How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett "Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell BarretFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters: 00:22 - Introduction01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance37:43 - Outro

So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:05 - Introduction05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro

You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:36 - Introduction01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes22:35 - Outro

Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.Listen now, to make your next date great.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions27:53 - Outro

If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:14 - Introduction04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals22:35 - Fear & Failure: The Road to Dating Success24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence28:34 - Outro

Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:13 - Introduction01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication04:48 - Emotional & Romantic Expressions in Dating07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective33:02 - Outro

There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she helped him become more empathetic to this overdue movement. Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TOALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET AGIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Yes, a Radically Authentic man has romantic love in his heart for women, but he also has a higher, selfless love in his heart for all people."- Connelll Barrett"Being a man is not about how good you are with women, but how good you are to women." - Connelll Barrett"Let's celebrate women for their individuality and respect their right to express themselves " - Connelll BarrettChapters00:00 - Introduction02:18 - Overcoming Dating Challenges08:45 - Confidence and Approaching Women13:10 - Being Respectful in Dating14:20 - Expert Tips on Attracting and Flirting15:30 - 7 Dating Mistakes : Avoiding Ghosting in the MeToo Era17:55 - Finding Genuine Connections19:40 - Journey of Educating on Sexual Assault21:10 - Empathy and Authenticity in Relationships23:40 - Learning Empathy and Respect24:23 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares 15 tested tips to help you flirt with charm and total respect for women, as the gentleman you are. The good news? Dating today is easier than you think, when you put these tips into practice. Listen now, to make sparks fly with class, heart and empathy.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TOALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"What makes you a man is not how good you are with women, but how good you are TO women." -Connell Barrett."Women appreciate pursuit, but respect boundaries and prioritize consent."- Connelll Barrett"Focus on creating connections, Let romance unfold naturally."- Connelll BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnelll BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:13 - Empowering Men in Dating06:45 - The "Lunch" Dilemma: Making a Move with Respect10:20 - Embracing Me Too: Empathy and Awareness14:05 - Understanding Flirting, Misconduct, and Harassment17:30 - Decoding Flirting: Respectful Approaches19:52 - Balancing Interest and Respectful Consent20:45 - The Art of Persistence: Respecting Boundaries23:52 - Success Stories vs. Harassment: Lessons Learned27:10 - The Rewards of Respectful Persistence30:15 - Dating Successfully in the Me Too Era30:55 - ConclusionThis podcast is produced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths that are hurting your love life, and he shares 5 quick tips you can use to transform romantic results. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Nice guys are sexier than 6 pack abs as long as you cultivate that sense of worthiness and confidence."- Connell Barrett"Having cash and a cool job is a nice bonus in the eyes of women, but it doesn't ignite connection and attraction."- Connell Barrett"Instead of focusing on what you think you lack, play to your strengths and boost your confidence."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:51 Introduction01:39 Unveiling Authentic Flirting: Debunking Myths05:04 Attracting Women: Beyond Lamborghinis and Cash06:41 Looks Don't Define You: Embrace Your Appeal09:52 Kindness Matters: Prioritizing What Women Truly Value13:31 Jason's Success Story: Connecting Through Passion and Authenticity17:02 Embracing Body Diversity: Attraction Beyond Shapes20:35 The Charisma of Darren: Humor's Captivating Power24:05 Nice Guys Finish First: The Desirability of Kindness26:32 Nice Guys: Confidence and Sexiness Unleashed31:49 Approaching Confidently: Overcoming Creep Stereotypes33:01 Embracing Natural Connections: Genuine Interactions34:46 Outro

Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!Quotes"I take pride in being a great listener, allowing others to express themselves fully."-Tom"I value girls sharing their thoughts, it helps me listen & understand." - Tom"A genuine connection can be established by steering the conversation back on track, and women will genuinely appreciate your effort in doing so." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeTom(Guest)Connell Barrett(Host)Founder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:27 Introduction07:22 Navigating Fatigue and Enhancing Engagement on Dates12:12 Conversational Tips: Avoiding Awkward Silences22:15 Authenticity and Sincerity: Keeping the Conversation Real24:45 Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Opening Up29:21 Taking Chances and Embracing Vulnerability34:55 Charming Responses: Deflecting Personal Relationship Questions43:44 Keeping the Date Focused on Each Other49:27 From Lighthearted to Genuine: Building Deeper Connections58:05 Geeky Banter and Smooth Date Requests: A Bumble Success Story58:05 Building Emotional Connection: Before Asking for a Date01:06:18 Outro