The Expansive

TakeawaysSleep is essential for recovery and healing.Personalized earplugs can significantly improve sleep quality.The Iranian regime is widely disliked by its population.Technology has advanced warfare in alarming ways.AI is reshaping our understanding of trust in digital content.The future may see a renaissance of real-life interactions.Apple's recent AI developments have disappointed many.The cell phone era may be nearing its end.We are witnessing a transition from an old world to a new one.The future of meetings may involve AI rather than humans. Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

TakeawaysCelebrating 250 episodes is a significant milestone.The Nielsen's bestseller list is a formal measurement of book sales.Book sales are declining globally, similar to the music industry.AI is changing the landscape of education and content creation.Traveling allows for personal reinvention and anonymity.You create your own reality through the stories you tell yourself.Specialization is crucial in a competitive market.The world doesn't see the complexities we perceive.Being a trophy husband can be a fun identity.The importance of clear communication in personal branding.   Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

Takeaways The book launch marks a significant milestone in their journey.Friendship and collaboration have been key to their success.The concept of sovereignty is central to personal empowerment.Breathwork can lead to profound emotional and spiritual experiences.Understanding parental roles can shift personal perspectives.Women over 50 are seen as powerful and wise.Nature's intelligence plays a crucial role in our lives.Personal growth often involves releasing expectations from parents.The journey of authorship is intertwined with personal identity.Consciousness studies can lead to deeper self-awareness. Everything is emitting some type of frequency.Visualization of communication begins the communication process.Certainty can lead to stagnation.Men are meant to witness and support women.Women often take on the role of protectors in society.Conditional love can hinder relationships.Zach Bush is running for president in four years.Costa Rica is a land of perpetual peace and sustainability.Seeking out the best teachers is crucial for personal growth.Being open to different perspectives fosters adaptability.   Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast Journey03:50 Vulnerability in Relationships05:44 Exploring Attachment Styles11:25 Understanding Relationship Dynamics16:44 The Four Attachment Styles22:31 Navigating Disorganized Attachment22:52 Navigating Emotional Triggers in Relationships24:47 Understanding Attachment Styles26:50 The Impact of Communication in Relationships29:43 The Struggle with Vulnerability and Power Dynamics32:19 The Journey of Self-Awareness and Healing35:33 Embracing the Process of Learning and Growth39:44 Finding Meaning in Small Gestures of Love  Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

Our new book is now available and moving forward we'll share some of the chapters here with our listeners.In this solo episode, Erik kicks us off. Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

In this episode of the Expansive Podcast, Erik Kruger and John Sanei delve into various themes including attachment styles in relationships, insights from the FIBO Health Expo, secrets of longevity, the role of relationships in longevity, and the evolving landscape of leadership in the age of AI. They explore how emotional intelligence and community connections contribute to a longer, healthier life, and discuss the importance of curiosity and collaboration in effective leadership. In this conversation, John Sanei and Erik Kruger explore the evolving relationship between humans and AI, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence, diverse perspectives, and the balance between efficiency and care in utilizing AI. They discuss the iceberg problem of mastery versus superficial peaks created by AI, the potential for learned helplessness, and the future of creativity in an AI-driven world. The dialogue encourages listeners to focus on curiosity and genuine engagement rather than mere output. Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

Richard Mulholland joins the Expansive Podcast as a guest host alongside John (with Eric joining later), discussing Richard's new book "Relentless Relevance," which explores how to stay appropriate to the matter at hand in a rapidly changing world. Throughout the conversation, they explore the journey from youthful arrogance to mature humility, the importance of creating "safe havens" and "escape hatches" in life, and Richard's personal experience of questioning his relevance after turning 50. The discussion weaves through various topics including the difference between counter-narrative thinking versus being contrarian, the value of genuine standing ovations, and the definition of relevance as "the state of being appropriate to the matter at hand." The episode concludes with information about Richard's book availability and upcoming launches. #TheExpansivePodcast  Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

