Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson
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Oct 22, 2025 • 48min

Streaming Intimacy: The Rise of Cam Girls

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the world of cam girls and live-streaming sex work. From the rise of digital intimacy to the realities of performing online, we explore why people choose camming, the myths and stigmas that surround it, and what it teaches us about sex, technology, and human connection. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Oct 15, 2025 • 1h 5min

Why We Cheat: The Psychology of Infidelity

Why do people cheat? It’s one of the most painful questions in relationships—and the answers are more complex than you might think. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down what counts as cheating, explore the differences in how gender impacts infidelity, and uncover the most common reasons people stray. We’ll also look at the impact cheating has on couples and discuss whether relationships can truly heal after betrayal. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Oct 8, 2025 • 38min

Timing Intimacy: How Long Does Sex Really Last?

How long should sex last? The truth might surprise you. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay break down the myths, look at what research actually says about the average length of sex, and explore the many factors that influence timing—from biology to emotional connection. We’ll also reframe the conversation around quality over quantity and share tips for making intimacy more satisfying, no matter the clock. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Oct 1, 2025 • 38min

Pillow Talk: How Bedtime Routines Affect Your Sex Life

Your bedtime routine isn’t just about getting a good night’s sleep—it plays a major role in your sex life too. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores how nightly habits like screen time, mismatched schedules, and stress can get in the way of intimacy, while simple rituals like winding down together, setting the mood, and syncing routines can reignite passion. Tune in for science, practical tips, and real-life strategies to turn your bedtime into the ultimate connection time. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com    
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Sep 17, 2025 • 49min

Sex Injuries- ENCORE

The Dildo Whisperer has a recent sex adventure that inspired this week's topic. Find out how Romaine was injured during sex and learn about the most common sex injuries. How many times has Ajay been injured during sex? More times then he wants to admit!  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Sep 10, 2025 • 49min

Purity Culture: The Price of Staying Pure

Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We’ll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Sep 3, 2025 • 1h 12min

The Naked Truth- Men's Bodies & Self-Esteem

In this episode, Romaine and Ajay are joined by the hosts ofthe DNR Studios show the Cookie Jar.  Together they dive into the often-overlooked topic of men’s body image and self-esteem. From pressures to look muscular, worries about hair loss, aging, or penis size, to the impact of comparison culture and media ideals—men face unique challenges when it comes to feeling confident in their own skin. We’ll explore how these insecurities affect mental health, relationships, and sex, and share practical tools to build healthier self-esteem and sexual confidence. Whether you’ve struggled with body image yourself or want to better understand the men in your life, this episode offers insight, compassion, and strategies for embracing your body with confidence. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Aug 27, 2025 • 1h 9min

Ex Marks the Spot? Staying Friends After Love

Breaking up doesn’t always mean breaking away. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay dive into the complicated world of staying friends with an ex. From setting healthy boundaries to spotting red flags, we explore the emotional realities, potential perks, and pitfalls of keeping that post-breakup connection alive. Whether you’re hoping to preserve the friendship or wondering if it’s time to cut ties, this conversation will help you figure out what’s truly best for your heart—and your future. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 42min

TRANSparent: The Intimate Realities of Tori Easton

This isn't an ordinary episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Romaine has a crush and that crush led to one of the most incredible interviews of her 20+ year career. Romaine and Ajay are joined by model and actress Tori Easton. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Tori Easton shares her journey of transitioning as a trans woman- from early self discovery to navigating relationships, identiy, and intimacy. With honesty, humor and heart, Tori opens up about the emotional and physical aspects of transition, offering insight into what it really means to live authentically. Wheather you're trans, an ally, a fan or simpluy curious, this conversation is a must- listen for anyone looking to better understand gender, sexuality, and the human experience. If you take one thing away from this episode we hope that is it to remember to be kind. As kindness doesn't cost you anything and it can mean everything to someone else.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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Aug 13, 2025 • 1h

Dildo Whisperer- More Than Sex- Exploring Real Intimacy

How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

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