The Coach Approach Ministries Podcast

Episode Overview In this episode, Brian Miller from Coach Approach Ministries (CAM) welcomes MCC coach Lyssa deHart to discuss the powerful role metaphors play in coaching. Together, they explore how metaphors evoke awareness and facilitate deeper connections in coaching conversations, ultimately creating transformative experiences for clients. Key Insights on Metaphors in Coaching Metaphors evoke awareness: Rather than being mere questions, metaphors tap into deeper neurological patterns and create a partnership between the coach and the thinker (client). Somatic metaphors: These connect body experiences with coaching goals, allowing the thinker to engage more fully. For example, taking a bite of an apple may symbolize ownership and action in the thinker’s mind. Sticky metaphors: A metaphor is “sticky” when it resonates deeply with the thinker, leading to lasting change and commitment to actions. Coaches help clients identify these sticky metaphors to create more meaningful coaching experiences. Practical Examples The “Bite out of the Apple” metaphor: Lyssa shares how this simple metaphor connected to a client’s goals, unlocking new insights about their journey. Crossing the River Metaphor: In a coaching session, a client shifted the metaphor from a path to crossing a river, highlighting how metaphors adapt to each individual’s experience and deepen the conversation. Leadership Metaphor: A client’s shift from wanting to be a better leader to treating their team like they treat their customers turned a broad goal into a tangible, actionable metaphor. Special Webinar Invitation Join Lyssa deHart on November 14th, 2024, at 11 a.m. ET for a free webinar, The Science of Metaphors in Coaching, hosted by CAM. In this session, Lyssa will dive deeper into how metaphors impact the coaching process. Register: Go to coachapproachministries.org/metaphor to reserve your spot. Connect with Lissa DeHart LinkedIn: Connect with Lyssa for more insights on coaching. https://www.linkedin.com/in/lyssadehart/ Monthly Q&A: Lyssa offers a free monthly coaching Q&A session. Stay tuned for more resources and learning opportunities. Final Thoughts Metaphors bring incredible depth to coaching conversations, making them more intuitive, personal, and impactful. By embracing metaphors, coaches can help thinkers unlock new realms of self-awareness and growth. Next Steps If you're looking to further your coaching skills or are interested in exploring metaphors in your practice, don’t miss the webinar! Subscribe & Connect: Website: CoachApproachMinistries.org LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Email: info@coachapproachministries.org

In this insightful episode, Brian and Chad dive deep into the world of signals—specifically, the signals clients give that reveal their readiness and commitment to coaching. Starting with an amusing analogy about peacocks and their colorful feathers, they explore how signals in nature can tell us a lot about the robustness and survivability of an individual. The conversation then shifts to how coaches can apply this concept to identify clients who are truly coachable. Key Takeaways: The Power of Signals: Just as a peacock’s feathers signal its health, a client’s willingness to invest (both financially and emotionally) can be a key indicator of their readiness to change. Costly Signals in Coaching: A client’s willingness to pay for coaching often correlates with their readiness to do the hard work needed for transformation. Chad and Brian discuss why charging for coaching is about more than just money—it’s a signal of commitment. The Importance of Asking the Right Questions: Chad highlights the importance of asking clients, “What do you want? What will it cost? How willing are you to pay that price?” to gauge their true readiness for change. The Role of Applications and Barriers: Brian and Chad suggest that coaches should consider using applications or intake forms as an early test of a client’s coachability, signaling their willingness to put in the effort from the start. Credentialing and Signals: They also discuss how coaching credentials, like ACC or PCC, serve as a costly signal to clients, showing that a coach has gone through the necessary steps to ensure excellence. Why You Should Listen: This episode is essential listening for coaches who want to better assess potential clients’ commitment levels and avoid investing time and energy in those who aren’t ready for coaching. Plus, Chad and Brian’s humorous take on nature’s signals adds a fun twist to a valuable coaching lesson. Learn More: Visit coachapproachministries.org to explore more resources and start or further your coaching journey.   Tune in next week for more insights and practical tips! Subscribe & Connect: Website: CoachApproachMinistries.org LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Email: info@coachapproachministries.org

