How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidenceGet ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.Quotes"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformationhttps://datingtransformation.comhttps://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationDr Robert GloverCo Author of “The Big Stick"https://www.drglover.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/Tony EndelmanCo Author of “The Big Stick""https://tonyendelman.com/https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:http://www.bigstickbook.comBUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&qid=1684431647&sr=8-1LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:http://www.TonyEndelman.comLEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:www.drgolver.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactChapters00:17 Introduction00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation01:28 Outro

So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to write on your dating app profile. Connell is about to teach you…✔ The biggest things NOT to write on your profile, and what to write instead✔ The one-line “hook” to use at the start of your bio that guarantees she’ll keep reading✔ How to write fun, flirty prompts on Bumble and Hinge that leads to matches and dates✔ The right way to end your bio that TRIPLES your chances of matching with her, and even make her send YOU the first messagePlus 11 more practical, tested tips that you can use today.Listen now, so you can stop struggling with online dating, and learn how to describe yourself on the dating apps—and start dating wonderful women!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Your dating profile is like a marketing campaign. Focus on what's in it for her, make it fun, and show her your personality”- Connell BarrettRemember, dating is a numbers game. Embrace the journey of going on multiple dates before finding the right person,"- Connell BarrettChapters00:06 Introduction00:16 Unlock the Secrets to Crafting an Authentic Dating Profile6:25 Writing an Irresistible Dating Bio: Hooks, Not Clichés10:11 Master the Skill of Writing to Capture Her Attention19:08 Unleashing Playful Humor: Going Beyond Clichés in Your Profile24:26 Crafting a Compelling Dating App Bio: The Power of a Call to Action27:21 Infusing Edge and Playfulness into Your Bio29:58 Crafting First Date Prompts that Leave a Lasting Impression34:53 Flirtatious Prompts: Captivating Genuine Connections37:06 Outro

OK, a quick joke.How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with womenOh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.QUOTES"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony RecenelloActive listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony RecenelloFEATURED IN THIS EPISODEAnthony RecenelloFounder and Dating Coach of Wolf & GardenWebsite:https://recenello.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:http://www.recenello.com/freeclassCHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactCHAPTERS00:00 Introduction00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community Validation47:06 Delving into the Art of Flirting and Sexuality52:13 The Power of Intentions: Candid Conversations about Sex57:36 Expressing Good Intentions and Genuine Emotions01:03:16 Extroverted Friends: Do They Just Talk About Nothing?01:08:27 Mastering Presence and Purpose in Conversations01:15:32 Uncovering Biography Topics and Preferences in Discussions01:20:49 Making Better Connections: The Importance of Early Introductions01:27:00 OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com/

You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches.Let’s change all of that!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 23 of his best tips for starting conversations on the apps, so you can get women writing you back… and go on dates!Connell is about to teach you…✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to writing dating-app openers that start fun, flirty conversations✔ How to quickly write a personalized opener that makes her EXCITED to write you back✔ The 5 kinds of openers you never, ever want to send to women… and the 5 “power openers” that are sure to get her writing you back.✔ His 7 funniest copy-paste openers you can use to get girls giggling, just in case you get stuck with what to writeAnd you’ll learn how to start a conversation on a dating app while showcasing your best, most authentic personality… because women like you for YOU.Listen now, to STOP getting ghosted on the apps, and START having flirty conversations that lead to dates.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right?In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—offers 27 first date tips for guys, to help you make sparks fly.Get ready to learn…✔ The exact words to use to when asking her out, to get a “yes!” ✔ The 7 first-date questions you can ask to create a romantic connection✔ Connell’s top 3 ways to go for (and get!) the first kiss, in a way women love✔ A simple, 3-step system to create mutual sparks while authentic, so that your date becomes attracted to the REAL you.PLUS: Connell shares his top tip for instant first-date confidence.Bad first dates are no fun, and they can make you want to give up on dating. Listen now to all 27 first date tips for guys, to go from frustration… to making sparks fly, and doing it as your true, most authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.If you’re like Chris, you’ve had his struggles: He could get dates, but women kept saying the same thing after a date or two: “You’re a nice guy, but I’m not feeling a connection. But we can be friends.”In this episode, Connell gives Chris—and you—a simple plan that helped Chris go from hearing “Let’s be friends” to “Let’s make out!”These tips transformed his dating life, and they can do the same for you.You’re about to learn…✔ Why you’re getting stuck in friend zone, and how to escape✔ How to harness the power of “man-to-woman communication” to ignite romantic sparks on dates✔ The one-sentence “power compliment” to give your date to keep you out of the friend zone✔ How to never “run out of things to say,” so that you can be flirty, funny and authentic—because women like you for YOU!Connell helped Chris go from the friend zone to fun, flirty dates. And you can fix the friend zone, too! Listen now.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s Bestselling Dating Guide for men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” your step-by-step guide on how to get a girlfriend:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Chapters00:00:00 Introduction00:03:05 The three social contexts00:05:46 The man-to-woman communication00:10:01 Book your free call today with Connell Barrett00:11:42 Coaching Chris00:17:05 Chris’ typical dates00:21:02 The seven essentials of great dates00:33:47 Get the amazing book of Connell, “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”00:35:12 Continuation in coaching Chris00:37:09 Chris on his man-to-woman communication00:45:49 How to be yourself in dating00:47:58 The four escalators00:46:58 Connell’s tips to Chris01:03:47 Outro

