Loving BDSM

We’ve mentioned funishment many times in the past, but we’ve never devoted an episode to it. And it’s probably a good thing we’re doing this now because Kayla’s views on it have changed over... The post Funishment appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Dive into the tantalizing world of orgasm control! Discover various techniques such as edging and denial. The hosts spotlight the critical role of communication and consent, ensuring that both partners enjoy the experience. Whether you're curious or experienced, there's plenty of insight to enhance your intimate moments.

Yes, the hallmark of power exchange is that the Dom leads (or controls or has power, pick your term) and the submissive follows (or submits or serves). But that won’t always be the right... The post Following a Submissive’s Lead in Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

The answer to that question is, as always, it depends. But we’ve received the question before from someone who really liked this vanilla partner but really enjoyed kink, too. Here’s what we think about... The post Minisode 29: Should I Give Up Kink for a Partner? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re talking about love languages again — but instead of the original, we read Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love by Anne Hodder-Shipp (she/they). We briefly discuss each love... The post Revisiting Love Languages in Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Dive into the intriguing world of 'sub frenzy,' where intense desires can sweep submissives off their feet, blinding them to potential pitfalls. Learn how this emotional rush can cloud judgment and lead to impulsive choices, regardless of experience. The discussion highlights the critical need for self-advocacy and clear communication in maintaining healthy dynamics. Plus, enjoy an analogy about choosing a puppy that sheds light on the importance of compatibility in power exchanges. Don’t miss the insights on navigating this thrilling yet overwhelming phenomenon!

We’ve mentioned exhibitionism and voyeurism as kinks of ours multiple times of the years, but we’re FINALLY giving it a standalone episode. As always, it’s too big of a topic to be fully covered... The post Our Experience with Exhibitionism and Voyeurism appeared first on Loving BDSM.

What sets a submissive apart from a bottom in the BDSM world? The hosts dive into key distinctions, emphasizing the relational depth of submissives versus the physical focus of bottoms. They unpack common misconceptions, affirming the importance of both identities. Listeners also get to enjoy a celebratory giveaway tied to the podcast's anniversary. Tune in for insights that'll deepen your understanding of power dynamics in alternative relationships!

We received enough positive feedback from a previous episode where we responded and reacted to questions asked on BDSM subreddits that we thought we’d do it again! This week’s post range from violating safewords... The post Responding to BDSM Reddit Posts appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Discover the multifaceted nature of dominance, rooted in power, control, and leadership. The hosts discuss how dominance is a deeply personal experience, with a focus on nurturing the submissive's needs. They highlight the importance of self-control and patience in leadership, drawing intriguing parallels between dominance in relationships and effective business practices. This thoughtful conversation emphasizes communication and consent, urging listeners to recognize healthy control versus manipulation in power dynamics.