In this episode, Brian Miller, Executive Director of Coach Approach Ministries, sits down with Paul Burns, author of the new book Spiritual Intelligence: Becoming Spiritually Intelligent – Nine Paths Toward Your Most Loving Self. Together, they explore the intersection of spiritual intelligence, emotional health, and attachment theory, diving into what it means to develop a Christ-centered approach to becoming one’s most loving self. Paul shares personal experiences, insights from his coaching practice, and practical guidance on how we can cultivate a secure attachment to God, which fosters both spiritual and emotional growth. Key Topics Discussed: 1. Spiritual Intelligence – A Christ-Centered Approach:    - Paul introduces spiritual intelligence as the integration of emotional intelligence and attachment to God.    - He explains how this approach goes beyond emotional intelligence, focusing on developing a loving, Christ-centered presence in every interaction.    - By addressing the instinctual needs for self-defense or attack, spiritual intelligence helps individuals become more grounded and loving. 2. Attachment Theory and Relationship with God:    - Paul delves into attachment theory, explaining how it helps us understand our relationships with others and God.    - He highlights the significance of having a secure attachment to God, which builds confidence and resilience in spiritual growth.    - Brian shares his personal experience of overcoming insecurity by fostering a deeper attachment to God, thanks to the guidance and practices from Paul's book. 3. Non-Anxious Presence (Self-Differentiation):    - Paul unpacks the concept of self-differentiation, or maintaining emotional boundaries while staying empathetic and engaged.    - This is crucial for leaders, as it helps them stay calm and grounded while guiding others, without getting overwhelmed by others' emotions.    - Paul shares practical strategies for lowering anxiety, which fosters deeper empathy and a healthier presence in relationships and leadership roles. 4. Empathy, Busyness, and Leadership:    - Paul emphasizes the importance of empathy in leadership and relationships, noting that busyness is often the greatest enemy of empathy.    - He explains how being in a hurry can disconnect us from others and blind us to their needs, while slowing down makes us more present and compassionate.    - Being interruptible, as Jesus often was, is key to fostering a loving and empathetic presence in everyday interactions. 5. Practical Applications for Leaders, Pastors, and Coaches:    - Paul shares personal stories from his journey as a father, spouse, and leader, emphasizing the transformative power of spiritual intelligence.    - The episode offers insights for leaders, pastors, and ministry coaches on how they can apply spiritual intelligence to create secure, empathetic environments for those they serve.    - Paul invites listeners to explore his book, Spiritual Intelligence, and take the GPS Spiritual Inventory available on his website, soul-metrics.com, for further personal and spiritual development. This episode is packed with practical tools and spiritual wisdom for anyone looking to become a more loving, empathetic, and spiritually grounded leader or individual. Tune in next week for another episode packed with practical insights for coaches! Subscribe & Connect: Website: CoachApproachMinistries.org LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Email: info@coachapproachministries.org  

In this episode of The Coach Approach Ministries Podcast, executive director Brian Miller (Cam for short) is joined by president Chad Hall to dive into the intriguing topic of "false synonyms." They explore how commonly confused terms can lead to misunderstanding in coaching, life, and leadership. Key Takeaways: What Are False Synonyms? Chad defines false synonyms as words or concepts we assume are interchangeable but actually have distinct meanings. This confusion can mislead our thinking and actions. Example: Simple vs. Easy A prime example discussed is the distinction between "simple" and "easy." Simple means straightforward, while easy means without effort. Chad shares a personal story of digging a trench as a kid—while the task was simple, it was by no means easy. This distinction is important in coaching. For instance, a time management strategy may be simple to understand but difficult to implement. Our Brains and Pattern Matching Our brains naturally want to categorize and match patterns, but this can lead to false conclusions. As coaches, being aware of this tendency helps us guide clients to deeper awareness and avoid oversimplifications. Category vs. Example Chad explains how words like "influence" can be confused as examples rather than categories. Leadership, for example, involves many forms of influence, with inspiration being just one form. Recognizing these distinctions opens up new possibilities and prevents binary thinking. Coaching is More Than Asking Questions The conversation touches on the broader role of a coach. It's not just about asking questions—coaching involves creating contrast, highlighting distinctions, and evoking new awareness in clients. Success vs. Significance Another false synonym discussed is "success" and "significance." Clients often say they aren’t chasing success but instead want significance, yet this distinction may just be a different way to define success. Chad highlights how important it is for coaches to help clients clarify what success looks like for them. Final Thoughts: Brian and Chad emphasize that paying attention to false synonyms allows coaches to avoid confusion and guide clients more effectively. By challenging assumptions and exploring deeper meanings, coaches help clients see clearer paths to their goals. Additional Resources: Read Chad’s blog post on "Beware of False Synonyms" [here]. Interested in starting or furthering your coaching journey? Visit CoachApproachMinistries.org. Tune in next week for another episode packed with practical insights for coaches! Subscribe & Connect: Website: CoachApproachMinistries.org LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Email: info@coachapproachministries.org

