as skills. The hosts encourage exploring different relationships for better compatibility, promoting a more thoughtful approach to romance.

Oct 28, 2024 • 1h 14min
39: Functional Health and Relational Polarity with Asa Santiago
In this episode, functional medicine practitioner and CEO of Polarity Health, Asa Santiago, joins Claudia to discuss ways to optimize our hormones so we thrive in our most essential identities as men and women.
Asa fuses the fields of health and polarity and shares how metabolic modalities, including fasting, can restore our body to its natural design, and affect our masculine/feminine dynamics in dating.
You can learn more about Asa's work at polarizinghealth(dot)com.
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Oct 14, 2024 • 35min
When You're Stuck In Your Single Identity
In this episode, Jonathan and Claudia dive into one of the biggest blocks that is keeping smart, successful women stuck, single, and alone for a lot longer than they need to be.
If you're a woman in your 20s, 30s, or 40s, who is being called to marriage, and you don't want to waste any more time messing around with the wrong men, then book a call with our team here to see if our 12-week program, The King's Road, is right for you.
All our love,
Jonathan and Claudia Phillips

Oct 1, 2024 • 1h 26min
Unconventional Wisdom to Thrive in Marriage with Shiloh Minoh
In this podcast interview, marriage love coach Shiloh Minoh shares profound 'wife wisdom' with Claudia to help women create thriving lifelong unions with their spouse.
She offers tools to assist women 'silently suffering' in their marriages, who want to elevate the partnership to greater levels of love, chemistry, and romance. She discusses how to turn on your true feminine power, the unexpected dangers of criticizing your man, and the wife-skills to redefine and realign the power dynamics in your relationship.
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You can learn more about Shiloh's work at marriagewithpassion (dot) com.
And you can kickstart your Marriage Renaissance with Jonathan and Claudia by booking your 30-minute love connection call with us at Ecstatically Ever After (dot) com.

Sep 7, 2024 • 37min
Casting the Net Wide In the Early Stages of Courtship
In this podcast, Claudia and Jonathan cover how casting a larger net will vastly improve your dating journey to being claimed, including:
1. How keeping a narrow net takes you out of your feminine essence and puts you into ‘hunting mode’
2. How you may be blocking yourself from the man that God wants to send you
3. And the cost of not getting any practice with real men so when your king comes around, you don’t know what to do and may lose him.
If you are a single lady serious about finding your king/husband in the next 6-9 months, then we invite you to book a complimentary 30-min love diagnostic call with us at ecstaticallyeverafter (dot) com

Jul 26, 2024 • 35min
5 Ways to Start Aligning with Better Men Now
In this podcast, Jonathan and Claudia address a primary faulty premise that women bring into their dating lives that causes them to align with the worst in men instead of the best. We will go over 5 ways to reverse that pattern immediately, including:
* How to appreciate the men currently showing up in your life to magnetize more kings down the road.
* How to give men opportunities to win with you so that you inspire his innate nobility, chivalry and hero instinct.
* How to know what to look for in a truly marriage-minded man, so you can find the high-quality available suitors that may be outside your normal radar.
* Setting the bar appropriately so you are not 'settling' being claimed
* Respecting men by default for more allure, attraction, and romantic activation in your life.
If you're a lady desiring her king within the next 3-6 months, we invite you to book a complimentary Love Diagnostic Call via Ecstatically Ever After (dot) com.
You can also join our newsletter and the Feminine Renaissance monthly membership there.

Jul 2, 2024 • 39min
When You Move Into Devotion Before Discernment
Claudia and Jonathan dive into the pitfalls of rushing into devotion before discernment in relationships. They highlight how this misstep affects the natural dynamic between genders and complicates the journey to finding a partner. With a focus on mindful dating, they advocate for slowing down to build emotional connections. The discussion also delves into feminine magnetism and its impact on partner choices, encouraging women to aim higher in their romantic pursuits. Overall, they stress the importance of thoughtful courtship for lasting relationships.

