

Dildo Whisperer
Romaine Patterson
The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
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Dec 3, 2025 • 47min
Love at a Distance- Staying Connected with Sex Tech
Who says long-distance can't be intimate? This week on the Dildo Whisperer, we're turning up the heat with remote-controlled and app-connected sex toys—the tech keeping lovers close even when they're miles apart. From how these devices work to tips for creating emotional connection across screens, we'll explore the fun, the fantasy, and the future of digital intimacy. Whether you're separated by cities or continents, these toys prove that love (and pleasure) can travel at the speed of Wi-Fi. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Nov 26, 2025 • 52min
Holding Back for More- The Pleasure of Edging
Get ready to flirt with the edge! In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we explore the art of edging—the practice of teasing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and pulling back for even more intense pleasure. We'll talk about how to do it safely, why it heightens sensation, and how it can strengthen sexual connection and communication. Whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner, this deep dive into control, patience, and pleasure will have you rethinking how you finish. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Nov 19, 2025 • 45min
Barrier Benefits- Why Condoms Still Matter
They're small, they're mighty, and they just might save your life. From flavored to glow-in-the-dark, condoms have come a long way. Join us as we unpack the myths, the science, and the fun behind this bedroom essential. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Nov 5, 2025 • 50min
The Top 6 Sexual Fantasies
Everyone has fantasies—but some are more common (and more taboo) than you might think. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores six of the most popular sexual fantasies: sissification, forced-bi, role playing, cuckolding, threesomes, and blackmail scenarios. We'll break down what they mean, why people are drawn to them, and how to explore them safely with trust, consent, and communication. Whether you're curious about trying something new or just want to understand the psychology behind these desires, this episode is your guide to separating fantasy from reality and keeping exploration healthy and fun. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Oct 29, 2025 • 50min
The Unwanted Consequences of Sex
Sex can be exciting, intimate, and fulfilling—but sometimes it comes with consequences we don't plan for. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we dive into the physical, emotional, social, and even legal outcomes that can follow sexual experiences, from unintended pregnancy and STIs to regret, shame, and relationship challenges. With a focus on honesty and compassion, we explore how to protect yourself, navigate tricky situations, and reframe the conversation around safe and informed choices. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Oct 22, 2025 • 48min
Streaming Intimacy: The Rise of Cam Girls
In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the world of cam girls and live-streaming sex work. From the rise of digital intimacy to the realities of performing online, we explore why people choose camming, the myths and stigmas that surround it, and what it teaches us about sex, technology, and human connection. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Oct 15, 2025 • 1h 5min
Why We Cheat: The Psychology of Infidelity
Why do people cheat? It's one of the most painful questions in relationships—and the answers are more complex than you might think. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down what counts as cheating, explore the differences in how gender impacts infidelity, and uncover the most common reasons people stray. We'll also look at the impact cheating has on couples and discuss whether relationships can truly heal after betrayal. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Oct 8, 2025 • 38min
Timing Intimacy: How Long Does Sex Really Last?
How long should sex last? The truth might surprise you. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay break down the myths, look at what research actually says about the average length of sex, and explore the many factors that influence timing—from biology to emotional connection. We'll also reframe the conversation around quality over quantity and share tips for making intimacy more satisfying, no matter the clock. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Oct 1, 2025 • 38min
Pillow Talk: How Bedtime Routines Affect Your Sex Life
Your bedtime routine isn't just about getting a good night's sleep—it plays a major role in your sex life too. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores how nightly habits like screen time, mismatched schedules, and stress can get in the way of intimacy, while simple rituals like winding down together, setting the mood, and syncing routines can reignite passion. Tune in for science, practical tips, and real-life strategies to turn your bedtime into the ultimate connection time. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Sep 17, 2025 • 49min
Sex Injuries- ENCORE
The Dildo Whisperer has a recent sex adventure that inspired this week's topic. Find out how Romaine was injured during sex and learn about the most common sex injuries. How many times has Ajay been injured during sex? More times then he wants to admit! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com