In this episode of the Coach Approach Ministries podcast, Executive Director Brian Miller is joined by Travis Guse, who introduces his new book, Called2B, a discipleship guide designed to help individuals discern God's calling in their lives. Travis, who has served in various roles within the Southeastern district of his church body, shares how his book simplifies complex theological concepts into practical tools for everyday believers. The conversation also explores Travis's SIMPLE assessment—a new diagnostic tool for churches to evaluate their health and well-being. As Travis explains, the SIMPLE acronym stands for Spiritual Vitality, Impact, Managing Emotions, Purpose, Life-Giving Relationships, and Engagement. The assessment helps congregations measure both objective factors like attendance and financial giving, as well as subjective experiences such as emotional health and spiritual growth. Travis emphasizes the importance of not only taking the assessment but also engaging in coaching to process the results and implement interventions. This episode provides valuable insights for church leaders looking to strengthen their ministries and ensure their congregations thrive in a post-pandemic world. Get in touch with Travis: https://www.called2b.com/   FOLLOW US: LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Website: www.coachapproachministries.org

In this episode of the Coach Approach Ministries podcast, Executive Director Brian Miller and co-host Chad Hall dive into the intriguing concept of choosing your enemies wisely, inspired by Patrick Bet-David's book Your Next Five Moves. Chad shares his experience with the book, which, while primarily focused on business strategy, offers powerful insights on how identifying and engaging with your "enemies" can fuel your motivation and drive success. The discussion explores how the idea of an "enemy" isn't about hostility but rather about finding what pushes you to strive for excellence. Drawing on examples like Tom Brady and Quentin Tarantino, Brian and Chad illustrate how successful people use the concept of an enemy—whether it's a competitor, a challenge, or even an internal obstacle—as a source of inspiration and energy.  They also reflect on how coaches and leaders can apply this mindset to both their personal growth and the success of their clients, emphasizing the importance of caring deeply and allowing yourself to be emotionally invested in your goals.  Whether you're a coach, a business leader, or simply someone looking to unlock greater motivation, this episode offers valuable insights on harnessing the power of competition and emotion to elevate your game.   FOLLOW US: LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Website: www.coachapproachministries.org

In this episode of the Coach Approach Ministries podcast, Brian Miller, Executive Director of CAM, interviews Christine Wethman, an expert in Appreciative Inquiry (AI) and author of Be Quick to Listen: Practice the Spiritual Discipline of Christian Listening. They discuss the fundamentals of Appreciative Inquiry, a process that emphasizes asking questions and listening to foster positive change in organizations and individuals. Wethman explains how AI helps uncover past successes, envision future possibilities, and design steps to achieve desired outcomes. She shares a powerful example of using AI to revitalize a struggling church community, leading to the creation of programs that had a lasting impact. The conversation highlights the importance of listening, both in coaching and in AI, as a way to connect deeply with others and facilitate meaningful transformation. Contact Christine: hsthruai@gmail.com FOLLOW US: LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Website: www.coachapproachministries.org

In this episode of the Coach Approach Ministries podcast, Brian Miller, the Executive Director (the integrator), and Chad Hall, (the visionary) President, delve into the powerful synergy between visionaries and integrators, inspired by Gino Wickman’s "Traction" and "Rocket Fuel." They discuss how visionaries dream big and shape the future while integrators turn those visions into reality, ensuring that organizations stay focused and efficient. Through personal experiences and practical examples, they explore the importance of trust, collaboration, and creative tension in making this partnership work, emphasizing how these roles can transform any organization, big or small. Whether you’re a leader or curious about organizational dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights into what makes a visionary-integrator duo successful.   FOLLOW US: LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Website: www.coachapproachministries.org

As Associate Dean & Chair of Business at Montreat College's School of Adult and Graduate Studies, Dr. Paul Gratton is in a perfect position to help coaches think about how to develop their business, as well as give their clients a template for designing the client's business. Paul takes us through all nine areas of the model: Key activities Key resources Key partners Value Propositions Customer segments Channels Customer relationships Cost Structure Revenue Streams Here is a link to a Business Model Canvas template. You can hear more from Paul on our previously released podcasts: 278 Thirteen Competencies Required for Starting Your Own Practice with Paul Gratton - Part 2 277 Thirteen Competencies Required for Starting Your Own Practice with Paul Gratton - Part 1 243 Complex Systems with Paul Gratton FOLLOW US: LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/company/coach-approach-ministries Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coach.approach.ministries Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachapproachministries7538 Website: www.coachapproachministries.org

In this episode of Coach Approach Ministries, Executive Director Brian Miller dives deep into the world of AI and coaching with special guest Tina Haisman, founder of Thrivia.ai. Tina shares her vision of making life coaching more accessible by creating an AI-powered coach that’s available 24/7, while emphasizing the irreplaceable value of human connection. They discuss the challenges of training AI to follow the core competencies of coaching, the potential of AI to support and complement real-life coaching, and the innovative ways Thrivia.ai is bridging the gap between technology and personal growth. Tune in for an engaging conversation about the future of coaching and how AI is shaping the landscape. You can check out www.Thrivia.ai here.