In this episode of The Expansive Podcast, Erik Kruger and John Sanei dive into the intersection of creativity and AI, explore the evolving landscape of leadership, and share a major announcement about their upcoming book. Expect a conversation packed with deep insights, thought-provoking debates, and a fresh perspective on personal and professional growth.Episode Highlights:🔥 Big News! Erik and John unveil their forthcoming book, launching in May 2025. Drawing from 250+ podcast episodes, this book distills their best ideas into 52 powerful essays designed to help you live and lead with clarity, creativity, and courage.🎨 Creativity vs. AI – Does using AI tools like ChatGPT count as true creativity? Erik argues for the importance of original thought, while John explores how disruption fuels the evolution of creative expression.🧠 Leadership & Healing – John introduces the concept of the "pain body" in leadership, unpacking how unprocessed emotional baggage influences decision-making and team dynamics. The hosts discuss various healing modalities, from meditation to psychedelics.🐕 The “Knobs to Dogs” Philosophy – How can we treat difficult people with the same compassion we show to our pets? Erik and John explore this mindset shift and the challenge of applying insights gained from transformative experiences.💡 Self-Compassion & Growth – John emphasizes the importance of patience in personal growth, reframing change as a process of befriending yourself rather than forcing transformation through self-criticism.The hosts also tease future episodes featuring AI-generated questions and invite listeners to keep an eye out for their book launch events in Johannesburg, Dubai, and Cape Town.🎧 Tune in now and expand your thinking! Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

Episode OverviewIn this episode, John Sanei and Erik Kruger dive deep into the essence of charisma, exploring what truly makes someone magnetic and influential beyond surface-level charm.Key TakeawaysCharisma is not about being smooth or charming, but about genuine presence, depth, and internal strength. The hosts break down six critical components of developing true charisma:1. Unshakable ConfidenceConfidence stems from feeling safe internallyPractice internal dialogue that reassures: "No matter what happens, I'll be okay"Build confidence through doing hard things and developing self-respect2. Character Over ReputationFocus on being solid, not looking goodThe truth always outlasts illusionAvoid virtual signaling and stay true to your core valuesDon't feel compelled to defend yourself constantly3. Radical IntegrityDevelop honesty as a power moveBuild trust through consistent behavior over timeMake peace with yourself by being genuineRecognize that long-term relationships are built on consistent character4. Zero Need to ConvinceMagnetic people don't chase approvalState your truth and let it landAvoid getting drawn into unnecessary argumentsUnderstand that not everyone needs to agree with you5. Purpose in ActionFollow your curiosity and excitementCommunicate your mission openly and clearlyStay aligned with your personal geniusRecognize the difference between charm and genuine flow6. Humanize EverythingCompliment freelyEmbrace vulnerabilityUnderstand that perfection is boring, and flaws create connectionBe willing to show your authentic self, including your quirks and insecuritiesNotable Quotes"Charisma is not about charm. It's about presence, depth, and the energy that makes people lean in to listening to you.""When you arrive into a room, are you giving people a remote control or a manual?""The better storyteller you are, the more momentum you'll build around your message."Practical TakeawayCharisma is not a trick but a way of being. It requires:Internal workSelf-awarenessEmpathyCalm energyVulnerability Connect with Us: Subscribe to The Expansive: link.chtbl.com/expansive LinkedIn: Expansive Podcast LinkedIn YouTube: Expansive Podcast Playlist Instagram: @theexpansivepodcast TikTok: @theexpansivepodcast Connect with John Sanei: Instagram: @johnsanei LinkedIn: John Sanei Connect with Erik Kruger: Instagram: @erik_kruger LinkedIn: Erik Kruger Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to rate and review our podcast! Share your thoughts and feedback with us on social media or drop us a message at robyn@theexpansive.com  Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast      

In this episode of The Expansive, John Sanei and Erik Kruger dive into the complexities of emotional health, exploring the concept of the 'pain body' as described by Eckhart Tolle. They discuss the challenges of navigating survival mode, the importance of holding space for oneself and others, and why expressing emotions is a crucial part of growth.The conversation then shifts to the themes of wisdom, curiosity, and the paradox of insight—how it can be both a gift and a curse, leading to perfectionism and self-judgment. John and Erik explore the balance between mind and heart, the power of adaptability in a fast-changing world, and the importance of softening towards personal challenges rather than constantly trying to fix them. They also examine how our beliefs shape our perceptions and actions, ultimately influencing how we move through life.Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on emotional resilience, self-awareness, and the mindset shifts needed to navigate an ever-evolving world. Hello! Please like and subscribe to our channel and leave us a comment! We love hearing from our listeners and we thank you for being apart of our community! Socials:Instagram: @theexpansivepodcastX: @theexpansivepodLinkedin: The Expansive PodcastTik Tok: theexpansivepodcast