Loving BDSM

This discussion dives into the complexities of power exchange dynamics, focusing on the role of punishment. The hosts argue for the importance of context in rule-breaking and the benefits of positive reinforcement. They explore how trust and anxiety interplay, emphasizing communication and consent. The conversation also highlights the shift from traditional punishment to supportive training strategies. Moreover, disappointment is examined as a communication tool, advocating for dialogue that promotes understanding over harm.

A lot of feelings come up when you’re getting back to the D/s relationship you want or reconfiguring it to work for your life now. For us, it’s been feelings of comfort (Kayla) and... The post Feelings of Comfort and Familiarity appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Content warning: mentions (but no descriptions) of sexual abuse and trauma in a past D/s relationship A submissive left an abusive power exchange relationship and has found a Dominant partner that makes them happy,... The post Q&A: How Do I Feel More Confident in Our Dynamic After Trauma? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Join a delightful exploration of light-hearted conflicts in power exchange relationships, filled with playful banter and personal anecdotes. The hosts share amusing tales from a vet visit with their pup Lola, revealing the joys and stresses of pet care. They also tackle the comedic challenges of home ownership and contractor searches, showcasing the quirks of everyday life. With a focus on humor in communication, even silly disagreements can strengthen bonds and lead to laughter!

This week, a submissive can’t stop worrying about her partner’s previous sexual experience but her Dominant also worries he’s not giving her big enough orgasms. Here’s the question: My boyfriend and I have been... The post Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head During Sex? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Join the hosts as they humorously dive into the quirks of BDSM discussions from Reddit. They share insights on navigating boundaries in relationships, highlighting the importance of trust and clear communication. Technical mishaps add a comical twist, while personal stories of embracing dominance reveal the complexities of power dynamics. Listener anecdotes spark reflections on toxic patterns in BDSM, and fantasies in literature are explored, showcasing both compelling narratives and frustrating themes. It's a mix of laughter, learning, and candid conversations!

A submissive agreed to their partner “No” on agreed upon topics, but their partner reacts in a way that’s causing resentment. The submissive knows they need to talk but also knows their partner doesn’t... The post Q&A: How Do I Support a Partner Who Doesn’t Take Criticism Well? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Obedience is a cornerstone of submission, but experiences vary widely among individuals. The hosts delve into the nuanced dynamics of power exchange, balancing personal agency with the desire to obey. They stress the importance of negotiation, trust, and open communication in these relationships. Listeners are also treated to light-hearted stories about winter weather challenges and the quirks of Australian wildlife. The discussion mixes insightful reflections with humor, making for an engaging chat on relationship dynamics and everyday life.

A Dominant wants to support their submissive but they don’t know how to do that and maintain their D/s dynamic. Here’s the question: My wife has voiced interest in kink play. She is submissive... The post Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re talking about the early days of reconnecting with our kinky selves – what it’s been like so far, how we got here, and more. In this episode: Join us this Friday,... The post Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities appeared first on Loving BDSM.