Loving BDSM

Life inevitably impacts power exchange relationships, and this discussion highlights the common challenges faced. The hosts emphasize flexibility, communication, and the importance of small gestures during tough times. They humorously reflect on managing responsibilities like parenting and work while navigating intimacy. Unique home choices for a BDSM lifestyle are explored, alongside the need for realistic expectations. Personal anecdotes reveal how external stressors shape dynamics, showcasing the humorous side of balancing kink with everyday life.

A submissive isn’t having a good time during scenes with their nervous Domme — and is getting more and more frustrated. Here’s the question: Hello! So I’m in a relationship with a woman who... The post Q&A: How Do I Enjoy Scenes with a Nervous Domme? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We’ve been getting the same type of question recently…Where do I find a Dom? How do I find a submissive? So let’s talk about it this week. In this episode: Thanks to Flure for... The post Where to Find a Dominant or Submissive Partner | Back to Basics Series appeared first on Loving BDSM.

A kinkster wants to take things further with their partner – who isn’t interested in being a submissive. Here’s the question: My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years. We have... The post Q&A: Is It Okay to Enjoy Our Power Dynamic Without Labeling It? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

You’ve figured out you’re kinky, met a partner (or talked to your current partner), and negotiated a power exchange. Yay! And also…there are a few challenges to be aware of as you navigate your... The post What to Watch Out for in New D/s Relationships | Back to Basics Series appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re answering a question from a submissive who wants to get back to a more primal, CNC, sadomasochistic way of playing with their partner but old memories from another relationship are holding... The post Q&A: How Do I Move Past Bad Memories to Enjoy Old Kinks? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Dive into the essential topic of consent in D/s relationships, emphasizing its critical role in BDSM dynamics. Learn about effective communication strategies, boundary-setting, and the importance of expressing needs openly. The conversation tackles the nuances of enthusiastic consent, the complexities faced within power exchange, and the significance of safe words. With a touch of humor, personal anecdotes about birthdays and self-care add a light-hearted twist to the discussion, reminding us of the balance between fun and responsibility.

This week, a kinkster wants to get back into their local community but wants to avoid someone who seems to be an unsafe kinkster. Note: Content warning for brief mention of suicide, abusive behavior,... The post Q&A: Can I Avoid an Active Member in My Local Community? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This discussion kicks off a back-to-basics series on starting Dominance/submission relationships. It emphasizes the necessity of open communication and self-advocacy. Listeners will learn about the importance of navigating emotions and discussing boundaries. The speakers also dive into the intricacies of finding genuine connections while exploring kink. They share personal experiences, valuable resources, and strategies to enhance relational skills, making it essential for anyone interested in power exchange dynamics.

This week, a Daddy Dom worries that they aren’t being a good Dom because they promise fuckery at the end of the day and then change their mind. Here’s the question: Am I unreliable... The post Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant? appeared first on Loving BDSM.