So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit.Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women?In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social circle!In this episode, Kramer, the founder of Inner Confidence, will help you…✔ Meet smart, attractive women not by swiping on the apps but by using your social connections✔ Create a step-by-step plan to get more dates, no nerve-wracking approaches needed✔ Uncover the biggest dating mistake that you don’t know you’re making, and help you fix it✔ PLUS: Connell and Robbie talk about unlocking the power of true authenticity, so that desirable women will like you for YOU.Listen now so you can stop endlessly swiping on the apps and start meeting great women using your social connections. It’s time to take your dating confidence to the next level.To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:http://www.innerconfidence.com/QuotesWomen are going to be incredibly flaky and the hotter they are, the more likely they're going to be flaky. - RobbieOnline dating is just riddled with flakes. Like you're going to get at least 50% to 75% flakes if the girls are really hot. - RobbieThe best dating hack I've found is to shift from a hunter mindset of chasing one girl at a time to a farming mindset of cultivating an environment with a favorable ratio. - RobbieOur HostConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youClick this link:https://datingtransformation.com/contact/Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXFeatured GuestRobbie Kramerhttps://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramerhttps://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramerhttps://innerconfidence.comTo Learn More or to Work with Robbie:http://www.innerconfidence.com/Chapters00:00 Introduction00:04:23 A sample story of heart surgeon on his dating life00:07:03 An Internal tip and external tip from Connell00:15:25 Book a call with Coach Connell to give you advice in the dating space00:17:00 Introducing our guest, Robbie Kramer00:19:35 Robbie’s problem before with his dating life00:24:04 Robbie’s breakthrough moment00:35:00 Why are women flaky?00:43:52 Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”00:45:35 Robbie’s practical tips to be successful on dating00:54:25 Another successful story from one of Robbie’s friend01:00:17 Rapid fire question time01:08:56 Takeaways from RobbieProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.You can feel her losing interest in you, and sure enough—she goes off to find a flirty guy who can make her laugh.It can make you feel boring, unattractive, and get you stuck in the dreaded “friend zone.”In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett gives you his secret weapon to be flirty and funny, whether you’re texting a new match on the dating apps, or looking to charm your Saturday night date.Connell will teach you how to…✔ Turn a boring conversation into something fun and flirty, using a powerful technique from improv comedy that can transform your flirting skills✔ Get out of your head and in the moment with women, so you can make sparks fly with your words✔ Text women in a way that builds a genuine, fun connection that helps you get more datesAnd of course, you’ll be able to do all of this as your best, most authentic self—without any creepy “pickup artist” nonsense.Listen now, to take your conversations with women from dull and boring to funny, flirty… and smash out of the friend zone!Our HostConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youLink: https://datingtransformation.com/contactGet the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXQuotesYou don't need to be great looking. You don't have to be tall. I mean, if you can be funny on a date that's sexier than six pack abs. - ConnellChapters00:00 Introduction01:26 You don’t need to be a comedian to get the girl02:59 Use the core concepts in improv comedy08:25 Book a call with Coach Connell or Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”09:49 An example of “If this is true, what else is true?” concept16:11 Another example of “Yes Ending” concept21:03 Recommended actions to elevate your gameProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com

Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was adumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet… and it’scrushing your confidence and costing you dates. Let’s fix this!You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coachConnell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women.Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anxiety.” He couldn’t even say hello to attractivestrangers, let alone flirt or ask women out. “I feel paralyzed with fear,” Xavier told Connell.After this session with Connell, Xavier’s fear of approaching vanished, and he’s been confidentlymeeting (and dating) some incredible women.In this special live-coaching episode, you’ll hear the session that transformed Xavier’s datinglife. You’re about to learn…✔ The secret to unstoppable confidence when you approach women✔ The “magic words” women love to hear when you meet them stores, parks, or the gym✔ How to approach with charm and at bars, and get HER flirting with YOU✔ The biggest mistake men make when approaching, and what to do insteadConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationBook Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for youClick this link:https://datingtransformation.com/contact/Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GXQuotesThe main cause of approach anxiety is fearing that a woman is going to, quote unquote reject you. And then you are going to perceive that as you are not attractive and not worthy of women. - ConnellTo establish a connection with a woman, express your genuine interest and attraction, and then suggest taking her on a date to capitalize on the momentum of the interaction. - ConnellChapters00:00:00 Introduction00:03:00 Online dating experience00:07:53 Top 3 tips for online dating00:17:53 Book a call with Coach Connell00:19:27 Getting a live coaching relationship with Xavier00:24:42 Introducing Xavier and his background00:28:02 Xavier’s approach anxiety moments00:36:08 The Direct and Indirect way of approaching00:39:38 Approaching a woman after getting a coaching from Coach Connell00:43:16 The Day approach versus The night approach00:58:04 Get “Dating Sucks But You Don’t” today on Amazon00:59:35 More dating tips about daytime approach versus nighttime approach01:08:30 Having fun or going to meet women at night?01:12:51 Planning your logistics when meeting women01:22:42 Approaching group of women in difficult settings01:27:23 ConclusionProduced by Heartcast Mediahttp://www.heartcastmedia.com