

Dildo Whisperer
Romaine Patterson
The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
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Sep 10, 2025 • 49min
Purity Culture: The Price of Staying Pure
Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We’ll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Sep 3, 2025 • 1h 12min
The Naked Truth- Men's Bodies & Self-Esteem
In this episode, Romaine and Ajay are joined by the hosts ofthe DNR Studios show the Cookie Jar. Together they dive into the often-overlooked topic of men’s body image and self-esteem. From pressures to look muscular, worries about hair loss, aging, or penis size, to the impact of comparison culture and media ideals—men face unique challenges when it comes to feeling confident in their own skin. We’ll explore how these insecurities affect mental health, relationships, and sex, and share practical tools to build healthier self-esteem and sexual confidence. Whether you’ve struggled with body image yourself or want to better understand the men in your life, this episode offers insight, compassion, and strategies for embracing your body with confidence. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Aug 27, 2025 • 1h 9min
Ex Marks the Spot? Staying Friends After Love
Breaking up doesn’t always mean breaking away. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay dive into the complicated world of staying friends with an ex. From setting healthy boundaries to spotting red flags, we explore the emotional realities, potential perks, and pitfalls of keeping that post-breakup connection alive. Whether you’re hoping to preserve the friendship or wondering if it’s time to cut ties, this conversation will help you figure out what’s truly best for your heart—and your future. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 42min
TRANSparent: The Intimate Realities of Tori Easton
This isn't an ordinary episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Romaine has a crush and that crush led to one of the most incredible interviews of her 20+ year career. Romaine and Ajay are joined by model and actress Tori Easton. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Tori Easton shares her journey of transitioning as a trans woman- from early self discovery to navigating relationships, identiy, and intimacy. With honesty, humor and heart, Tori opens up about the emotional and physical aspects of transition, offering insight into what it really means to live authentically. Wheather you're trans, an ally, a fan or simpluy curious, this conversation is a must- listen for anyone looking to better understand gender, sexuality, and the human experience. If you take one thing away from this episode we hope that is it to remember to be kind. As kindness doesn't cost you anything and it can mean everything to someone else. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Aug 13, 2025 • 1h
Dildo Whisperer- More Than Sex- Exploring Real Intimacy
How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Aug 6, 2025 • 52min
How Long Should You Wait? Timing Sex in a New Relationship
How long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? The dildo whisperer takes a look at this question and provides some methods for you to consider when asking yourself what the right time is? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Jul 30, 2025 • 57min
Behind Closed Doors: The History of Bathhouses
Romaine and Ajay are taking a trip to the bathhouse! Learn about the history of bathhouses and how gays turned up the sexuality in them. Plus, find out who go their start in music in a bathhouse! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Jul 23, 2025 • 53min
Not Just the Pill- Birth Control Beyond the Basics
Birth control is a hot topic when it comes to sex. Who's responsibility is it? What method is the best option? What works and what doesn't? For as long as people have been having sex protecting themselves against an unwanted pregnancy has been important. This week we are discussing all things birth control. And the dildo whisperer has a question for Ajay that stumps him completely. He called his wife for help but did she know the answer? Tune in to find out. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Jul 16, 2025 • 42min
Porn Literacy
Porn is everywhere now a days but understanding how porn impacts our sex lives and our daily interactions is very important. This week the Dildo Whisperer is going to go deep with a conversation about porn literacy and why it matters. Tune in to learn more about the relationship between porn and real life sexual encounters. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Jul 9, 2025 • 44min
Pride in Pleasure- LGBTQ+ Sex Ed Unfiltered
June is gay pride month and this week the dildo whisperer is talking about how being part of the LGBTQ+ community impacts a person's view and take on sexuality. This discussion covers some of the differences in sex education for queer people and brands and toy shops that are inclusive of the queer identity. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com