Apr 14, 2024 • 1h 10min
Calling In Love As a Single Mama
My Loves,
I had the most delicious time interviewing my gorgeous friend and colleague, Clare Alohi, recently on the podcast.
Clare brings a beautiful devotional feminine medicine, crystal clear wife codes, and the profound wisdom that came from turning her love life into a game and calling in her husband as a single mama.
What we covered in this episode:
* How Clare came back home to her feminine essence as a single mama of 17 years, came out of survival mode, and called in her husband
* The global events that woke Clare up to the lack of healthy masculine men in this culture, and what she did to feel safe as a woman during the pandemic
* Why surrender, or even giving up, can be the most powerful catalyst to calling in your husband
* How this culture sets women up to fail in love, and to be stuck in perpetual single-hood, even if she does not want this
* How single mothers can call in their husband, and why it’s not too late
* What true union relationships look like in this day and age
This podcast is full of gems for everyone, but especially the women who feel like it’s too late for love, or that their single mama identity is making it really hard for them to find their beloved
Clare’s bio:
I'm Clare Alohi, a 45-year old newlywed. I spent the majority of my adult life single in situationships, on a dating hamster wheel. I had never married but always longed to be. As a single mom to two boys, I learned how to be a provider and both a "father" and mother to my two sons, which caused me to constantly be operating from a stressed, masculine energy and unknowingly repel men. After many humiliations, heartbreaks, and finally just giving up on love altogether, I discovered the teachings of polarity. I learned all I could from many authors, teachers, Hermetics, spiritual texts, New Thought, philosophy, quantum physics, and channeling my own unique wisdom.
Applying these principles helped me attract and marry the masculine man of my dreams. Not only that, but this has radically transformed my life in all areas. I feel safe with a strong, secure man who provides for and leads our family. This is allowing me to pursue my passions of teaching all about polarity, the game of life, and how women who were once like me, carrying a masculine shield and struggling to do it all, can find their perfect relationship and set down the burdens you were never meant to carry. You continue to get what you have always gotten, until you make changes within. That's where learning to play the Game of Dreams (playing GoD) comes in.
You can grab a copy of Clare's book, Core Feminine Essence, here.
All my love,
Claudia Phillips
P.S. If you are a woman in her 30s or 40s who is desiring to call in her King in the next 6 months, but keep getting stuck in past patterns, doubt, fear, or maybe, just maybe, you don't know what to do, let's talk.
Book a 30-minute connection call with us here, where we will help you get clear on what hasn't been working in your love life, how to shift it, so you can start moving merrily down the path and into the arms of your beloved.
P.P.S. If you are a woman who loves men and wants to be in relationship with them, but your communication keeps falling on deaf ears, then you need to download my free Feminine Communication ebook.

Mar 12, 2024 • 1h 27min
The Mystery of Marriage with Sarah Rose
My Loves,
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with my gorgeous sister and colleague, Sarah Rose, about the mystery and sacrament of Marriage, and what God has been revealing to both of us about true Divine Union.
In it, we dive into:
Why true Divine Union is rooted in our relationship with God as Father and Beloved, first
What it looks like to have a win-win marriage, versus a lose-win marriage (which is really a lose-lose)
The ancient / future marriage templates that are dropping on the planet right now
The difference between divine polarity and primal polarity or polarity in the natural
Quantum law and how it applies in sacred relationship
The original wound of separation between man and God, and man and woman, and how this has affected marital templates throughout the ages
Practical tools for an extraordinary marriage
I absolutely love co-creating with Sarah, and she is one of the most pristine transmitters of cosmic Union I have ever had the privilege of encountering!
Find out more about her work here: https://quantumpsyche.as.me/schedule/16b9ee32
All my love,
Claudia

Mar 8, 2024 • 37min
5 Surprising Green Flags to Look For in the Men You Meet
My Loves,
In this episode of the Ecstatically Ever After podcast, my husband Jonathan and I jam on 5 surprising green flags to look for in the men you meet.
Why are they surprising, you might ask?
Because so often, what we interpret as red flags are actually green flags, aka healthy signs that we should move forward with a man.
We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did!
All our love,
Claudia and Jonathan.
P.S. Are you a woman in her 30s or 40s who is deeply desiring a passionate, polarized Union with your masculine counterpart (that lasts a lifetime)?
Book a 30-minute zero pressure connection call with our team to explore whether if this is the right fit for you right now: https://calendly.com/claudiaandjonathan/30-minute-meeting